From Shayna, Age 12 - 07/22/02 - IP#: 12.255.199.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Hi everyone. I am 12 and 132 lbs. I am short so it makes me look even fatter. I can't ecen cross my legs. I am going into middle school and a girl that said she is my best friend told one of my true friends that she wasn't going to be my friend next year because she is "not going to be seen with a fat cow" as she says. people call me fat, cow, pig, disgusting, elephant, tub of lard, and won of the kids goes around and says "fresh pig, 6.99 a lb." I look at my friends and get so jelous that i come home and cry. Most of my friends fit in size 0-5 junior jeans, i fit in size 14! anyone help me PLEASE! I am going to be a social loser if i dont lose at least 10 lbs. in this next month so help please! Thanks and God bless you all!
Reply From Ashley, Age 13 - 07/24/02 - IP#: 64.12.96.xxx show message replied to go to original board
I thought the same thing going into middle school, and i am now reaching the end of it. What i learned is that, yea, people can be VERY mean, but that's how kids are nowadays, to keep people making fun of them, they make fun of other people. If you try to be friendly, get a new attitude, like yourself, you could be very popular, because in my school, their ARE a couple of big kids that are popular, and they are soo friendly that they make friends with other people to make them popular too. Just think about that, no matter where you go, you will always make friends if you try. If you need something else, e-mail me at Starr110288@aol.com
From James Bond, Age 12 - 07/21/02 - IP#: 151.155.18.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Iam very very fat I am 5"5 and 177 pounds i need help. I am going into 7th grade and thats when girls and stuff like that comes along. Girls go for looks not nice or personality. so if i want to be succseful in life i have to loose weight fast
Reply From Manda JH, Age 14 - 07/21/02 - IP#: 172.138.139.xxx show message replied to go to original board
If you carry yourself good, and talk to a lot of people. Girls will like you.
From nick, Age 14 - 05/07/02 - IP#: 205.188.195.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
HELP im fine my friend is nothe is 8th grade 5 10 and most likely ways over 200 lbs i try to help he keeps changing the subject one day i asked what is weight was he said 130 when i no it is a lie.He is big he wears a XL or XXL shirt and a like 38 pants he says i think 40 42. HE has a huge gut indentation varry notisabele and he dont care at all hge thinks he is 100 % normal. HE goes nearly nude in PE to change the fat hangs out he dont care please help me to help him wat shoul i do or should i leave it alone ????
Reply From Vosha, Age 13 - 05/12/02 - IP#: 166.102.242.xxx show message replied to go to original board
I understand your concerned and everything but maybe hes just a little embaressed to share these figures with you. You should tell him about the risk factors he has since he is overweight and consider to help him. If he isnt already in sports.. you 2 should join something together if your really good friends. Well I hope everything works out and good luck
From Danielle, Age 17 - 05/06/02 - IP#: 67.217.83.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
hey guys!I will be going to college in a few months and I want to go from a size 16/18 to a 14 or 12. How should I go about doing this? I was thinking about eating the way I normally eat but frinking a gallon of water a day. Please give me any suggestions.
Reply From Amy, Age 16 - 05/07/02 - IP#: 68.33.122.xxx show message replied to go to original board
hello. my name is Amy and i too am looking to drop a few dress sizes. perhaps we could be each other's support group online? i don't want my friends to know how big of an issue my weight is for me, so i can't really go to them. my screen name is thechorusgirl. IM me if you get the chance. thanks. Amy
From kristina, Age 14 - 04/28/02 - IP#: 217.39.39.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Hi everyone,i'm posting this because i'm concerned (sorry can't spell) about my friend Kelly, she's 14 like me,5"1 like me, but she weighs over 300lbs. But i don't think she cares as she doesn't care what she eats. I don't know how to tell her that i worry, she might take it the wrong way. But she does weigh herself (when she feels she's lost weight even though she's not on a diet), i have to help her because she cannot see the scales. 2 weeks ago she weighed 327.Everyone makes fun of her at school and i think it hurts me more than her. Please help me.
Reply From Kate, Age 13 - 04/28/02 - IP#: 67.219.152.xxx show message replied to go to original board
Hey, I am sorry to hear that but there IS something that you can do. Set up a workout plan for yourself and ask if she would like to do it with you. This way you are helping her but not hurting your feelings. And the only other thing to do is too tell her that you worry. Tell her about diabetes and other health problems. If she is a good friend, she will listen to you and take in your concern. Anyway, I hope I have helped! Tell me what happens, ok? My e-mail is soccerchic214@msn.com. Good luck!! Kate
From Elmo, Age 14 - 04/23/02 - IP#: 203.54.204.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Hey. About nine months ago i met this chic and we are verry good best friends. i herd her talking to a friend and she said that if i got some abbs that she would go out wif me!! I really am starting to like her, so can u give me some tipps on getting abbs. Thankx Elmo
Reply From Stephanie, Age 13 - 04/28/02 - IP#: 66.185.84.xxx show message replied to go to original board
You shouldnt lose weight just for a girl. you should fin someone who likes you for who you are, not if you have abs. :)
From Kate, Age 13 - 04/27/02 - IP#: 65.237.224.xxx go to original board
Hey everyone! I just wanted to say that the best thing in the world just happened to me!! I was at my cousins and this hot guy named Eddie was with us. He said he thought that I was hot even though I am not skinny!! I was so happy. That just shows me that even if you are not as skinny as the girl next to you, your still beautiful!! Never give up!!!!! Luv KATE
From Elmo, Age 14 - 04/23/02 - IP#: 203.54.204.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Hey. About nine months ago i met this chic and we are verry good best friends. i herd her talking to a friend and she said that if i got some abbs that she would go out wif me!! I really am starting to like her, so can u give me some tipps on getting abbs. Thankx Elmo
Reply From Jenna, Age 18 - 04/22/02 - IP#: 152.163.204.xxx show message replied to go to original board
So she would want you for your abs and them alone?
From Mr WaffleBerry, Age 1 - 04/20/02 - IP#: 193.97.117.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
HELP ME I NEED IT BAD. I AM 174 POUNDS, 5"1". AND I AM SUPPOSED TO WEIGH 110. THERE IS A SCHOOL DANCE AT THE END OF THE YEAR AND I WANT A CUTE GIRL TO GO OUT WITH ME. I GAINED 4 POUNDS IN LIKE 1 WEEK SO HELP!!!!!!!
Reply From Whitney, Age 12 - 04/20/02 - IP#: 64.12.105.xxx show message replied to go to original board
If you want to lose weight don't do it just for the girl. You have to do it for you. I know that sounds really stupid but everytime i tried to lose weight for this one guy i liked i'd get mad at him and gained all the weight back. So do it for you and you alone. If you ever want to talk or something e-mail me at GlitterBabe@aol.com
From i dunno?, Age 12 - 04/05/02 - IP#: 193.97.117.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
I AM FAT. I NEED A GF BEFORE THE END OF THE YEAR BUT THEY ALL HATE ME CUZ OF MY FAT. I AM PASIONET KIND AND FUNNY I NEVER HURT ANYONE BUT EVERYONE SAYS "WOW HE IS FAT SO I WONT GET TO KNOW HIM HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply From Michelle, Age 14 - 04/05/02 - IP#: 63.168.31.xxx show message replied to go to original board
First of all, it would help all of us if you could tell us your height and weight. Second, at 12 most girls only like guys that they hang out with, or are their friends. Most of the time it developes from a friendship, to a crush, to a dating relationship. For right now, just get some friends. Be nice to people. You'll be surprised by how many people actually will like you for who you are. There are people out there who feel the same way you do, and will understand how you feel, so don't think you are the only soul on earth who has to deal with a social problem. Finding someone who relates to you can give you a great friendship, and if it's a girl, you might just be lucky enough to like each other for more than friends. If you go looking for love, it will avoid you, just sit back and relax and it will come knockin' on your door! Good luck.
Reply From Ben, Age 15 - 03/28/02 - IP#: 24.67.209.xxx show message replied to go to original board
I dont think anyone likes being fat, and you will only find love when you love yourself, so tell yourself you're beautiful, and soon you'll find a special someone will too
From Katie, Age 13 - 03/19/02 - IP#: 65.138.114.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Hi. My name is Katie and I weigh 115lb. I am 5'1. All my friends are thinner than me and they make fun of me for not looking like them. I want to loose weight, and fast. I have been struggling my whole life. Please tell me what I should do. Thanks a lot.
Reply From rachel, Age 14 - 03/20/02 - IP#: 216.142.233.xxx show message replied to go to original board
obviously these people arent really your friends if they make fun of you. to lose weight you have to love yourself, inside and out. i know its hard when you can only see flaws but try to be positive and get yourself some nice friends that'll encourage you and help you
From >>>, Age 12 - 03/09/02 - IP#: 64.12.96.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
I have an extremely overweight friend, who dosnt even seem to notice how overweight she is. She eats a lot and all the time...i dont know how to tell her that she is overweight, and shouldnt eat like that. She dosnt even care that people tease her constantly, and that its harder for her to do certain things. I feel real bad for her, and i feel bad myself for not doing anything. But, i dont know how to tell her. PLEASE reply with any ideas. I need to tell her someway, and soon.
Reply From j_lynn, Age 16 - 03/09/02 - IP#: 216.90.103.xxx show message replied to go to original board
wella wella well well...ok. heres what ya do- ask her if she wants to do this new diet you read/heard about with you. you guys could go jogging or workout together and both of you could write out menues of what is OK to eat on your new diet plan. this way you do not have to single her out by sitting her down and telling her shes fat and needs help. this would acheive anymore than making her feel like a complete loser. afterall, no one can be TOO fit and ya'll might have major bonding time in the process.
From Michelle, Age 13 - 02/11/02 - IP#: 62.254.0.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Hi ppl! My name is Michelle and I've got this massive problem (massive being the apppropiate word!). I'm 13yrsold and obese 'cos I weigh in at 160lbs-170lbs. I feel so fat and to make it worse, my best friends are soo skinny and totally unsupportive of my weight. I really would like advice on dieting and a dieting pal. I don't care if ur gal/boy, any age or any size. My e-mail is M_J_CHAPMAN@YAHOO.CO.UK. Thanks alot! P.s. why do skinny people think that if your'e heavy, your'e unfit? I can run as fast if not faster than most of them! xxxx
Reply From allisa, Age 13 - 02/13/02 - IP#: 68.13.169.xxx show message replied to go to original board
well first the reson skinny people aren't really supportive is because, well if they are your freinds, they don't want to talk about it. since they are skinny they don't know what it is like being bigger. so they just don't say anything at all. they could say the wrong thing with out knowing it and hurt your feelings. so if u want them to be supportive, let them know it is ok to talk about your weight problem and it won't hurt your feelings. maybe they will be more open mindin about it if u tell them that. and the reson why some people think that over weight people aren't fit is cuzz well some times over weight people aren't fit. it is very unusul to find one that is.
From Ana, Age 15 - 12/27/01 - IP#: 66.69.70.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Hey yall, its after X-mas and the damage has been done, man-i know i strayed from my diet, but you can't give up, i know its hard, after the x-mas sweets, cakes, turkey, and stuffing its hard to convince yourself that you have a chance to lose it again or at all. Find your motivation, my motivation, which helps me stay on track is to remember the guys who treated me bad, or made fun of me, and how when i lose the wieght, go right up to them and show them up, and pick another guy instead of them. I think about coming all skinny and beautiful and those stupid guys saying thier sorry and then not giving them a chance. That motivates me to excercise and drink water, and eat healthier, so i can lose the 20lbs i wanna lose. I wiegh 142lbs, i wanna do what it takes to lose this 20lbs pounds and be a size three. Well, good luck guys, wish me luck.
Reply From Cofri, Age 15 - 12/28/01 - IP#: 206.102.156.xxx show message replied to go to original board
Hey! I'm in the same boat as you! I wanna lose my weight 2 show up all those guys who wouldn't give me a chance! We're about the same weight 2! I wanna lose a lil more than 20 lbs. but oh well. Do you wanna be dieting buddies?? That would REALLY get me motivated also! Just reply here with ur e-mail and we can go from there!:)
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