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From Lucas, Child's Age 16 - 03/13/24 - IP#: 208.37.145.xxx Click here to reply  
Hey all, looking for some advice here. My son Charlie is 16, and he is currently 5'10 and between 235-240 pounds. In June during his annual check up, he was 5'9 and 165 pounds. I was somewhat shocked that he put on 70 pounds in less than a year. I knew that he had put on some weight, but I was thinking more so in the realm of 15-20 pounds. Charlie almost always wore a hoodie and sweats this winter, and I guess this masked the weight gain. Doesn't help that not much of the weight went to his face.
He turned sixteen last June and got a job working at a fast food place during the summer and part time during the school year, which I think has contributed greatly to his weight gain. Now since I'm looking back and thinking about it, he's always eating something. If he's watching TV or doing work, or playing games with his friends, there's always a soda or chips or cookies surrounding... (view more)

Reply from Thomas, Child's Age 12 - 04/16/24  - IP#: 104.28.64.xxx
Reply from Lucas, Child's Age 16 - 04/05/24  - IP#: 191.101.174.xxx
Reply from Thomas, Child's Age 12 - 04/04/24  - IP#: 104.28.64.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 03/24/24  - IP#: 89.8.225.xxx

From Thomas, Child's Age 12 - 02/26/24 - IP#: 104.28.64.xxx Click here to reply  
I don’t want to bother anyone but how are you doing?
Reply from Andreas, Child's Age 8 - 04/21/24  - IP#: 92.116.79.xxx
Reply from Darren, Child's Age 13 - 04/20/24  - IP#: 77.111.246.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 03/25/24  - IP#: 46.15.12.xxx
Reply from Andreas, Child's Age 8 - 03/25/24  - IP#: 50.234.174.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 03/24/24  - IP#: 89.8.132.xxx
Reply from Andreas, Child's Age 8 - 03/23/24  - IP#: 50.234.174.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 03/24/24  - IP#: 46.15.234.xxx
Reply from Andreas, Child's Age 8 - 03/23/24  - IP#: 50.234.174.xxx
Reply from Sam, Child's Age 16 - 03/18/24  - IP#: 62.202.180.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 03/18/24  - IP#: 46.212.107.xxx
Reply from Andreas, Child's Age 8 - 03/16/24  - IP#: 92.116.77.xxx
Reply from Darren, Age 13 - 03/16/24  - IP#: 77.111.246.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 03/13/24  - IP#: 46.212.107.xxx
Reply from Andreas, Child's Age 8 - 03/12/24  - IP#: 46.114.160.xxx
Reply from Sam, Child's Age 16 - 03/12/24  - IP#: 62.202.180.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 03/11/24  - IP#: 46.212.107.xxx
Reply from Andreas, Child's Age 8 - 03/11/24  - IP#: 92.116.77.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 03/11/24  - IP#: 89.8.0.xxx
Reply from Andreas, Child's Age 8 - 03/11/24  - IP#: 92.116.77.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 03/11/24  - IP#: 46.212.107.xxx
Reply from Andreas, Child's Age 8 - 03/10/24  - IP#: 92.116.77.xxx
Reply from Thomas, Child's Age 12 - 03/04/24  - IP#: 104.28.64.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 15 - 03/03/24  - IP#: 174.202.2.xxx
Reply from Sam, Child's Age 16 - 02/28/24  - IP#: 193.17.26.xxx

From Thomas, Child's Age 12 - 01/25/24 - IP#: 104.28.64.xxx Click here to reply  
How is everyone doing? Now that Christmas and the holidays are over, have you all managed to eat normally again? My son and I actually wanted to eat healthier again after Christmas. But we haven't managed to do that yet😬

From Eric, Child's Age 14 - 12/25/23 - IP#: 84.202.8.xxx Click here to reply  
Hello! Hope you are having a great christmas celebration with family, friends and anyone else you celebrate with, whichever traditions you have, and that your kids will not get any negative weight comments from anyone. Merry christmas! How are you celebrating?
Reply from Sam, Child's Age 16 - 01/19/24  - IP#: 62.202.180.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 15 - 01/13/24  - IP#: 174.202.2.xxx
Reply from Thomas, Child's Age 12 - 01/12/24  - IP#: 172.226.110.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 01/06/24  - IP#: 46.15.115.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 15 - 01/04/24  - IP#: 174.202.8.xxx

From Eric, Child's Age 14 - 12/02/23 - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx Click here to reply  
Hey everyone, how is christmas preparations going for you and how do you handle thanksgiving, christmas and such in regard to food and routines?
Reply from Sam, Child's Age 16 - 12/17/23  - IP#: 62.202.180.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 15 - 12/16/23  - IP#: 174.202.3.xxx
Reply from Sam, Child's Age 16 - 12/16/23  - IP#: 62.202.180.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 15 - 12/15/23  - IP#: 174.202.0.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 12/15/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from Thomas, Child's Age 12 - 12/14/23  - IP#: 104.28.64.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 15 - 12/09/23  - IP#: 174.202.0.xxx
Reply from Sam, Child's Age 16 - 12/07/23  - IP#: 62.202.180.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 15 - 12/05/23  - IP#: 174.202.4.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 12/05/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 15 - 12/05/23  - IP#: 174.202.4.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 12/05/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 15 - 12/04/23  - IP#: 174.202.0.xxx
Reply from Bradley, Child's Age 11 - 12/04/23  - IP#: 203.189.85.xxx

From Tam, Child's Age 22 - 11/07/23 - IP#: 173.81.124.xxx Click here to reply  
Sad update. Back in early 2020 I posted here about my daughter, then 17, who was overeating and secretly binge eating. At the time she was 5 feet and 1 inch, and about 140 pounds. I described her then as “chubby”, but little did I know weight was the least of our concerns.
She had developed an eating disorder right under our noses. Bulimia - the uncontrollable compulsion and biological drive to binge eat, and then the fear of weigh gain compelling her to vomit it all back out.
She is now 80-some pounds and still struggling greatly with her eating habits, confidence, thoughts of her body, and spending so much money on ordering food delivery for this addiction.
I know this doesn’t really fit this space, but I just wanted fellow parents to be aware. If this begins with your child, act soon and catch it early so maybe you’ll have better luck reversing this devastating illness.
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 15 - 11/07/23  - IP#: 174.202.5.xxx

From Jesse, Child's Age 8 - 10/30/23 - IP#: 174.202.2.xxx Click here to reply  
I need your advice, please. I ordered my foster son Kevin (age 8) a Halloween costume online and it arrived today. It's Spiderman, who Kevin really likes. He tried it on and it's too small even though I ordered husky size. In fact, the seam ripped when Kevin sat down. I called stores around here and no Spiderman costumes in stock. He is supposed to wear a costume to school tomorrow. Any suggestions or ideas?
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 14 - 10/31/23  - IP#: 174.202.2.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 10/30/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from Bradley, Child's Age 11 - 10/31/23  - IP#: 58.161.8.xxx

From Bradley, Child's Age 11 - 10/28/23 - IP#: 1.145.46.xxx Click here to reply  
My son is 11. He's average height, broad built and only slightly stocky. However his butt and thighs are huge. It's like any excess fat goes straight to that big, wide ass of his. We've had to buy plus-size pants now and I'm concerned this could be a precursor to future weight gain.
Reply from Bradley, Child's Age 11 - 10/29/23  - IP#: 203.189.85.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 14 - 10/28/23  - IP#: 174.202.7.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 10/29/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from Bradley, Child's Age 11 - 10/29/23  - IP#: 58.161.8.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 10/28/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 14 - 10/28/23  - IP#: 174.202.7.xxx
Reply from Bradley, Child's Age 11 - 10/28/23  - IP#: 203.189.85.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 10/28/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx

From Eric, Child's Age 14 - 10/27/23 - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx Click here to reply  
Weekend is almost here, and so is winter in our area. Do any of you have problems motivating for physical activity now that outside is getting cold and wet? I have tried and kind of succeeded in going for walks, doing garden stuff, washing the car and so on with the boys, but it is hard to motivate ourselves when the weather is freezing cold. What do you do in the spare time with your kids? Do you find it okay to accept more sedentary days this time of the year?
Reply from Thomas, Child's Age 12 - 11/08/23  - IP#: 172.226.112.xxx

From Jesse, Child's Age 14 - 10/15/23 - IP#: 174.202.0.xxx Click here to reply  
I'm writing about my 8 year old foster son, Kevin. Fall break ends tomorrow and he goes back to class. I noticed at breakfast today his school jeans are too tight. Just got him new jeans not long ago. Got him on the scale and he weighs 108. That's a 60 pound gain since he came to us at the beginning of March. My older Son Lane didn't start gaining weight until he was older. Any advice? Kevin really likes to eat and I don't don't want to deprive him.
Reply from Jonas, Child's Age 8 - 12/17/23  - IP#: 83.135.135.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 12/16/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from Thomas, Child's Age 12 - 12/16/23  - IP#: 172.225.190.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 12/15/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from Thomas, Child's Age 12 - 12/15/23  - IP#: 104.28.64.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 12/15/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from Thomas, Child's Age 12 - 12/15/23  - IP#: 104.28.64.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 12/15/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from Thomas, Child's Age 12 - 12/14/23  - IP#: 104.28.64.xxx
Reply from Jonas, Child's Age 8 - 11/28/23  - IP#: 92.116.77.xxx
Reply from Chris, Child's Age 16 - 10/29/23  - IP#: 173.76.9.xxx
Reply from Jonas, Child's Age 8 - 10/29/23  - IP#: 92.116.79.xxx
Reply from Tom, Child's Age 14 - 10/28/23  - IP#: 172.99.190.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 14 - 10/21/23  - IP#: 72.253.79.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 10/20/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from Jonas, Child's Age 8 - 10/20/23  - IP#: 92.116.76.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 14 - 10/19/23  - IP#: 174.202.1.xxx
Reply from Jonas, Child's Age 8 - 10/19/23  - IP#: 92.116.76.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 14 - 10/17/23  - IP#: 174.202.0.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 10/17/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 14 - 10/16/23  - IP#: 174.202.0.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 10/16/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 14 - 10/15/23  - IP#: 174.202.0.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 10/15/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx

From Eric, Child's Age 14 - 09/08/23 - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx Click here to reply  
Hey everybody, how has your week been so far? Anybody having any family plans for the weekend? End of season amusement park trip with the boys and friends planned here for the Sunday! How do you approach the issue of weight/size limits on certain amusement park rides for your kids?
Reply from Thomas, Child's Age 12 - 09/28/23  - IP#: 87.177.5.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 09/27/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from Thomas, Child's Age 12 - 09/20/23  - IP#: 87.177.5.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 09/15/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from Thomas, Child's Age 12 - 09/12/23  - IP#: 87.177.5.xxx
Reply from Thomas, Child's Age 12 - 09/09/23  - IP#: 87.177.5.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 09/09/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from Thomas, Child's Age 12 - 09/09/23  - IP#: 87.177.5.xxx

From Tom, Child's Age 14 - 08/26/23 - IP#: 172.99.190.xxx Click here to reply  
I recently wrote here that my boys 9 and 14 are very chubby (fat). well, me and my ex-wife are not the best role models when it comes to eating habits. but I want to avoid that my boys have the same fate as me in the future. who can advice me?
Reply from Cathy, Child's Age 16 - 11/21/23  - IP#: 174.235.211.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 09/27/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from Thomas, Child's Age 12 - 09/20/23  - IP#: 87.177.5.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 09/16/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from Tom, Age 14 - 09/15/23  - IP#: 167.88.62.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 09/03/23  - IP#: 46.9.172.xxx
Reply from Ashley, Child's Age 16 - 09/02/23  - IP#: 172.56.200.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 09/02/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from James, Child's Age 15 - 09/01/23  - IP#: 193.187.128.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 09/02/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from James, Child's Age 15 - 09/01/23  - IP#: 193.187.128.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 09/02/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from James, Child's Age 15 - 09/01/23  - IP#: 193.187.128.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 09/02/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from James, Child's Age 15 - 09/01/23  - IP#: 193.187.128.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 09/02/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from James, Child's Age 15 - 09/01/23  - IP#: 193.187.128.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 09/02/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from James, Child's Age 15 - 09/01/23  - IP#: 193.187.128.xxx
Reply from James, Child's Age 15 - 09/01/23  - IP#: 193.187.128.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 09/01/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from James, Child's Age 15 - 09/01/23  - IP#: 91.214.67.xxx
Reply from Thomas, Child's Age 12 - 08/30/23  - IP#: 87.177.5.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 08/26/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from Tom, Child's Age 14 - 08/26/23  - IP#: 172.99.190.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 08/26/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx

From Thomas, Child's Age 12 - 08/13/23 - IP#: 194.51.251.xxx Click here to reply  
Hello. Is anybody still active on here? How are you and your family doing?
Reply from Cathy, Child's Age 16 - 11/21/23  - IP#: 174.235.211.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 09/27/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from Cathy, Child's Age 16 - 09/25/23  - IP#: 173.27.192.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 09/09/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from Thomas, Child's Age 12 - 09/05/23  - IP#: 87.177.5.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 09/03/23  - IP#: 46.9.172.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 09/02/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from James, Child's Age 15 - 09/01/23  - IP#: 193.187.128.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 09/02/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from James, Child's Age 15 - 09/01/23  - IP#: 193.187.128.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 09/02/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from James, Child's Age 15 - 09/01/23  - IP#: 193.187.128.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 09/02/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from James, Child's Age 15 - 09/01/23  - IP#: 193.187.128.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 09/02/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from James, Child's Age 15 - 09/01/23  - IP#: 193.187.128.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 09/02/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from James, Child's Age 15 - 09/01/23  - IP#: 91.214.67.xxx
Reply from Thomas, Child's Age 12 - 08/30/23  - IP#: 87.177.5.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 08/24/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 14 - 08/24/23  - IP#: 174.202.0.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 08/24/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 14 - 08/24/23  - IP#: 174.202.0.xxx
Reply from Chris, Child's Age 16 - 08/24/23  - IP#: 173.76.9.xxx
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Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 14 - 08/23/23  - IP#: 174.202.0.xxx
Reply from Christopher, Child's Age 16 - 08/23/23  - IP#: 173.76.9.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 14 - 08/23/23  - IP#: 174.202.0.xxx
Reply from Chris, Child's Age 16 - 08/23/23  - IP#: 173.76.9.xxx
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Reply from Christopher, Child's Age 16 - 08/23/23  - IP#: 173.76.9.xxx
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Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 08/23/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
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Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 14 - 08/22/23  - IP#: 174.202.0.xxx
Reply from Christopher, Child's Age 16 - 08/22/23  - IP#: 173.76.9.xxx
Reply from Christopher, Child's Age 16 - 08/22/23  - IP#: 173.76.9.xxx
Reply from Joe, Child's Age 12 - 08/22/23  - IP#: 188.241.144.xxx
Reply from Thomas, Child's Age 12 - 08/22/23  - IP#: 80.153.206.xxx
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Reply from Jen, Child's Age 13 - 08/21/23  - IP#: 169.197.141.xxx
Reply from Christopher, Child's Age 16 - 08/20/23  - IP#: 173.76.9.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 08/20/23  - IP#: 89.8.132.xxx
Reply from Joe, Child's Age 12 - 08/19/23  - IP#: 91.196.223.xxx
Reply from Thomas, Child's Age 12 - 08/19/23  - IP#: 109.43.242.xxx
Reply from Joe, Child's Age 12 - 08/19/23  - IP#: 91.196.223.xxx
Reply from Tom, Age 14 - 08/19/23  - IP#: 77.111.246.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 08/19/23  - IP#: 46.15.204.xxx
Reply from Joe, Child's Age 12 - 08/18/23  - IP#: 91.196.223.xxx
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Reply from Joe, Child's Age 12 - 08/18/23  - IP#: 91.196.223.xxx
Reply from Eric, Child's Age 14 - 08/17/23  - IP#: 78.156.5.xxx
Reply from Jesse, Child's Age 14 - 08/16/23  - IP#: 174.202.3.xxx
Reply from Thomas, Child's Age 12 - 08/16/23  - IP#: 46.114.166.xxx
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From Sarah, Child's Age 12 - 03/27/23 - IP#: 90.254.93.xxx Click here to reply  
I have 12 year old twin daughters (Phoebe and Emily) who are identical in everyway except their weight. They're short for their age (145cm). Emily is 84lbs and has always been a healthy weight, but Phoebe is 180lbs and has always been somewhat overweight, but now it's getting out of control. She has gained 50lbs in the past year. To be honest, she was last weighed 3 months ago and I think she has gained a reasonable amount since then as her clothes are starting to look snugger. I'm picking her up early from school for a Drs appointment today, so I'll find out just how much she has gained. I'm constantly finding hidden junk food wrappers. We don't by junk food in an effort to help Phoebe, but she still buys it with her allowance and overeats on the healthy options we provide. I can't get her to participate in physical activity and she doesn't seem to care about her weight. I hope the Dr will be able to talk some sense into her, but I doubt that will happen.
Reply from Sarah, Child's Age 12 - 03/27/23  - IP#: 90.254.93.xxx

From Eric, Child's Age 13 - 01/15/23 - IP#: 178.232.133.xxx Click here to reply  
Hello! Now past christmas, how is returning to everyday routine on food and snacking for you and your family? I have some hard time getting the kids "back on track"..

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