From chelsea, Age 15 - 04/07/04 - IP#: 205.188.116.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
I'm very depressed right now and actually crying. I don't know If I even want to live anymore. All I want In life is to lose this weight and I keep gaining. I'm 150.. was 145.. and the scale keeps going up. I'm homeschooled because I get embarrassed of myself in school and I never do anything with friends..I always make up excuses because I feel fat. Some one please give me advice. I can't stick to anything. I always eat to numb the pain and I can't stop. I try to exersize but it doesn't make up for the calories I consume. I just feel hopeless. I'll miss out on so much waiting for the weight to come off. I want to weigh 110 so it will take 20-40 weeks if I lose 1-2 pounds a week .. and that's just to damn long to wait. I feel like I'm missing out.. I don't want to lose my friends .. I need help..please e mail me if you can help..PainFilledEyes21@aol.com
Reply From Amber, Age 16 - 04/08/04 - IP#: 68.66.61.xxx show message replied to go to original board
HEY!
First you need to think positive! You can do this ! I use to think it was so hard but don't think how much you want to loose think I lost (lets say 10) and go from that! Then by time you know it you will be where you want to be! And hunny I am homeschooled to and I know it is hard with the food being there for you anytime ! But what I do is I think ok I want that so instead of trying to hold my self bac I would eat a small portion(like 5 chips instead of 10) Well I hope this all helps you I know you can do!! Just believe you can !! Good LUCK!!!
From Sad One .. Again!, Age 13 - 12/16/03 - IP#: 64.12.96.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Today: 240 lb, Goal: 140 lb - Hey! everyone has always been great on here! and yall really did determine me over the summer i lost like 6lbs in 2-3days! it was a miracle! and now i am from 210 ta like 235 240! i am sooo sad and depressed about it, I also got achne and stretch marks and have let my grades in school go from straigh A's to Straught F's! I just dunno what got into me i just kept missing school laying around in stuff! I mean I will admit this hen istay hjome from school or are just home alone i eat WAY LESS! which i thought was weirs, but I guess not much is on my mind and i am nutral or sommin! I been thiinking about Homeschooling alot, I am in the 8th grade, and I wanan get homeschooled the rest of this yr, and then start highschool looking good! I mean I wass get homeschooled and improve my self.. no achne make stretch marks not ivisble, and loose 100 lbs! I think i can do it, but if i get homeschooled and dont i will be really sad! so i would need all yalls help along the way! oh and after the holidays if i get homeschooled i am gonna start a new diet plan it called My Plan.. All it is is cantelope water and exercise!! for a month see how ya so and change to another fruit or vegtable or keep that one.. it seem s kool and i cant wait!! but ya! i dunno about thew homeschooling thing i mean i will learn too.. hows this sound to everyone let me know! thanks! God Bless You All!
Reply From Molly, Age 18 - 12/16/03 - IP#: 82.33.41.xxx show message replied to go to original board
Hiyas
I think homeschooling is a good idea if you are seriously in trouble with your grades at school, it can help to ensure you get the grades you need for the future. However, you sure it wont make you sad being at home all the time? Not being around your friends at school? And the effort of going out and walking round school is a good way to excersise! so its upto you, but make sure u think of all the problems it might make. I can imagine it would be quite lonely being taught at home, but thats only my oppinion :)
From Sad One .. Again!, Age 13 - 12/16/03 - IP#: 64.12.96.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Today: 240 lb, Goal: 140 lb - Hey! everyone has always been great on here! and yall really did determine me over the summer i lost like 6lbs in 2-3days! it was a miracle! and now i am from 210 ta like 235 240! i am sooo sad and depressed about it, I also got achne and stretch marks and have let my grades in school go from straigh A's to Straught F's! I just dunno what got into me i just kept missing school laying around in stuff! I mean I will admit this hen istay hjome from school or are just home alone i eat WAY LESS! which i thought was weirs, but I guess not much is on my mind and i am nutral or sommin! I been thiinking about Homeschooling alot, I am in the 8th grade, and I wanan get homeschooled the rest of this yr, and then start highschool looking good! I mean I wass get homeschooled and improve my self.. no achne make stretch marks not ivisble, and loose 100 lbs! I think i can do it, but if i get homeschooled and dont i will be really sad! so i would need all yalls help along the way! oh and after the holidays if i get homeschooled i am gonna start a new diet plan it called My Plan.. All it is is cantelope water and exercise!! for a month see how ya so and change to another fruit or vegtable or keep that one.. it seem s kool and i cant wait!! but ya! i dunno about thew homeschooling thing i mean i will learn too.. hows this sound to everyone let me know! thanks! God Bless You All!
Reply From Molly, Age 18 - 12/16/03 - IP#: 82.33.41.xxx show message replied to go to original board
Hiyas
I think homeschooling is a good idea if you are seriously in trouble with your grades at school, it can help to ensure you get the grades you need for the future. However, you sure it wont make you sad being at home all the time? Not being around your friends at school? And the effort of going out and walking round school is a good way to excersise! so its upto you, but make sure u think of all the problems it might make. I can imagine it would be quite lonely being taught at home, but thats only my oppinion :)
From Halle, Age 13 - 11/11/03 - IP#: 81.106.107.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Ht. 6'0", Today: 400 lb (BMI %tile: 98) - This is my 1st time on the site and i fink i have the worst case on here im 13 6ft and 400 lbs! i cnt walk dwn the stairs i have eough trouble walking 2 the bathroom i comforteat i have 2 i stay in bed all day bored my mum homeschools me so i have no friends im all alone never been kissed im ugly and fat i have 5 chins a pot belly and ginormous thighs i cant exercise and cant diet because my mum insists on 3 meals a day and some snacks (she thinks it healthy) i have 2 older sisters 15 and 18 and they r size 4s and eat 3 meals a day and snacks they dont talk 2 me i need help a.s.a.p
Reply From Veronica, Age 17 - 11/11/03 - IP#: 67.67.113.xxx show message replied to go to original board
Hi Halle,
I'm homeschooled too. It's hard for us to get p.e. because of the fact, which lead to my weight gain. I understand about staying in your room when you're bored, I did the exact same thing... But its important to use that time to help lose weight by execising. Your Mom is right, eating 3x daily is healthy for you and helps your metabolism rate stay high. Just don't eat as much as you usually do, I've heard a lot of ppl say that its good to cut what you eat in half, try that.
I'd like to by your weight loss buddy if that's okay with you. What's your email address? Mine is poorlilangel@juno.com. Email me sometime if you need any advice about dieting or exercise or just support and motivation... In the last month or so I've become a fitness expert. LOL Good Luck -Veronica
From Halle, Age 13 - 11/11/03 - IP#: 81.106.107.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Ht. 6'0", Today: 400 lb (BMI %tile: 98) - This is my 1st time on the site and i fink i have the worst case on here im 13 6ft and 400 lbs! i cnt walk dwn the stairs i have eough trouble walking 2 the bathroom i comforteat i have 2 i stay in bed all day bored my mum homeschools me so i have no friends im all alone never been kissed im ugly and fat i have 5 chins a pot belly and ginormous thighs i cant exercise and cant diet because my mum insists on 3 meals a day and some snacks (she thinks it healthy) i have 2 older sisters 15 and 18 and they r size 4s and eat 3 meals a day and snacks they dont talk 2 me i need help a.s.a.p
Reply From Veronica, Age 17 - 11/11/03 - IP#: 67.67.113.xxx show message replied to go to original board
Hi Halle,
I'm homeschooled too. It's hard for us to get p.e. because of the fact, which lead to my weight gain. I understand about staying in your room when you're bored, I did the exact same thing... But its important to use that time to help lose weight by execising. Your Mom is right, eating 3x daily is healthy for you and helps your metabolism rate stay high. Just don't eat as much as you usually do, I've heard a lot of ppl say that its good to cut what you eat in half, try that.
I'd like to by your weight loss buddy if that's okay with you. What's your email address? Mine is poorlilangel@juno.com. Email me sometime if you need any advice about dieting or exercise or just support and motivation... In the last month or so I've become a fitness expert. LOL Good Luck -Veronica
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