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From Randy, Child's Age 17 - 02/03/20 - IP#: 71.224.67.xxx Click here to reply  
Hey everyone, I posted about my son Isaac a few months ago (and forgot to follow up, sorry!). He actually stopped gaining weight as quickly once he joined the football team, so I thought he’d be able to lose the weight eventually. However, that wasn’t the case; ever since football ended back in November, he’s been gaining weight even more quickly than before! I think the football coach weighed him in at 320 during the season, but he’s definitely a lot heavier than that now, maybe even over 350! I honestly wasn’t even aware of how much he had gained because he always wears really baggy clothes, but about a week ago he was walking around the house shirtless and I noticed the stretch marks all over his body and his belly jiggling everywhere, noticeably bigger than I remember it was back in the summer. When I tried to press him about his weight, he just said that he was “bulking up” for next... (view more)

From Tessa, Child's Age 14 - 01/27/20 - IP#: 100.14.185.xxx Click here to reply  
I posted a while ago about my 14 year old son Jack who was, at the time chubby-to-overweight (five foot six, 179lbs). This was in late November, and my biggest worry at the time was his rapid weight gain.
Since then, I have been trying really hard to motivate him to lose weight, but he has been hesitent and has often lashed out.
To make matters worse, his appetite has gone through the roof. On the rare occassion we order pizza, we will order two large pies for the five of us (Me, DS 16 who is on a successful diet so isnt eating too much, DS 9 who is skinny as a string bean, and DH who is, admittedly obese) which I think is a perfectly fair amount with maybe a few slices to put in the fridge for a snack later. But Jack will devour his 2 pieces, then whine until we allow him more, and then talk about how he could eat a whole pizza himself. Same with everything, nothing is ever... (view more)

Reply from Janis, Child's Age 14 - 01/29/20  - IP#: 72.235.193.xxx
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Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 01/28/20  - IP#: 174.239.5.xxx

From Mark, Child's Age 14 - 01/18/20 - IP#: 108.65.80.xxx Click here to reply  
Hey everyone, I’m a father of three boys, 17, 14, and 12 are their ages. As a single father, I’ve never been one to say no, which has led to all of my boys to be on the heavier side. My oldest is in the 400s while the two younger boys are in the 300s. It has been a minute since I’ve had the chance to get them on the scale, so I’ll have to update their weights once I do.
Reply from Dave, Child's Age 16 - 02/13/20  - IP#: 77.16.209.xxx
Reply from Janis, Child's Age 14 - 02/05/20  - IP#: 72.235.193.xxx
Reply from Anthony, Child's Age 17 - 01/30/20  - IP#: 93.186.202.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 01/29/20  - IP#: 174.239.5.xxx
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Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 01/29/20  - IP#: 174.239.5.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 01/29/20  - IP#: 174.239.5.xxx
Reply from Janis, Child's Age 14 - 01/29/20  - IP#: 72.235.193.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 01/28/20  - IP#: 174.239.5.xxx
Reply from Dave, Child's Age 16 - 01/29/20  - IP#: 159.203.185.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 01/26/20  - IP#: 174.239.3.xxx
Reply from Mark, Child's Age 14 - 01/26/20  - IP#: 108.65.80.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 01/25/20  - IP#: 174.239.3.xxx
Reply from Dave, Child's Age 16 - 01/26/20  - IP#: 209.97.159.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 01/25/20  - IP#: 174.239.1.xxx
Reply from Fabian, Child's Age 13 - 01/25/20  - IP#: 89.245.107.xxx
Reply from Brett, Child's Age 13 - 01/25/20  - IP#: 185.153.176.xxx
Reply from Fabian, Child's Age 13 - 01/25/20  - IP#: 89.245.107.xxx
Reply from Brett, Child's Age 13 - 01/25/20  - IP#: 181.214.40.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 01/23/20  - IP#: 174.239.7.xxx
Reply from Dave, Child's Age 16 - 01/23/20  - IP#: 159.203.185.xxx
Reply from Fabian, Child's Age 13 - 01/23/20  - IP#: 89.245.58.xxx
Reply from Mark, Child's Age 14 - 01/23/20  - IP#: 108.65.80.xxx
Reply from Dave, Child's Age 16 - 01/23/20  - IP#: 159.203.185.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 01/23/20  - IP#: 174.239.7.xxx
Reply from Mark, Child's Age 14 - 01/23/20  - IP#: 108.65.80.xxx
Reply from Fabian, Child's Age 13 - 01/23/20  - IP#: 89.245.58.xxx
Reply from Fabian, Child's Age 13 - 01/23/20  - IP#: 89.245.58.xxx
Reply from Dave, Child's Age 16 - 01/23/20  - IP#: 209.97.159.xxx
Reply from Brett, Child's Age 13 - 01/22/20  - IP#: 181.214.46.xxx
Reply from Dave, Child's Age 16 - 01/23/20  - IP#: 209.97.159.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 01/22/20  - IP#: 174.239.7.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 01/22/20  - IP#: 174.239.7.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 01/22/20  - IP#: 174.239.7.xxx
Reply from Mark, Child's Age 14 - 01/22/20  - IP#: 108.65.80.xxx
Reply from Dave, Child's Age 16 - 01/22/20  - IP#: 209.97.159.xxx
Reply from Felix, Child's Age 16 - 01/21/20  - IP#: 172.58.229.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 01/21/20  - IP#: 174.239.7.xxx
Reply from Fabian, Child's Age 13 - 01/21/20  - IP#: 82.113.98.xxx
Reply from Brett, Child's Age 13 - 01/21/20  - IP#: 181.214.40.xxx
Reply from Fabian, Child's Age 13 - 01/21/20  - IP#: 82.113.98.xxx
Reply from Fabian, Child's Age 13 - 01/21/20  - IP#: 82.113.98.xxx
Reply from Brett, Child's Age 13 - 01/21/20  - IP#: 181.214.40.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 01/21/20  - IP#: 174.239.7.xxx
Reply from Dave, Child's Age 16 - 01/21/20  - IP#: 159.203.185.xxx
Reply from Fabian, Child's Age 13 - 01/21/20  - IP#: 89.245.49.xxx
Reply from Fabian, Child's Age 13 - 01/21/20  - IP#: 89.245.49.xxx
Reply from Dave, Child's Age 16 - 01/20/20  - IP#: 159.203.185.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 01/20/20  - IP#: 174.239.7.xxx
Reply from Mark, Child's Age 14 - 01/20/20  - IP#: 108.65.80.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 01/20/20  - IP#: 174.239.7.xxx
Reply from Dave, Child's Age 16 - 01/20/20  - IP#: 159.203.185.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 01/20/20  - IP#: 174.239.7.xxx
Reply from Fabian, Child's Age 13 - 01/20/20  - IP#: 89.245.49.xxx
Reply from Mark, Child's Age 14 - 01/20/20  - IP#: 108.65.80.xxx
Reply from Dave, Child's Age 16 - 01/20/20  - IP#: 159.203.185.xxx
Reply from Fabian, Child's Age 13 - 01/20/20  - IP#: 89.245.49.xxx
Reply from Mark, Child's Age 14 - 01/20/20  - IP#: 108.65.80.xxx
Reply from Dave, Child's Age 16 - 01/20/20  - IP#: 159.203.185.xxx
Reply from Mark, Child's Age 14 - 01/20/20  - IP#: 108.65.80.xxx
Reply from Dave, Child's Age 16 - 01/20/20  - IP#: 159.203.185.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 01/19/20  - IP#: 174.239.7.xxx
Reply from Mark, Child's Age 14 - 01/19/20  - IP#: 108.65.80.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 01/18/20  - IP#: 174.239.7.xxx
Reply from Dave, Child's Age 16 - 01/19/20  - IP#: 159.203.185.xxx
Reply from Mark, Child's Age 14 - 01/18/20  - IP#: 108.65.80.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 01/18/20  - IP#: 174.239.7.xxx
Reply from Dave, Child's Age 16 - 01/19/20  - IP#: 159.203.185.xxx
Reply from Mark, Child's Age 14 - 01/18/20  - IP#: 108.65.80.xxx
Reply from Dave, Child's Age 16 - 01/18/20  - IP#: 159.203.185.xxx

From Timothy, Child's Age 12 - 01/17/20 - IP#: 217.138.199.xxx Click here to reply  
Hello,
I have to admit I feel a bit lost at my situation. My wife and I split up about two years ago. At first we were able to do regular visits then I had to move for work and now that I've moved back the change in my son is horrifying me. He has always been a chubby child, maybe on the fat side of chubby. Now though he is definitely fat. From everything I can tell his mother gives into his every food whim. He has tried tantrums on me and at first I tried to say no but they got so severe I ended up giving in. He's a 230 lb kid having a full blown tantrum. That's a little scary even for me as that's a full 70 lbs more than I weigh. I have been doing my best to only cook healthy meals. At first he wouldn't eat them but now he knows it's all he's getting. However, he has told me he hates coming to mine because I'm mean. I don't want to lose my son, I feel I've already lost so much... (view more)

Reply from Janis, Child's Age 14 - 01/29/20  - IP#: 72.235.193.xxx
Reply from Brett, Child's Age 13 - 01/21/20  - IP#: 181.214.40.xxx
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From Dave, Child's Age 16 - 12/24/19 - IP#: 178.232.203.xxx Click here to reply  
Hello! With December and christmas celebrations, how are you with overweight kids doing it? Still keeping some eye on diet and eating, or just letting loose for those weeks? I am kind of conflicted on what's good - I don't want to ruin the holidays, but at the same time.. Well, you know..
Reply from Dave, Child's Age 16 - 01/15/20  - IP#: 174.128.180.xxx
Reply from Janis, Child's Age 14 - 01/15/20  - IP#: 72.235.193.xxx
Reply from Anthony, Child's Age 17 - 01/06/20  - IP#: 85.25.214.xxx
Reply from Dave, Child's Age 16 - 01/06/20  - IP#: 90.146.104.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 01/05/20  - IP#: 174.239.3.xxx
Reply from Janis, Child's Age 14 - 01/02/20  - IP#: 72.235.193.xxx
Reply from Janis, Child's Age 14 - 01/02/20  - IP#: 72.235.193.xxx
Reply from Tessa, Child's Age 14 - 01/01/20  - IP#: 100.14.185.xxx
Reply from Felix, Child's Age 16 - 12/29/19  - IP#: 172.58.110.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 12/28/19  - IP#: 174.239.3.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 12/28/19  - IP#: 174.239.3.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 12/28/19  - IP#: 174.239.3.xxx
Reply from Dave, Child's Age 16 - 12/28/19  - IP#: 77.16.53.xxx
Reply from Dave, Child's Age 16 - 12/28/19  - IP#: 77.16.53.xxx
Reply from Tessa, Child's Age 14 - 12/27/19  - IP#: 100.14.185.xxx
Reply from Janis, Child's Age 14 - 12/26/19  - IP#: 72.235.193.xxx
Reply from Felix, Child's Age 16 - 12/25/19  - IP#: 172.58.110.xxx
Reply from Dave, Child's Age 16 - 12/25/19  - IP#: 178.232.203.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 12/24/19  - IP#: 174.239.3.xxx

From Tessa, Child's Age 14 - 11/28/19 - IP#: 100.14.185.xxx Click here to reply  
I am the mother of three lovely boys, age 16, 14, and 9.I am mostly worried about my middle son, Jack.
My two oldest have always been on the heavier side, especially actually my oldest. Jack was always what I would consider chubby but his weight has been gradually going up over the past couple years, something the doctor has noted.
But over the last six months it has ballooned really bad, and it is painful for me to see. Jack was always very into sports, especially football. He also started high school in September, not sure if that has anything to do with it.
Last june, at a doctor's appointment he weighed 162lbs at five foot five, making him both tall and a bit bigger then he should. His older brother weighed Around 170ish pounds and was 5 foot 8.
After noticing clothes that fit him then, and were even new at the time no longer fit, a month and a half ago we decided... (view more)

Reply from Tessa, Child's Age 14 - 12/15/19  - IP#: 100.14.185.xxx
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Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 11/28/19  - IP#: 174.239.3.xxx

From Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 11/18/19 - IP#: 174.239.4.xxx Click here to reply  
My son Lane and I met with people at the Pediatric Obesity Clinic last Friday. Lane had a complete physical (he had blood tests Thursday). The good news is that he shows no signs of pre-diabetes. His blood pressure and cholesterol are normal but that means he still needs to lose weight. He's 4'8.5" and weighed 218, 130 more than he should. I was...
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 12/18/19  - IP#: 174.239.0.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 12/18/19  - IP#: 174.239.0.xxx
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Reply from Janis, Child's Age 14 - 12/05/19  - IP#: 72.235.193.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 12/03/19  - IP#: 174.239.3.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 11/27/19  - IP#: 174.239.1.xxx
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Reply from Janis, Child's Age 14 - 11/20/19  - IP#: 72.235.193.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 11 - 11/18/19  - IP#: 174.239.4.xxx
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From Zach, Child's Age 16 - 11/11/19 - IP#: 136.152.143.xxx Click here to reply  
My son, has always been a bigger kid but never really fat until now. He joined the school swim team 2 years ago, and now the weight is just coming on. At 6 foot 4, its easy for him to disguise his eating as necessary, but what once used to be maybe just a soft belly, has turned into one that really sticks out. He started this year at 170, but has ballooned to 200 and im scared that he will only get bigger.
Reply from Catherine, Child's Age 15 - 11/18/19  - IP#: 49.206.210.xxx
Reply from Janis, Child's Age 14 - 11/14/19  - IP#: 72.235.193.xxx
Reply from Felix, Child's Age 16 - 11/12/19  - IP#: 172.58.229.xxx
Reply from Curtis, Child's Age 16 - 11/12/19  - IP#: 67.60.59.xxx

From Linda, Child's Age 17 - 11/11/19 - IP#: 78.31.205.xxx Click here to reply  
Hey guys how are you all doing?
Reply from Daniel, Child's Age 17 - 11/18/19  - IP#: 108.26.202.xxx

From Felix, Child's Age 16 - 10/22/19 - IP#: 172.58.231.xxx Click here to reply  
Hi all, just an update on the situation with my son. I saw Jason for a few days last week and I was quite concerned. He’s definitely much larger than when I saw him in August, I can tell that he’s been eating a lot. His health seemed to have decreased, I noticed that he has been getting more winded going upstairs and bending over to tie his sneakers. We went on a hike as the weather was quite nice and it was obvious that he was struggling somewhat. I’ll admit that the hike wasn’t the easiest but it wasn’t the first time he’s done that hike with me.
When I’ve spoken to my wife about the situation she says that she cooks about half the time and they eat a healthier takeaway on the others. She has lost a noticeable amount of weight over the time period without exercising so I know that the food mustn’t be that unhealthy, contrary to what I knew prior. She and I have both talked to... (view more)

Reply from Janis, Child's Age 14 - 11/27/19  - IP#: 72.235.193.xxx
Reply from Felix, Child's Age 16 - 11/20/19  - IP#: 172.58.238.xxx
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From Dave, Child's Age 16 - 10/06/19 - IP#: 67.60.59.xxx Click here to reply  
Hello everyone, I'm back again with another update on my son. Just to reply to some old comments, I started restricting video game time and making him go out to exercise but something tells me hes not actually exercising. He doesn't come back sweaty or hot, and is usually wiping away crumbs. I've asked but he wont say what he was actually doing. Hes still getting bigger, its hard for him to squeeze into the car now. Hes now opting to sit in the back so he has more room. Whenever something embarrassing happened(liking popping a button or breaking furniture), he was definitely embarrassed but never did something about his weight. My brother and my father tend to make passing comments as well about how tubby he's getting, but he doesn't seem to mind. No family history of obesity, most people seem to discourage his hefty weight. He was pretty chubby before his mom passed, but has since ballooned to an enormous size. Any suggestions on how to tackle my boy's expanding waist.
Reply from Janis, Child's Age 14 - 10/16/19  - IP#: 72.235.193.xxx
Reply from Sarah, Child's Age 12 - 10/13/19  - IP#: 39.44.177.xxx
Reply from Sarah, Child's Age 12 - 10/13/19  - IP#: 39.44.177.xxx
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From Jesse, Child's Age 12 - 09/11/19 - IP#: 174.239.30.xxx Click here to reply  
Just an update on my 2 boys. They both started school last week, Leo in 7th grade and Lane in 6th. At their physicals last week, Leo is 63" and weighs 200 and Lane is 56" and weighs 206. We were referred to the Pediatric Obesity Clinic near us because even though Leo has lost weight, he is still very heavy and Lane has just...
Reply from Janis, Child's Age 14 - 11/14/19  - IP#: 72.235.193.xxx
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Reply from Randy, Child's Age 15 - 09/25/19  - IP#: 212.71.254.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 12 - 09/19/19  - IP#: 174.239.32.xxx
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From Linda, Child's Age 16 - 09/05/19 - IP#: 94.12.27.xxx Click here to reply  
Hi i was wondering if i could get any advice as it seems like all of a sudden my daughters weight has ballooned and is now out of hand she is 16 and weighs 256lbs and this has only happened recently as when she last stepped on the scales maybe 6 months ago she weighed 187lbs i dont know what to do her weight is mainly on her stomach she has been asked many times if she is pregnant but doesnt appear to be embarrassed or concerned about her weight how can i talk to her without making her feel body conscious? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Reply from Janis, Child's Age 14 - 10/16/19  - IP#: 72.235.193.xxx
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From Randy, Child's Age 16 - 08/19/19 - IP#: 71.224.67.xxx Click here to reply  
Hey everyone, I've been on this board a few times in the past reading about other parents' struggles with their obese children and how to manage their weight, but I think it's finally time for me to post something; my son's weight has spiraled out of control lately, and I would really appreciate all the advice you can give.
I'm writing about my son, Isaac. He's 16 years old and is 6'3" tall. He's always been a big guy (one of the tallest in his grade) but recently he's been getting pretty chubby. I just found out a few days ago at a doctor's appointment that he was already 312 pounds; just last year he was only around 260! Over the past few years, his appetite has steadily grown; nowadays, he always gets seconds for dinner and sometimes even gets thirds. I also suspect that he's been eating fast food behind my back; he has a car now so he can drive to fast food places on his own... (view more)

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From Allison, Child's Age 21 - 08/11/19 - IP#: 75.181.75.xxx Click here to reply  
Please see my previous post for more info.
My granddaughter went back to school recently. She was very excited for the open house and the school encourages the whole family to come so I went, along with my daughter, and granddaughters other grandparents. While we were there, you could see just how large my granddaughter (I’ll call her Ava) was compared to the other children. Her other grandparents approached me with their concerns. Her grandfather is very into running, and he said he tried to get Ava to run with him, but she said it hurt her stomach too much. She was winded before they even got started. When she’s with them, they also try to make her healthy meals, but she won’t eat it. We don’t know what else to do. We want her to have a good childhood without a huge belly in the way. My daughter knows this. I’m sure at her pediatric apoitmnets it has been brought up.
Does anyone have any good fun workouts for little kids? Also any good places to shop? She never gets the cute clothes because the children’s sizes aren’t usually big enough.
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 12 - 08/12/19  - IP#: 174.239.30.xxx

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