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From BIl, Child's Age 13 - 06/05/03 - IP#: 64.12.97.xxx Click here to reply  
My son is 13 and weighs 230lbs. I dont know what to do anymore. Hes much bigger then me and has a larger clothing size(size 34 jeans). I dont know where to buy him clothes anymore. His sister works for McDonalds and brings him home two burgers, two fries and a soda and he eats it all. I cant stop it because im not home at the time. Instead of going outside he sits on the couch getting bigger and bigger. For lunch at school he dosent eats what i give him and buys pizzas and candy from the machines. Whenever hes out in public he tries to suck i his huge belly. At school he has friends but says that hes the fattest in his grade. I am actually not overweight and he wasnt like this before. Sometimes i dont think that he cares that hes fat. I dont know what to do anymore, PLEASE HELP!
Reply from Robyn, Child's Age 12 - 01/03/04  - IP#: 69.35.4.xxx
Reply from tina, Child's Age 9 - 08/21/03  - IP#: 64.12.96.xxx
Reply from Vicky, Child's Age 11 - 06/07/03  - IP#: 66.157.86.xxx

From Sherri, Child's Age 11 - 06/04/03 - IP#: 152.163.252.xxx Click here to reply  
I can't believe I am even considering this but I guess it is on my mind and this seems to be a very safe place to get advice from other parents who truly understand my dilemma. My daughter is 11, weighs 137 and is 4 ft 9 in. She is extremely athletic & plays a variety of sports along with cheer classes and twice weekly private tumbling. She has always been alittle bigger than other girls her age and, of course, I have always been concerned with health issues but most importantly I've been more concerned with her self esteem and overall happiness. (Click here to see rest of message).
Reply from angela, Child's Age 11 - 05/15/04  - IP#: 68.74.28.xxx
Reply from Ann, Child's Age 12 - 06/25/03  - IP#: 63.139.1.xxx
Reply from Theresa, Child's Age 12 - 06/07/03  - IP#: 24.67.253.xxx

From Lakeisha, Child's Age 12 - 06/03/03 - IP#: 205.188.209.xxx Click here to reply  
My child is so overweight she drinks 2 liters of coke a day!
Reply from Bob, Child's Age 12 - 06/07/04  - IP#: 68.52.220.xxx
Reply from ???, Child's Age 3 - 03/02/04  - IP#: 67.73.167.xxx
Reply from Drew, Child's Age 12 - 01/03/04  - IP#: 69.35.4.xxx
Reply from Ashley, Child's Age 12 - 07/09/03  - IP#: 66.41.110.xxx
Reply from LAKEISHA, Child's Age 12 - 07/08/03  - IP#: 64.12.96.xxx
Reply from Mike, Child's Age 13 - 07/02/03  - IP#: 24.190.112.xxx
Reply from ami, Child's Age 6 - 06/29/03  - IP#: 195.93.32.xxx
Reply from lakeisha, Child's Age 12 - 06/28/03  - IP#: 152.163.252.xxx
Reply from Dean, Child's Age 16 - 06/28/03  - IP#: 65.40.226.xxx
Reply from Charles, Child's Age 12 - 06/27/03  - IP#: 205.188.208.xxx
Reply from Renee, Child's Age 18 - 06/26/03  - IP#: 146.82.213.xxx
Reply from Jill, Child's Age 11 - 06/25/03  - IP#: 64.109.231.xxx
Reply from B, Child's Age 14 - 06/16/03  - IP#: 198.81.26.xxx
Reply from Ray Ray, Child's Age 12 - 06/09/03  - IP#: 66.67.108.xxx
Reply from Theresa, Child's Age 12 - 06/03/03  - IP#: 24.67.253.xxx

From My child needs help, Child's Age 13 - 05/30/03 - IP#: 65.64.8.xxx Click here to reply  
Does anyone HAVE ANY ADVICE FOR MY DAUGHTER????!!!! I keep coming back here and no one replies to that post I made please SHE NEEDS HELP!!!
Reply from Maurice, Child's Age 13 - 06/10/04  - IP#: 66.108.255.xxx
Reply from My child needs help, Child's Age 13 - 06/06/03  - IP#: 65.64.13.xxx
Reply from Theresa, Child's Age 12 - 06/03/03  - IP#: 24.67.253.xxx
Reply from Vicky, Child's Age 11 - 05/30/03  - IP#: 67.35.115.xxx

From My child needs help, Child's Age 13 - 05/28/03 - IP#: 65.64.8.xxx Click here to reply  
My child is 13, she is 5' 6" and weighs 185 she and I have made a weight loss plan but I still need more advice for her. Thank you very much!
Reply from achu, Age 12 - 09/25/13  - IP#: 176.205.184.xxx

From Tonya, Child's Age 8 - 05/23/03 - IP#: 162.39.199.xxx Click here to reply  
My beautiful 8 year old daughter is over weight. She is extremely active: softball and cheerleading daily. I never fully realized how "big" she was until last weekend at her first cheerleading meet when the other teams stood aroung to see the fat girl cheer. Thank goodness she did'nt hear them, but I did and it made me absolutely sick to my stomach. Cali is 8 yrs old and weighs 115 pounds and is constantly eating--she is never full. We have gone as far as to take all "snacks" and drinks out of the house but it has not helped. We have seen doctor after doctor but all they recommend is to diet with no other help. All of your help and/or suggestions would be greatly appreciated
Reply from Arianna, Child's Age 14 - 06/10/03  - IP#: 12.250.233.xxx
Reply from Kim, Child's Age 7 - 05/28/03  - IP#: 66.190.190.xxx

From Lisa, Child's Age 10 - 05/20/03 - IP#: 209.240.198.xxx Click here to reply  
Hello everyone. I has been three months since we went to the dietician. Amanda weighed 185 pounds and stood 5'3". She is very athletic playing three sports, walking, riding bikes, jumping on trampolines. Rarely does she sit inside. Yet she continuedto gained weigh. We learned how o eat healthier and in portions. Today we learned Amanda has lost 10 pounds! I have lost 8. If we are not losing we are setting even and not gaining. It is a simple plan; portion control is the biggest part.I detailed this plan in my last update (just scroll down until you find me again). This is working for us and has been a God send for Amanda. She is regaing her confidence and walking around with her head held high. I hope you will take the time to read my last update and maybe put this to use. Many blessings to you and your brave children for fighting this battle and not giving up.

From Tami, Child's Age 12 - 05/04/03 - IP#: 207.194.127.xxx Click here to reply  
Thanks Shana for the reply to my question about stretch marks. I figured that the ones one her breasts her due to how fast she is growing, not her weight. Im going to see if I can find a good scar reduction cream for her to try. I also had a relpy from someone who said they use cocoa butter......ever hear of this? Thanks again. Much appreciated.Tami :):)
Reply from Rose, Child's Age 9 - 09/04/03  - IP#: 65.41.203.xxx

From cinnamon, Child's Age 13 - 04/29/03 - IP#: 216.240.69.xxx Click here to reply  
Hi my girls r 13 and 9 ,i'm at a loss at what to do .My 13year old daughter ways in at 210 pounds and my 9 year old is at 120 pounds . i have tried everything .I HAVE LISTENED TO THE KIDS AT SCHOOL SAY AWFUL THINGS TO BOTH GIRLS!!! They both are very talented and are into choir and music but blaize the oldest hasbeen over looked for solo shows because of her appearance this was even told to me by a teacher at her school.She is also beatiful with great bone features that she hides behind her weight.i'm afraid she will let all the neg. ruin her dreams ,she cries every night about her weight .No matter what diet we try she can not stick to it.What should I do to help? As for my 9 yr old she use to be into sports did modeling and was a joy all the time,NOW IT'S ALL FOOD!Her attude is scary at times,when u comment on anything to do with her eating. Icant find clothes to fit she was... (view more)
Reply from ??????????????, Child's Age 6 - 06/21/03  - IP#: 24.171.119.xxx
Reply from Arianna, Child's Age 14 - 06/09/03  - IP#: 12.250.233.xxx
Reply from LISA, Child's Age 10 - 06/05/03  - IP#: 209.240.198.xxx

From jane, Child's Age 11 - 04/29/03 - IP#: 64.12.96.xxx Click here to reply  
im sorry my daughters email is shadylerker690@aol.com instead of shadylerkr699@aol.com

From Tami, Child's Age 12 - 04/23/03 - IP#: 207.194.127.xxx Click here to reply  
My daughter is turning 12 in a couple months. She is almost 5 feet tall and weighs about 140.One of the things that is really bothering her, more than her weight, is the fact the she has developed stretch marks. She has them on her stomach as well as her breasts. They are quite red and of course they bother her alot.......she is very self conscience about them. Does anyone have any advice about how to fade them at all? I would appreciate any help you have. Thanks.Tami
Reply from Shana, Child's Age 14 - 05/01/03  - IP#: 68.193.105.xxx
Reply from Ray Ray, Child's Age 12 - 04/27/03  - IP#: 66.24.83.xxx

From mary, Child's Age 12 - 04/22/03 - IP#: 216.119.9.xxx Click here to reply  
my 12 year old daughter jenna is always complaining about her weight. she thinks shes fat. I disagree. she is 4ft 2 and weighs 105lbs. please tell me is she overweight for her age and height. she wears a size 16 jeans loves P.E. but she has a hard time doing some things in the class. Thank You, Mary
Reply from Dean, Child's Age 11 - 07/10/03  - IP#: 196.30.245.xxx
Reply from Mary, Child's Age 5 - 04/25/03  - IP#: 192.108.16.xxx

From Ebony - 04/15/03 - IP#: 207.6.208.xxx Click here to reply  
As a person who has struggled with an eating disorder since the age of 10, I am absolutly appaled by some of the parents on this board.. ACCEPT YOUR CHILDREN AS THEY ARE...THEY ARE NOT YOU..if you are overweight, YOU lose the weight, don't pressure your child..Encourage and set a good example. Don't EVER call them fat, EVER. Or Chunky, chubby etc.. NEVER Call your child names. Accept them as they are, they are your children.
Reply from Katie, Child's Age 9 - 09/11/12  - IP#: 66.67.168.xxx
Reply from Tina, Child's Age 9 - 08/14/03  - IP#: 64.12.96.xxx
Reply from Kim, Child's Age 7 - 05/28/03  - IP#: 66.190.190.xxx
Reply from Jodi, Child's Age 14 - 04/21/03  - IP#: 204.31.53.xxx
Reply from Ebony - 04/18/03  - IP#: 207.6.208.xxx
Reply from Tara, Child's Age 4 - 04/16/03  - IP#: 172.143.58.xxx
Reply from rose, Child's Age 12 - 04/14/03  - IP#: 205.187.216.xxx
Reply from Vicky, Child's Age 11 - 04/12/03  - IP#: 67.35.250.xxx

From Jenny, Child's Age 14 - 04/03/03 - IP#: 208.148.216.xxx Click here to reply  
My daughter is 14 years old. She's a healthy, beautiful girl, but she thinks she's fat. She's around 5'3"-5'5" tall, and normally weighs 129 lbs, like she has the past 6 months. However, over the last two weeks she's gained weight and now weighs 136 lbs. She's become VERY upset over this,and is trying to lose weight? She has a concert coming up in a couple of weeks, do ya'll have any ideas how she can get back to her regular weight so she'll cheer up??
Reply from Dean, Child's Age 11 - 05/01/03  - IP#: 196.2.33.xxx

From Patty, Child's Age 14 - 03/30/03 - IP#: 65.28.9.xxx Click here to reply  
HI i am Patty my daughter thinks she is fat when she isnt. She is only 5 foot 2 and weighs 117 pounds how do i get her to understand she isnt fat?
Reply from Rose, Child's Age 12 - 04/14/03  - IP#: 205.187.216.xxx

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