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Lucy's Weight Loss Tips for Overweight Kids and Teens 91: Say Good-By to Your Problem Foods


Say Good-By to Your Problem Foods

Do I have trouble craving certain foods?
Do I want to eat a certain food all the time?
Do I find it difficult to stop eating that food until it is all gone?

How Can I Stop!!


Things You Can Do

We call foods we have trouble controlling "Problem Foods." Recent medical research has found that problems controlling certain foods can be a form of food addiction.

Addiction to food can be serious. Food addiction can be similar to being addicted to drugs, tobacco, and alcohol. The more we eat the problem food, the more we crave the food. The more we crave the food, the more we eat the problem food. It can be a vicious cycle. Food can be like a drugĀ used for stress, boredom, anger and other emotions that we keep inside. Instead of eating for hunger, we eat to soothe feelings.

Am I eating for fuel, or am I eating to soothe a feeling? Food is all around us and eating is an acceptable behavior. That is part of the problem! That is why we need to stop and ask ourselves before we eat, "Am I eating for fuel, or am I eating to soothe a feeling?" Getting in touch with how we are feeling and then acting on that feeling with things other than eating can be helpful. For example, when you are craving ice cream, stop thinking about the ice cream and go do something else. You can journal, read, take a bath, play outside or walk your dog. Focus on your hobbies, friends, pets or other things that distract you and make you happy other than food. Remember, when you have a craving, the craving will go away if you give it a little time. Count to 20! The delay helps you to avoid caving into the craving. "Don't cave into the craving!!!" Repeat. "Don't cave into the craving!!!"

Let others know your plan so they can support you. Your family and friends can help you with ways to cope, other than with food. Ask your parents not to buy "junk food" or not to bring it into the house. If they do buy junk food, ask them to put it out of sight or in a difficult place to reach so that you will not be as tempted to eat that food. Inform your friends and family of your new approach to eating by telling them that you "eat for fuel" and that food is no longer going to control you anymore. You are now going to be in control of the food!!! If you feel like you need to talk with someone other than your family and friends, request to talk with a counselor at school or in the community. Remember you are not alone and we know you can do it!!

Here's a tip to help you fight your problem foods.
(Following the Sample Action Plan is a blank Action Plan Form for you to fill out and send in.)

An Action Plan To Stop Eating Problem Foods


1. First, put a check mark by the words below that best describe how you feel about yourself.

Sad X
Hurt
Disappointed
Miserable
Ashamed
Rejected X
Worthless
Inadequate
Exhausted
Uninterested
Bored
Worried
Scared
Out of Control X
Humiliated X
Self conscious
Pressured
Abandoned
Mad X
Criticized
Paranoid
Stressed X
Alone
Lethargic
Guilty
Angry X
Hopeless


2. Then write a good-bye letter to food and the problem food. Here is a sample letter.

Dear food,

You are not going to control my life anymore. I am ready for a change. I am tired of using you to soothe me when I am sad or mad. When I felt worthless I used you to help me feel better but actually you made me unhealthy both physically and emotionally. Instead of using deep breathing or relaxing techniques for my stress, I would eat a bag of chips. Funny how you didn't help me, I just felt a lot more guilty and stressed after I ate.

When I was bored I ate cookies instead of reaching for my violin which I love to play. When I felt unwanted or was teased I ate a BIG Mac and ice cream. I could have been volunteering and helping others. I know I would have felt so much better about myself.

I want to become healthy!!! I want to stop being addicted to you. You have not helped me. I want to be able to take a walk without being out of breath. I want to be able to fit into cool clothes. I am sick of being teased. I don't want to get diabetes or high blood pressure.

I have been depressed and I am not going to let you control me. I am not going to let you destroy my health or my life! You are not my best friend anymore!!

I know it is going to be hard, you were what I used for sadness, stress, boredom, anger and guiltie but I know I can do it. I am going to start a journal to write down how I am feeling and what I am stressed about. I am going to try to use deep breathing and walking to control my stress. I will talk with my friends and pastor about any problems I might have. I will ask my parents not to buy junk food anymore. I am going to overcome this addiction to you and realize that you are only here as fuel for my body. I know the cravings will go away after a couple weeks and I know I can do it.


Yours Truly, Mya


My Action Plan To Stop Eating Problem Foods

1. Put a check mark by the words below that best describe how you feel about yourself.

Sad
Hurt
Disappointed
Miserable
Ashamed
Rejected
Worthless
Inadequate
Exhausted
Uninterested
Bored
Worried
Scared
Out of Control
Humiliated
Self conscious
Pressured
Abandoned
Mad
Criticized
Paranoid
Stressed
Alone
Lethargic
Guilty
Angry
Hopeless


2. Write a good-bye letter to food and the problem food.

fun exercise











Dear food,


Yours Truly, _____________________

3. Congratulations on taking the first step to saying good-bye to your problem foods!!!!

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