From Jennifer, Child's Age 12 - 05/14/25 - IP#: 77.231.134.xxx Click here to reply
Hello everyone, and thanks for all the responses I got last time.
As I said in my previous post, I have an 11 (now 12)-year-old daughter who recently broke 700 pounds. She's basically immobile at this point and struggles with everyday tasks; we've been trying to get her to lose weight so she doesn't develop any serious health issues.
Angel and Hanna have suggested I'm not trying hard enough to help my daughter Amy lose weight. Honestly, that hurt a lot to read. I want my daughter to be happy and healthy, but every time her father and I have tried to change her habits, she simply refuses.
Amy is a very sweet girl, but she gets VERY upset when she doesn't get the food she wants or when we try to get her to stop eating. She starts crying and it breaks my heart to see her like that...
We've tried to explain to her that it's for her own good and we've taken her to the... (view more)Hello everyone, and thanks for all the responses I got last time.
As I said in my previous post, I have an 11 (now 12)-year-old daughter who recently broke 700 pounds. She's basically immobile at this point and struggles with everyday tasks; we've been trying to get her to lose weight so she doesn't develop any serious health issues.
Angel and Hanna have suggested I'm not trying hard enough to help my daughter Amy lose weight. Honestly, that hurt a lot to read. I want my daughter to be happy and healthy, but every time her father and I have tried to change her habits, she simply refuses.
Amy is a very sweet girl, but she gets VERY upset when she doesn't get the food she wants or when we try to get her to stop eating. She starts crying and it breaks my heart to see her like that...
We've tried to explain to her that it's for her own good and we've taken her to the doctor many times to get her to understand, but she simply doesn't care. Some teachers and friends have tried as well, but she doesn't listen to them either.
It's very discouraging to hear strangers (both online and in real life), and even our own friends and family, tell us that we're not taking care of our daughter properly. We just want our little girl to be happy, and we're trying to balance her happiness with good health, but it's very hard when she refuses to cooperate.
If anyone has any comments or advice, feel free to reply to this post. Keep in mind Amy has a lot of trouble walking and runs out of breath easily, so getting her to exercise will be very hard until she's lost some weight. (view less)
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From Jennifer, Child's Age 11 - 04/11/25 - IP#: 88.14.5.xxx Click here to reply
Hello everyone.
I have a very obese daughter called Amy. She needs an electric wheelchair to get around, and her doctor says she may develop serious health problems in the future.
I'm not sure how to feel about that. I know I should get Amy to eat healthy and lose weight, but it's really hard for her. She's used to eating as much as she wants (I admit, that's entirely my fault) and she gets really sad when she doesn't get food.
I don't think she ever spends more than a few seconds at a time without some kind of candy, junk food or sugary drink in her mouth. The poor girl just can't stop eating. And exercise is basically impossible; she can barely waddle to the bathroom even with help.
I have conflicting feelings about this. On one hand, I know I should take the doctor's advice seriously, but I also want my daughter to be happy, and I know she's not happy when she has ... (view more)Hello everyone.
I have a very obese daughter called Amy. She needs an electric wheelchair to get around, and her doctor says she may develop serious health problems in the future.
I'm not sure how to feel about that. I know I should get Amy to eat healthy and lose weight, but it's really hard for her. She's used to eating as much as she wants (I admit, that's entirely my fault) and she gets really sad when she doesn't get food.
I don't think she ever spends more than a few seconds at a time without some kind of candy, junk food or sugary drink in her mouth. The poor girl just can't stop eating. And exercise is basically impossible; she can barely waddle to the bathroom even with help.
I have conflicting feelings about this. On one hand, I know I should take the doctor's advice seriously, but I also want my daughter to be happy, and I know she's not happy when she has to diet or do exercise. And I think she still looks really beautiful at this size.
She just broke 700 pounds at age 11, and aside from mobility and getting out of breath, she doesn't seem to have any serious health issues yet.
I'm not sure if I should let her keep gaining like this. (view less)
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From Mike, Child's Age 12 - 03/29/25 - IP#: 92.116.79.xxx Click here to reply
How are y'all doing ?
Me and my son have put lots of weight on recently tbh.
As a parent I'm rather big myself
But man, my son is 384 pounds last I checked, is quite a lot...
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From Lukas, Child's Age 18 - 01/23/25 - IP#: 185.196.178.xxx Click here to reply
Hey
How is everyone in the first month of the new year doing?
With like regular life back and all the stress from the holidays being over
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From Lukas, Child's Age 18 - 12/18/24 - IP#: 185.196.178.xxx Click here to reply
Hey
How is everyone doing?
@Jesse how is the situation with Kevin and sports?
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From Heather, Child's Age 13 - 11/22/24 - IP#: 172.56.249.xxx Click here to reply
Hi everyone. It’s been a little while since I was last on here but I wanted to see how everyone is doing, especially with the holidays coming up. This is my family’s favorite time of the year. I love cooking and baking and always end up making a lot of pies and cookies. Emily and Chloe love to eat all the things I make. We’re all bigger now but it doesn’t stop us from enjoying ourselves. I hope everyone has a great Thanksgiving and a wonderful Christmas.
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From need advice, Child's Age 11 - 10/24/24 - IP#: 194.195.93.xxx Click here to reply
Hi all,
I took my ds in for a doctor's appointment due to a persistent rash on his neck only to find out it was a sign of serious insulin resistance and that he was borderline diabetic with type 2 diabetes. He is only 11 and I really don't know what to do. I've tried getting him to eat better but all he wants is what his friends eat which is junk food. I've tried explaining that they aren't facing a health issue like he is but he is very resistant.
Please help
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From Thomas, Child's Age 13 - 10/22/24 - IP#: 104.28.45.xxx Click here to reply
Hi. How is everyone doing? Are some people still active here?
From Heather, Child's Age 12 - 09/03/24 - IP#: 172.56.252.xxx Click here to reply
Hello everyone. Hope you all had a good summer. It’s been good to see how the boys have been doing, but I’m wondering where the girls’ families are, too. We’re all doing great, here. Emily and Chloe are starting their schoolwork (they’re homeschooled) and are excited about it. How’s everyone else’s girls doing?
From Brad, Child's Age 12 - 08/18/24 - IP#: 203.189.85.xxx Click here to reply
Hello. I have a problem with my 12yo boy. He's always been a little stocky but lately we've noticed (and he's told us too) he's accumulated A LOT of fat on his butt and thighs. I know you can't target specific areas for weigh loss so I've told him to try losing overall. He's told me he's embarrassed about having a massive ass.
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From Lukas, Child's Age 17 - 07/24/24 - IP#: 84.136.38.xxx Click here to reply
Hey, How is everyone doing? My boys weight is going up again. I hoped he would lose some because of Sommer but he is staying inside all the time and just doesn’t stop eating
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From Bradley, Child's Age 11 - 06/22/24 - IP#: 120.18.155.xxx Click here to reply
Anyone have experience with getting pants tailored? My boy is 11 and stores most of his extra weight in his thighs and butt. Wearing men's sizes has never worked because he's average height for his age. We tried a small men's pair of sweatpants and even they were too small whilst also being too long in the legs? Are husky-sizes worth it or should we just skip and buy adult and get them hemmed?
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Hey
How is everyone doing with summer coming?
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Hey
How is everyone doing?
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From Paula, Child's Age 20 - 04/29/24 - IP#: 90.254.73.xxx Click here to reply
When I sent my daughter off to college, she was 155lbs at 5"2. Still overweight for her height, but she was active and healthy. She comes home once every 3 or so months. I could tell she was putting on weight, I just didn't realise how bad it was. At the beginning of last summer, I overheard her confiding in her older sister that she had gained 45lbs, but she was going to lose it over the summer. She didn't. She gained another 10 or so lbs. I saw her for the first time since Christmas when she came home for her sister's wedding. A few wider family members said they were shocked to see how much she'd gained. She's only 20 and got out out of breath from a few minutes on the dance floor. A few days later, I went into the bathroom straight after her and saw that the scales were displaying a number. I felt guilty because it was clearly private to her, but I had a look. 257lbs. She's an adult and I don't want to push her away or nag her about her health, but she's gained 102lbs since she started college in 2022. I'm worried sick.
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