From Jessica, Age 11 - 02/05/03 - IP#: 216.221.81.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Today: 120 lb - WELL I HAVENT REACHED A GOAL I WEIGH 120 POUNDS AND I CRY ABOUT IT EVERY NIGHT I HAVE LOTZ OF FRIENDS AND I AM POPULAR BUT NO BOYZ LIKE ME THAT MUCH THIS ONE GUY HIS NAME IS ANDREW HE ONLY WOOD LIKE ME I DID SOMETHING WITH HIM AND I DONT WANNA DO THAT KINDA STUFF I AM TO YOUNG WELL ANYWAYZ I CANT EVEN FIT INTO SIZE 16 KIDS AND I AM A 5 FOR TEENS !!! ITS VERY EMBRASSING I AM TRYING TO STRAVE MYSLEF BUT WHENEVER I SEE SOMETHING YUMMY I JUST WANNA EAT IT SO I THINK THATS WHAT I AM GOING OT DO STARVE MYSLEF!!!!!! I REALLY DONT CARE IF I DIE OF IT !! BECAUSE I AM WAY TO FAT !!
Reply From gemma, Age 14 - 02/09/03 - IP#: 172.136.97.xxx show message replied to go to original board
hi jessica
dont worry!! forget that stupid boy andrew...find ur self a guy who liks you for you ok!!
if u want to lose weight u can...im in the same position as you overweight and i hate it to!!
dont go crazy over starvin urself this is how u get ill...u need to eat healthfully and do some exercise evan if its walkin to the store once in a while its a start...plus ur still quite young so work hard to get it off now then thx ur self later...keep ur chin up gurl
gemma
ps good luck...and love ur self ok
From ... - 01/31/03 - IP#: 68.112.191.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Hey everyone. I am 18 years old. I have been with my boyfriend for 14 months and then he broke up with me. Now he is going out with this skinny girl. I just have to lose weight. I have not eaten anything in the past two days and I lost about 5 pounds. I dont know, I am not really hungry and i take vitamins...so do you guys think this is ok? I mean, I drink lots of water and i take my vitamins...so let me know what you think!? I am so lost and confused. I think he broke up with me because I am fat. So now i am losing it all so he will want me again!!!
Reply From Amy, Age 18 - 02/01/03 - IP#: 68.112.191.xxx show message replied to go to original board
He is not worth any of this. I know right now you feel like you should just starve yourself. But in my opinion that isnt going to make him like you any more. It may in fact push him away. In the long run...if you want to lose weight...do it for yourself. No guy is worth making yourself sick over. I know you are hurting right now, but eventually you will realize that everything is ok without him and that you dont need to lose any weight to impress him. I am sure things will work out fine! Good Luck at whatever you choose to do though...
From ... - 01/31/03 - IP#: 68.112.191.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Hey everyone. I am 18 years old. I have been with my boyfriend for 14 months and then he broke up with me. Now he is going out with this skinny girl. I just have to lose weight. I have not eaten anything in the past two days and I lost about 5 pounds. I dont know, I am not really hungry and i take vitamins...so do you guys think this is ok? I mean, I drink lots of water and i take my vitamins...so let me know what you think!? I am so lost and confused. I think he broke up with me because I am fat. So now i am losing it all so he will want me again!!!
Reply From Amy, Age 18 - 02/01/03 - IP#: 68.112.191.xxx show message replied to go to original board
He is not worth any of this. I know right now you feel like you should just starve yourself. But in my opinion that isnt going to make him like you any more. It may in fact push him away. In the long run...if you want to lose weight...do it for yourself. No guy is worth making yourself sick over. I know you are hurting right now, but eventually you will realize that everything is ok without him and that you dont need to lose any weight to impress him. I am sure things will work out fine! Good Luck at whatever you choose to do though...
From Anonymous, Age 16 - 01/25/03 - IP#: 24.192.202.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
hi everyone. i was wondering if any of u feel the same way as i do. i'm fat and disgusted by what i see in the mirror everyday. i try to go on diet but i just can't stick with it. i also blame weight and ugliness on not EVER having a boyfriend in my entire life. and i'm already 16. i've NEVER even gone on a single date before. if any of u r going through the same thing or have any advice please reply. thank u very much
Reply From catherine, Age 17 - 01/27/03 - IP#: 195.92.168.xxx show message replied to go to original board
i know the way u guys r feeling. i never had a boyfriend up until a year ago. i blamed that on being fat because im 220lbs and thought no guy could ever like me. i decided i hated feeling sorry for myself and to look like i didnt care about my weight and b confident even if i wasnt. well it worked and i have the most gorgeous boyfriend who is a fitness instructer & doesnt care about my weight. people send out vibes and men arent attracted 2 negative vibes. if you make the effort you will get a boyfriend....good luck....xxx
From Anonymous, Age 16 - 01/25/03 - IP#: 24.192.202.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
hi everyone. i was wondering if any of u feel the same way as i do. i'm fat and disgusted by what i see in the mirror everyday. i try to go on diet but i just can't stick with it. i also blame weight and ugliness on not EVER having a boyfriend in my entire life. and i'm already 16. i've NEVER even gone on a single date before. if any of u r going through the same thing or have any advice please reply. thank u very much
Reply From catherine, Age 17 - 01/27/03 - IP#: 195.92.168.xxx show message replied to go to original board
i know the way u guys r feeling. i never had a boyfriend up until a year ago. i blamed that on being fat because im 220lbs and thought no guy could ever like me. i decided i hated feeling sorry for myself and to look like i didnt care about my weight and b confident even if i wasnt. well it worked and i have the most gorgeous boyfriend who is a fitness instructer & doesnt care about my weight. people send out vibes and men arent attracted 2 negative vibes. if you make the effort you will get a boyfriend....good luck....xxx
From Krystal, Age 16 - 01/12/03 - IP#: 63.184.105.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Ht. 5'6", Today: 150 lb (BMI %tile: 82) - hey everyone, ya know i just dont understand it, i met this guy on new years because i was driving with my sis and he stopped us to ask for our #, he was soooo hot, it happens alot to me because im really pretty but then i went and hung out with this guy that i met and it went sooo well we totally hit it off, but i think it was only because he couldnt see what my body looked like cause i had a jacket on and then the next time i hung out with him i didnt wear a jacket and i actually let him touch me cause we were making out and i let him touch my stomach.....worst mistake ever, i know he relized i wasnt as hot anymore since i have some chubbs in that area. i hate guys why are they like that i havent talked to him since.i weigh 150 lbs and im 5ft 6in. does anyone want to be weightloss buddies? please help
Reply From Britney, Age 13 - 01/23/03 - IP#: 199.183.75.xxx show message replied to go to original board
hey
Don't feel bad guys can be such jerks.But I know how u feel and it sucks but don't let that put ya down.Cuz even if u don't want to belive it now if the guy is that much of a jerk u don't wnat him n e ways.
if ya wanna talk e-mail me
Chatterbox3218@netscape.net
From Krystal, Age 16 - 01/12/03 - IP#: 63.184.105.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Ht. 5'6", Today: 150 lb (BMI %tile: 82) - hey everyone, ya know i just dont understand it, i met this guy on new years because i was driving with my sis and he stopped us to ask for our #, he was soooo hot, it happens alot to me because im really pretty but then i went and hung out with this guy that i met and it went sooo well we totally hit it off, but i think it was only because he couldnt see what my body looked like cause i had a jacket on and then the next time i hung out with him i didnt wear a jacket and i actually let him touch me cause we were making out and i let him touch my stomach.....worst mistake ever, i know he relized i wasnt as hot anymore since i have some chubbs in that area. i hate guys why are they like that i havent talked to him since.i weigh 150 lbs and im 5ft 6in. does anyone want to be weightloss buddies? please help
Reply From Britney, Age 13 - 01/23/03 - IP#: 199.183.75.xxx show message replied to go to original board
hey
Don't feel bad guys can be such jerks.But I know how u feel and it sucks but don't let that put ya down.Cuz even if u don't want to belive it now if the guy is that much of a jerk u don't wnat him n e ways.
if ya wanna talk e-mail me
Chatterbox3218@netscape.net
From ... - 01/07/03 - IP#: 65.27.184.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
hey, i am trying to help my friend.. Okay, she is not heavy.. or obese and she think she is...She is 132-135 lbs and 5'2''-5'3''Now, she is also 14, and i know you of you on here would HATE for her to say she is bad looking..and how can i help her?
Reply From tracie, Age 16 - 01/10/03 - IP#: 209.172.193.xxx show message replied to go to original board
If your freind thinks she is overweight i think that you should try and help her eat better.
From *, Age 11 - 01/01/03 - IP#: 205.188.209.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
posting for a friend :: i am in 6th grade and i know a 2nd grader who weighs more than me. i want to help her. she is huge. her belly sags low to the ground and sticks out 5 inches ! she wears 2 sizes bigger than me in clothes. it is disgusting. please help me she is so0o fat ! i want to help her ! post on this one !
Reply From Karen, Age 13 - 01/01/03 - IP#: 208.29.117.xxx show message replied to go to original board
That is nice of you to help her, But you shouldn't say that she is disgusting! That is only going to make her problem worse. If you don't know her very well then maybe you should just stay out of it. But if you do know her then go ahead and help. Just don't call her disgusting. You need to support her, and accept her before you can help her. Good luck
From big guy, Age 15 - 11/30/02 - IP#: 205.188.209.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
im 5-10 and 225 and i cant stop eating since christmas is almost here peple have called me hey santa, because of it. my friends are "genours" to give me the food they don't want(most of it.)Parents (no help there) Mom's love me and feeds me while Dad wants me to lose it. it'sbeen going up and down (from 210 to 225 in 3 weeks)any help?
Reply From Jay, Age 13 - 12/01/02 - IP#: 64.12.96.xxx show message replied to go to original board
My friends i sit with at lunch are the same way. they always give me the food they cant finish or know they wont have time to finish and i would always end up eating it but what i do is just say no thanx when they offer it or take it but dont eat it and throw it out afterwards. as for ure mom just say that ure trying to lose weight and she will probably be cooperative thats wat i did.
From bulma, Age 14 - 08/25/02 - IP#: 205.162.198.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
i know that this got deleted somehow but i have to tell you i am not jokeing. my boyfriend is trying to fatten me up and i think he likes me fat. i used to be 96 pounds but now iam 208 pounds. can someone tell me whats wrong with him and what to do about it?
Reply From Karli, Age 14 - 09/09/02 - IP#: 161.184.23.xxx show message replied to go to original board
If he is trying to fatten you up, and you are sure about this, maybe you should dump him. If someone likes you he shouldn'thave to change the way you looked before, just to please his likings. If he likes bigger, fatter woman, he can go and find one himself. Not try and fatten you up so he'll like you more.
From rose, Age 12 - 08/18/02 - IP#: 64.24.192.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
i really need a boyfriend to help motivate me and that wont care about looks and love me 4 me it might help my self esteem!! if anyone can help or knows any guys like that plz let me know!!! thanx! rose
Reply From Lynn, Age 17 - 08/18/02 - IP#: 64.252.226.xxx show message replied to go to original board
Hi. I think it is great that you are trying to lose weight, but you should do it for YOU not anyone else. And believe me at your age you don't need a boyfriend. You should be more concerned with your friends then a boyfriend. It is great to have support, but you shouldn't look for a guy to care about you in order for you to care about yourself.
From Hailie, Age 13 - 08/04/02 - IP#: 205.188.209.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Has the thought of commiting suicide ever crossed your mind? I lay awake in bed thinking if I don't loose weight soon I'm going to kill myself. I'm 5'3 and 187. I'm huge I can't deny it anymore I'm going into 8th grade and my boyfriend keeps saying he'll leave me if I dont shape up. How is the best way to loose weight, because my clock is ticking.
Reply From Erin, Age 14 - 08/14/02 - IP#: 141.150.212.xxx show message replied to go to original board
First off if your b/f is tellin you negitive things then you need to dump his sry a**. he isn't any good for you if he is goin to be puttin you down. b/fs should love you for who u r. so just dump him your probably much better of without him.
From girly girl, Age 13 - 07/27/02 - IP#: 68.13.169.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
i was over weight but now i'm not and i worked very hard for that, but now i have a friend who IS over weight and she eats all the time and always asks me if i want some of what she is eating. i donno about u, but where i live over weight is somthing that isn't really talked about with over weight people and i don't want her to feel left out if she is the only one eating and i'm not. i am afriad it might make her feel fat so i say yes to whatever she wants me to eat. but i really don't want to eat what she eats because i'm afraid that i might gain weight and be like her again. what should i do!!!?
Reply From manda jh, Age 14 - 07/28/02 - IP#: 172.157.213.xxx show message replied to go to original board
I agree with camille. I was at my friends the other day, she isn't overweight, and she was having cookies and junk, and I just told her I wasn't hungry. Which, I really wasn't hungry. If you don't want to eat something and you arent hungry, nobody should make you eat anything. Maybe you not having anything would inspire her...:-P
From girly girl, Age 13 - 07/27/02 - IP#: 68.13.169.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
i was over weight but now i'm not and i worked very hard for that, but now i have a friend who IS over weight and she eats all the time and always asks me if i want some of what she is eating. i donno about u, but where i live over weight is somthing that isn't really talked about with over weight people and i don't want her to feel left out if she is the only one eating and i'm not. i am afriad it might make her feel fat so i say yes to whatever she wants me to eat. but i really don't want to eat what she eats because i'm afraid that i might gain weight and be like her again. what should i do!!!?
Reply From Camille, Age 14 - 07/27/02 - IP#: 63.108.149.xxx show message replied to go to original board
Omigosh don't feel ANY guilt about not eating what she wants you to eat. just be polite and say,"No thank you." If your friend says something like,"No come on, just have some." dont give in, just tell her you aren't hungry or that you would prefer fruit or something along those lines. I don't think she will get mad at you. If she does, ask her why she is mad, because she shouldn't be.
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