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 Teased About Being Overweight

=> i am nearly 12 and i am FAT at school people call me fatty fat arse and stuff like that plz help

 I hope it helps you to know that you are not alone in being teased. This is one of the topics that gets brought up often by other kids here too. Unfortunately, teasing is something many of us deal with when we are growing up and it makes us feel bad.girl attempting to tease boy It helps to talk to someone you trust (a teacher, parent or other adult) and let them know how you feel. You will feel better and they may have good ideas to help you.

Kids (and even adults) get teased for many different things, but someone who is overweight is often a target. While this feels very hurtful, try to remember that someone who makes fun of others actually has low self-esteem (doesn't think very highly of themselves.) They may put others down to try to make themselves feel better. Their main goal is to get a reaction from you, so if you don't react the bullying will likely stop.

Here is a great tip to help you Learn to Deal with Bullies. Make sure to practice your response to the bullies so you are ready when the time comes. You can do it!

 How to Stop Being Tempted To Eat Junk Food

=> I exercise all the time but I get so tempted into eating junk how do I stop myself from getting tempted to eat fattening foods?

 Craving food is a common problem. High calorie, fatty, and junk foods like donuts, chips, pop, cookies, ice cream and pizza are often the most problematic. People often turn to these foods to comfort themselves or to avoid feeling emotions such as boredom, anxiety, sadness, or to relieve stress. They find it difficult to stop eating the junk food much like a drug addict finds giving up drugs difficult. You can feel "addicted" to the food.

Getting in touch with your emotions and learning how to substitute other activities for eating might be a good first step. Here are several tips to help avoid "mindless" eating.
Saying Goodbye to the Food Drug
Foods to Help You Fight Through Cravings
Are You Compulsively Overeating?

Once you understand why you are reaching for the junk food, you can learn to do something about it. You can overcome "mindless" eating. It just takes practice!

 Picky Eaters - Learning To Eat Healthy Foods You Don't Like

=> I am 11years old .I have a very huge problem since I was 4 I stopped eating vegetables whenever I try to eat them I vomit I really need your help.Everybody makes fun of me since I am fat I feel very bad!

 It sounds like you would like to eat veggies, which is great! Eating plenty of fresh vegetables, fruits and whole grains creates a healthier you. You first might want to visit your doctor to make sure that you don't have any underlying health problems.

Have you been successful in eating vegetables when they are in other foods? Lots of cookbooks or food sites on the Internet have recipes that use vegetables hidden in foods that kids already like. Do you like smoothies, muffins, pancakes? All of these foods can have veggies pureed (use a food processor or blender to cut the vegetables as finely as possible) and added to them.

Here are other ideas:
1. Carrots and zucchini are great shredded and added to muffins.
2. Cauliflower works great added to mac and cheese or mashed potatoes.
3. Ground meat (chili, meatloaf, hamburgers, sloppy Joes, meatballs) can benefit from having grated or chopped carrots, peppers, or onions added.
4. Broccoli, carrots, peppers, carrots and spinach can be added to pasta sauces or pizza sauce.
5. Veggies can be chopped very fine and add to pizza, under the cheese.
6. Some food companies add veggies to some of their packaged foods. Ask your mom to look for these items when she is shopping.
7. Check out Veggie Tip from Lucy for some more tips and recipes. It even includes a recipe for cake!

Don't worry if you have some vegetables that you intensely dislike. Sometimes you grow out of your dislikes as you get older, and you may find in time that you can easily eat some of these vegetables in their raw form. The bottom line is don't give up! Lucy used to dislike brussel sprouts, and now they are one of her favs!

 Safe Weight Loss

=> Is it bad to lose 5lbs in one week? I have but without really trying to. I just ate a lot less, but I'm not even hungry? I thought you could only lose 1-2 lbs? I am very confused.Please gelp

=> im 15 years old and i weight 179 pounds and im trying to lose weight... is their anything i can drink to lose atleast 10-20 pounds?

=> I am 12 years old. I am healthy (according to the website) but i have 3 big fat rolls on my stomach. HOW DO I GET RID OF THEM please help !!!

=> how do i lose weight besides eating healthy like what exercise should i do to help my abbs and my fat please help me lose weight! i am doing this thing where every day and every week i do an exercise and i have been doing it for two days so i just started it so should i start seeing results right away? so my goal is to lose 10 ponds by two months do you think i will or that it will work?

=> Is it possible and healthy to lose 50 lbs. in 6 months

 Safe weight loss takes time and effort, so be patient with the results. In general, losing 1 to 2 pounds per week is considered safe, and gradual weight loss tends to stay off longer. There may be weeks when you lose a little more weight than that, and weeks when you lose less than that.

If you have extra fat to lose in one area, you may have already realized that spot reduction (concentrating on losing fat in one area) is not possible. But any exercise or weight loss should help your problem areas in proportion to other areas of body fat. Toning, or strengthening the muscles in a certain location can help give the body a better appearance if the fat layer is not too thick to hide your improvements.

Visit the Healthy Weight School when you are ready to learn more.

Good luck on your journey towards better health!

 Growth Spurts and Weight Fluctuations

=> i am 12 years old turning 13 this year. i am a little bit chubby especially around my thighs. i don't know if it's baby fat or i will grow out of it. i don't want to be fat

=> does some of the weight come off if you have a large growth spurt?

  Good News! While your weight does not necessarily come off, you may look thinner as your body lengthens and you grow taller.

Your BMI (body mass index) will most likely improve as you grow taller, if you do not also gain more weight. Your BMI is your weight divided by your height squared or:

(height) X (height)
Check the weight calculator on this site to check that your weight is in a healthy range. Keep active, exercise regularly and eat healthy. All good ideas for being a healthy weight!

 Eating When Stressed or Sad - Things To Do Instead

=> my friend is obses. She eats when strss. What can she do to not strss eat.

=> my dad ppassed away and for me food is my savior I'm 12

Eating for reasons other than hunger can be a recipe for gaining weight. It's just not a good idea! When we are stressed or sad we might find comfort in eating but it is only temporary and then the stress or sadness returns.

Here are some things to try instead of turning to food:

1. Start a journal. Writing down how we feel inside can help us get in touch with our feelings and help us come up with ways to solve our stress or sadness without turning to food. Here are some tips on starting a journal. Try it, it's relaxing and fun.

2. Take a walk or exercise. Exercise can help clear your mind and calm you down.

3. Play with a pet. It’s amazing how helpful a furry friend can be.

4. Cry. Sometimes expressing your stress can help relieve it. Here is a list of more tips to try.

By learning to become more in touch with whatever our feelings are, and by practicing other coping strategies, we are on the road to becoming less stressed and more happy. Try some of these suggestions and see for yourself!

 Why Weight Differs In the Same Day

=> Why does the weight as you get up in the morning differs from the weight after eating?

 There are several reason why your weight can change throughout the day:

The body is made up of about 60% water, therefore changes in your weight will be directly related to how much or how little you are drinking.

Weighing yourself right after you eat may not be the best idea because when you eat, the food you've eaten will add to your overall weight. It doesn’t mean you’ve suddenly gained weight, it just means that you’ve recently eaten and that has added something to your body (something that will later pass when you use the bathroom).

If you've been exercising and trying to lose weight, it is important to note that adding muscle can increase your scale weight as well, even though you’re ACTUALLY slimming down. The reason muscle weighs more is because muscle is denser than fat and it takes up less space (so you may appear smaller but have gained more weight). The reason muscle benefits us is because it will help burn calories faster than fat. So it's worth the effort and exercise!

To get the most accurate weight, it is best to set a specific time to weigh yourself and do so everyday at that same time (when you first wake up, before bed, etc.).

A scale is a good tool to use when it is combined with your circumference measurements in inches (use a tape measure to find out how many inches you are around your waist, legs, arms, etc.) Inches are a great indicator of weight loss. Being knowledgeable of your scale weight and your body measurements can help you monitor your progress and tell whether you are losing the fat and/or gaining muscle!

 Weight Loss On One Body Area

=> How do you lose weight on your stomach?

=> I want to tone up my belly, my arms, and my love handles before summer which is in 3 months..what are your best tips to help me?

 Many kids are unhappy with certain parts of their body and would like to lose fat in just one area. Unfortunately, “spot” weight reduction in a specific area of your body doesn't work. The good news is that any exercise or weight loss should help your problem areas as well as your body in general.

Successful weight loss is usually done through a combination of increasing physical activity and decreasing your caloric intake. The best exercises for your thighs, butt, hips, and stomach are those that get your heart pumping faster. These are called cardio exercise and help your body burn fat for energy. Doing activities like swimming, dancing, walking, jumping rope, playing sports, even cleaning, can help your body get healthier. Try to get 30 to 60 minutes of "cardio" most days of the week and you should begin to notice changes.

Head over to Exercising Smart for more information on cardio exercise! Get moving and you'll see results!

 Healthy Snack Ideas

=> I need help with healthy snack ideas, and I need to be more active. Help?!

 You sound like you are motivated to make some changes. That's great!

Healthy snacking and physical activity are very important parts of successful weight loss, and good health in general. Eating healthy meals and snacks throughout the day is a great way to keep cravings away because you won't be as hungry. That makes it much easier to say no to candy or chips.

Choose healthy snacks like fruits, nuts, or yogurt. When buying groceries, buy healthy 100 calorie snack packs. They are already portioned out for you, so all you have to do is grab one when you feel the need for a snack!

Lucy has a whole page of tips on healthy eating. Head on over there for more information, on healthy after school snacks.

In addition to thinking about the types of foods to snack on, think about these things:

1. Eat a snack only when you feel physically hungry.
2. Don't eat snacks when you are bored or feeling blue. See rule number one.
3. Keep foods out of sight so you won't be tempted.
4. Eat snacks only at the kitchen table, not in front of the TV or computer.

Being physically active every day is easy! It doesn't need to take a lot of time and can be any activity you enjoy doing. Think about fun activities like going for a ride on your bike, taking a walk with a friend or your dog. Being more active can be as simple as taking the stairs instead of the elevator or dancing around your room. As long as you are raising your heart rate and moving your body, you will burn calories. Remember, if you like doing the activity, you are more likely to do it on a regular basis. Get Moving and Eat Healthy! You Will See Results!

 How To Determine If Your Child Is Overweight - What You Can Do To Help

=> my ten year old girl says shes overweight. shes always working out and cryes herself to sleep at night because shes "fat". shes a hundered pounds and she has a gut but i have never thought about it that way please wright me back soon. help,

 Excessive weight gain can occur at any age, but many parents don’t address the issue until the child is older or until the child is very overweight. By then, it is much more difficult to treat. Here are some ways to tell if your child is overweight:

Ten Ways to Tell if Your Child Has a Weight Problem*

1. His/her doctor tells you so.
2. Your child complains about being teased about her/his size.
3. Your child’s clothes seem to get too small too fast.
4. Shopping for clothes with your child is a nightmare.
5. Your child refuses to be seen in a bathing suit.
6. Your child’s friendships are suddenly changing.
7. Your child withdraws from activities he/she previously enjoyed.
8. You find yourself referring to him/her as "big-boned" or "large."
9. You notice your child huffing and puffing after a simple task such as climbing of stairs.
10. Your child tells you she/he thinks she/he is over-weight.

First, find out if your child is truly overweight. Check the weight calculator on this site to determine where your child falls.

If you find that your child is a healthy weight, she or he may have mis-perceptions about their body image or have low self-esteem. It is helpful to remind them that their worth as a person is not based on what size they are.

If you determine that your child is indeed overweight, you might want to have your child visit their pediatrician to determine a good plan and weight goal. This site has many tips and ideas that can also help. There is a section where you can learn more about how to help your child on the "Parents of Overweight Kids" page. Many teens and pre-teens find the Tips Area and the Chat room helpful as well.

Kids need their parents to listen, so keep those lines of communication open and practice being a good role model. You can greatly facilitate your child's growth into a healthy teen and adult. Good luck!

*From The Can-Do Eating Plan for Overweight Kids and Teens., by Michelle Daum, MS, RD, a pediatric nutritionist in private practice in Westchester and Long Island, NY.

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