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From john, Child's Age 12 - 07/04/09 - IP#: 69.123.175.xxx Click here to reply  
today again, as soon as i went downstairs, i caught sammie eating.that's when i decided to finally put locks on everything. while sammie was outside, i locked up the fridge, and cabinets with special locks with combinations. suddenly, i heard slamming in the kitchen. i saw sammie crying, and punding herself against the fridge, screaming she wants cake. i told her calmly she would thank me later, and she slammed into me, and knocked me to the ground. she screamed again that she wanted cake. i told her no, and she sat crying in the kitchen for most of the day. when it was time for lunch, i secretly opened the locks, and pulled out a bag of salad for her. she ate the whole bag in a few minutes or so, and screamed she was hungry again. i sent her up to her room, and she seemed quiet for a while, until i came in and found that not only was she eating food in the kitchen, but piles of candy... (view more)
Reply from lily, Child's Age 14 - 06/17/10  - IP#: 99.233.114.xxx

From john, Child's Age 12 - 07/03/09 - IP#: 69.123.174.xxx Click here to reply  
as soon as i went downstairs today, i saw sammie eating loads of food downstairs. i told her to go take a jog, and excersize it off. i stayed outside to make sure that she was really jogging. i watched her try to run, and less than halfway down the block she became red in the face, and started panting. she asked if she could stop because she was hungry and i told her to go around the whole block. when she came back, she was all covered in sweat, and exausted. she went right back into the kitchen and started to eat.then, we decided to go to the pool, but her only tankini was in the wash, and nothing else fit her but a two peice because her belly wasn't being squeezed in. when standing up, her stomach is the exact length of her arms sicking out in front of her. she has gotten really big, and i really didn't want her to go in it, because she looked inapropriately dressed. she can't really... (view more)
Reply from bj - 07/12/09  - IP#: 70.145.32.xxx
Reply from john, Child's Age 12 - 07/04/09  - IP#: 69.123.175.xxx
Reply from Taylor, Age 15 - 07/04/09  - IP#: 75.66.40.xxx
Reply from Mary, Child's Age 11 - 07/03/09  - IP#: 12.229.39.xxx

From john, Child's Age 12 - 07/02/09 - IP#: 69.114.130.xxx Click here to reply  
a little while ago, i caught sammie as soon as she finished four leftover hotdogs in the firdge. her stomach was still growling. i decided that since this was hard for her, i would let her eat whatever she wanted today, and she could start the diet the next day. she ran to the fridge, and grabbed the unopened chocolate cake we bought. i ate a bite to take some food away from her. she shoveled in peice after peice, until there was a tiny bit left. then, she went back into the fridge, and ate two doughnuts. i asked her if she was done, and she said no, not yet. she began to get some bloating, i think, because she unzipped her jeans, and lifted up her shirt so her belly was loose. i went out of the kitchen, and throughout the rest of the day, i saw her wolfing down meal after meal after meal. she then told me she had decided she dosen't want to be a model, she wants to be fat so she can eat... (view more)

From john, Child's Age 12 - 07/02/09 - IP#: 173.3.183.xxx Click here to reply  
this diet thing has been so hard for sammie. every time i see her reach for something unhealthy, i remind her of her goals. yesterday, she even started crying when i made her give up a hamburger and fries. we went to the pool a few days ago, and she wore a tankini. her stomach was too big for it, though, and bursted out. she didn't even go swimming, though, just sat and ate a pretzel and some soda. there wasactually this little belt to put on over the bathing suitm so i tried to get it on. i finally squeezed it over her belly, and closed it on the last notch. for a while she went around, looking squeezed in, and when she sat down, it opened, and popped off. looking at her belly, compared to the other overweight girls, she looked like she was much fatter than all of them. i was wearing a belt with my pants before i cahnged into my bathing suit, and it was too big on me, so i tried it on... (view more)

From john, Child's Age 12 - 06/28/09 - IP#: 69.114.130.xxx Click here to reply  
do the marks from rings around your stomach ever go away when you get thinner? please let me know, because my daughter has alot of them, and she reeally wants to model the bikini line, one of her goals, in abercrombie and fitch!!
Reply from Christine, Age 17 - 07/03/09  - IP#: 12.175.230.xxx
Reply from Jocelyn - 06/28/09  - IP#: 96.51.84.xxx
Reply from Taylor, Age 15 - 06/28/09  - IP#: 75.66.40.xxx

From john, Child's Age 12 - 06/28/09 - IP#: 69.114.130.xxx Click here to reply  
well, today, sammie ate a litte better than normal.
Reply from Taylor, Age 15 - 06/29/09  - IP#: 75.66.40.xxx

From john, Child's Age 12 - 06/25/09 - IP#: 69.114.130.xxx Click here to reply  
thanks for all of the advice. especially between kyle and sammie. i got kyle alone, and calmly asked him what his problem is. he tried to ignore the real question, and told me about how much sammie ate yesterday. after a while of trying to get through to him, he told me he was scared about her, and didn't want her to keep gaining weight. he told me he's afraid she'll get a health condition, and makes fun of her to try to get her to see she has to lose weight. by the way, kyle just got a call from abercrombie and fitch this morning, after staying up the entire night to hear the results. he made it! i told him i was proud of him, but would be even more proud of him if he went and told his sister what he told me, in a nice way. first, he tried to stall, by calling his girlfriend, but then i saw him awkwardly enter sammie's room. at first, her began muttering about all the food wrappers,... (view more)
Reply from hii, Age 13 - 06/25/09  - IP#: 192.18.101.xxx
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From john, Child's Age 12 - 06/24/09 - IP#: 69.127.193.xxx Click here to reply  
hi all. today, i went out to a party, and i made Sammie stay home so she wouldn't gain more weight from all the food eating there. well, anyway, she screamed, and was crying when i left. when i came home, Sammie was at the table, eating chicken, steak chicken nuggets, hot dogs, cake, ice cream, chips, hamburgers, and a whole bunch of candy layed out on the table. i didn't bother yelling at her. then, when she was almost done with it all, she went over to the fridge for more. my wife was on a buisiness trip for almost the whole day, so i was alone with her and kyle. he asked her howlong she'd beeneating for, and she said, since we had left for the party. after she wasdone eating the second round, she took a break and sat down. i was about to yell at her for eating all the food, when i heard a popping sound. her button down shirt came halfway undone, and her jean button popped right open, ... (view more)
Reply from Taylor, Age 15 - 06/26/09  - IP#: 75.66.40.xxx
Reply from Yale - 06/26/09  - IP#: 129.49.51.xxx
Reply from Taylor, Child's Age 15 - 06/25/09  - IP#: 75.66.40.xxx
Reply from Taylor, Child's Age 15 - 06/25/09  - IP#: 75.66.40.xxx
Reply from john, Child's Age 12 - 06/25/09  - IP#: 69.114.130.xxx
Reply from Yale - 06/24/09  - IP#: 129.49.7.xxx
Reply from hii, Age 13 - 06/24/09  - IP#: 192.18.101.xxx

From john, Child's Age 12 - 06/23/09 - IP#: 69.123.65.xxx Click here to reply  
hello, everyone. later today, i apologized to my daughter, and she accepted it. she is good at hiding her feelings when she wants to. like today, i cleaned up her room while she went to the grocery store, and i found her journal. one of the entries went like this. It's not fair. Why can't i be the model?it's so embarrassing when i go anywhere, and i want to be homeschooled so badly. my friend told me to join her for dance, a few days ago, but my leotard ripped when i tried to get it on. i don't want to say anything to mom and dad, becuase they will laugh.__
i feel so helpless. she weighs more than double me, my wife, and her brother. i guess i should tell you about it. when she wasborn, she was a healthy weight, up until she was two years old. she always asked for more when we fed her, and i assumed she was just hungry. when she was three i noticed she was little chubby and thought ... (view more)

Reply from Shazza, Child's Age 14 - 06/16/15  - IP#: 110.147.171.xxx
Reply from Taylor, Child's Age 15 - 06/25/09  - IP#: 75.66.40.xxx

From john, Child's Age 12 - 06/23/09 - IP#: 69.127.193.xxx Click here to reply  
yesterday, i sat down my daughter, and tried to have a talk with her. i asked her why she ate so much on the cruise, and she started yelling, why do you always watch what i ea, but never kyle? by the way, he is 15, i accidentally messed up the numbers before. but i said, because he has no weight problem!, and she started screaming, and saying she can eat whatever he wants, and i told her no. so she went right to the fridge, grabbed a large chunk of cake with her hands, went up to my face, and shoved it in her mouth. then, she spit some onto me, and i went crazy yelling. i lifted up part of her shirt, and poked her stomach, and said where did that come from, huh? she cried even louder, and kyle laughed, and my wife told her to take a jog around the block with kyle. when they came back, kyle was mad, saying everyone was asking if he was the personal trainer, and laughing at sammie, who... (view more)
Reply from lily, Child's Age 14 - 06/17/10  - IP#: 99.233.114.xxx
Reply from Taylor, Age 15 - 06/24/09  - IP#: 75.66.40.xxx
Reply from hii, Age 13 - 06/23/09  - IP#: 67.188.198.xxx
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From Kya, Child's Age 12 - 06/22/09 - IP#: 97.122.248.xxx Click here to reply  
My daughter is now 5'3 but she still has lots of fat in her stomach, when she sits down she has love handles. Any advice on how to lose that fat? I just want her to be happy and she has very low self esteem when shopping for cloths... please post tips and advice!

From john, Child's Age 12 - 06/20/09 - IP#: 69.123.160.xxx Click here to reply  
we are back from our cruise vacation, early in the morning. i feel so guilty for letting sammie eat so much on the ship now, bacause i didn't know she would really eat all day. she definitely looks like she has gained weight. when we left the ship, her stomach was literally sticking out of her shirt. it isn't flabby, though, it is firm, and round,she does have love handles and fat rolls, but it dosen't hang down unless she sits. yesterday, when my wife finally convinced her to go swimming, we found her bathing suit no longer fit her, either, mainly in the waist part. also, we found out she gained an extra thirty pounds. she just keeps getting bigger and bigger, and even a member on the ship said to her with a laugh:i saw you all the time by that buffet table. that stomach of your sure looks like it knows how to fit it all in!
we heard another rude comment while leaving, from a... (view more)

Reply from Taylor, Age 15 - 06/24/09  - IP#: 75.66.40.xxx
Reply from Jocelyn - 06/20/09  - IP#: 96.51.84.xxx

From john, Child's Age 12 - 06/18/09 - IP#: 69.123.161.xxx Click here to reply  
i was able to get internet access on the ship, so i will keep you posted with updates in my daughter. i am a little worried about her. since we've gotten on the ship, all she has done is eat. my wife told her to take a break, and go do something with her brother, but she started to cry, and said she was hungry.whenever we go on cruises, she usually gains alotof weight, but she has never eaten this intensely before. i am worried it is because we told her we were okay with whatever she looked like. by the afternoon, it was time for the chocolate and desserts buffet to open, and truthfully, she never left the room. when she sat down, i saw that her belly extended a little past her knees. she continued to eat until it was time for bed. kyle told me that her pants looked too tight, so i went over to check it out. she looked completely bloated, even her double chin looked bigger than usual,... (view more)
Reply from john, Child's Age 12 - 06/23/09  - IP#: 69.127.193.xxx
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Reply from john, Child's Age 12 - 06/22/09  - IP#: 24.186.86.xxx
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From john, Child's Age 12 - 06/17/09 - IP#: 69.123.161.xxx Click here to reply  
yesterday, we went to a pretty fancy resteraunt, we like to go out to eat alot, and my daughter ate a humongous amount of food. she would not touch the salad, but drank two bowls of soup, and had the whole plate of cheesy fries, which was our appetizer. again, she had to wear one of my belts, too keep her shirt on over her stomach. next, she refilled her soda four times, and ordered a hot dog and hamburger duo, her favorites. after wolfing the meal down, she ordered another of the same dish. she was about to order one more, when i heard her groaning, and rubbing her belly. i went over to help her, and found that her stomach was being squeezed by the belt. i put it on the highest notch for her, and she proceded to eat the third plate of food. by then, it was time for dessert, she has a very large appetite, so we let her get the mini cake for herself, plus a chocolate milkshake. she then... (view more)

From john, Child's Age 12 - 06/17/09 - IP#: 24.186.86.xxx Click here to reply  
thank you, taylor, for that caring remark. when i typed that, i was implying that she be healthy, since healthy is better when you are thinner. i wouldn't mind if she were 500 pounds, but it is hurting her self esteem, and truthfully, i do feel embarrassed. not of her, of myself. i let her become the size she is now, and people like to make fun, especially if they are from a thin family. also, i want her to be thin because i want her dreams of a model to come true. but she is happy when she eats, so i will let her eat. i just hope somehow she can be healthier, and have a slimmer appearence.

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