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From John, Child's Age 10 - 11/26/02 - IP#: 64.213.175.xxx Click here to reply  
I know it's been over a month, but I wanted to reply to what some kids had asked about Amanda after I shared about her progress.First, Tyler noticed that 300 lbs is too much for a 10 year old. He's absolutely right. It's not something that happens overnight. As a parent you want your child to be as happy as possible and Amanda was happiest when she was eating. But the time came when Amanda saw for herself that she was too big so when she told me it became important to me that I help her.Ray Ray and sammy asked how Amanda lost 20 lbs. Well first, that wasn't overnight either. It took over 6 months to get her down to 280. It wasn't straight downhill either. Sometimes she didn't lose any weight for a couple days and sometimes she gained some (like after a day of really bad teasing at school). The main thing is to not think you failed just because you aren't losing weight all the time.The... (view more)
Reply from Lucia, Child's Age 11 - 07/13/03  - IP#: 198.81.26.xxx
Reply from ray ray, Child's Age 11 - 12/24/02  - IP#: 158.252.50.xxx
Reply from Leigh, Child's Age 12 - 12/13/02  - IP#: 65.163.106.xxx

From Linda, Child's Age 13 - 11/19/02 - IP#: 68.13.169.xxx Click here to reply  
My daughter doesn't have the problem being over weight, though she was chubby at one point in time. She has lost I beleive around 10 pounds but keeps some how eating a little less then usual each day. I remember how that happened to me when I was her age, but I didn't eat as little as she does. I'm pretty sure she doesn't eat alot at school either. She isn't allowed snacks at school and she isn't one to disregard the rules. I wonder if this could just be just growing up, or a real problem.
Reply from Trinity Brooke P., Child's Age 12 - 08/04/03  - IP#: 67.28.110.xxx

From Sue, Child's Age 12 - 11/18/02 - IP#: 152.163.189.xxx Click here to reply  
hello yall, my daughter is 12, 5'6 and weighes 145lbs (as of Aug 4). I no its not that much but im afrid that i will continue to get bigger. when she was littler she was always an athletic bluid with a little tummy but if u touched it u could feel her abs under and her tummy was never soft. She was always active and is a really good volleyball player. but over the summer i noticed somthing about her. (Click here to see rest of message).
Reply from Trinity Brooke P., Child's Age 12 - 08/04/03  - IP#: 67.28.110.xxx
Reply from sue, Child's Age 12 - 11/18/02  - IP#: 205.188.208.xxx
Reply from Lindsay, Child's Age 10 - 11/18/02  - IP#: 64.12.96.xxx

From Tim, Child's Age 12 - 11/12/02 - IP#: 12.246.237.xxx Click here to reply  
Hello... I found it shocking that someone could gain up to 33 pounds in 2 weeks, as a previous post mentioned. I was under the impression that such a large amount was physically impossible. I would like to know just what somebody would have to eat to gain so much weight, so I can steer my own son off that path. I also find I work best through gathered statistics, so I suppose that would be another reason I would appreciate having some helpful information. Besides, if I knew what somebody could possibly eat to have such a horrendous gain, I might be able to help my son later in life by being able to steer him from such bad foods, considering his size already at 270. I suppose I feel ashamed. Well, thank you for any information you can give.
Reply from Jay, Child's Age 13 - 12/01/02  - IP#: 205.188.208.xxx
Reply from Ray Ray, Child's Age 11 - 11/21/02  - IP#: 158.252.49.xxx
Reply from Lindsay, Child's Age 10 - 11/18/02  - IP#: 64.12.96.xxx
Reply from Tim, Child's Age 12 - 11/14/02  - IP#: 12.246.237.xxx
Reply from Lisa, Child's Age 9 - 11/13/02  - IP#: 195.93.34.xxx

From gina, Child's Age 12 - 11/11/02 - IP#: 63.250.38.xxx Click here to reply  
hello all. my daughter has been overwewight ever since my husband and i divorced. at 12, she weighs 155-160 lbs. i don't know waht to do. last year she had high cholesteral. we lowered it but she gained weight. if anyone has ideas, please respond.

From Mary, Child's Age 14 - 11/03/02 - IP#: 65.59.41.xxx Click here to reply  
My daughter is 14 and she weighs 176 and is 5'1 tall.She wants to lose weight and the doctor told her to go on a diet.But the thing is i dont know what she should eat or anything.when she sees skinny girls on tv and then when she looks in the mirror she gets upset.Do any of u know a good diet she should go on??I know that fast weight loss is unhealthy but she said she wanted the fastest healthy one there is.She wants to be down to 110.Can any of u please help?email me at hugablebunny88@hotmail.com(thats my daughters old email that i use cause my box is too full.)
Reply from Trinity Brooke P., Child's Age 12 - 08/04/03  - IP#: 67.28.110.xxx

From Kary, Child's Age 14 - 10/28/02 - IP#: 66.188.235.xxx Click here to reply  
My daughter weighed herself today and though she always yells don't look, I was curious so I did. And what I saw on there was 186. Isn't that a little bit heavy for a 5 foot 5 14 year old girl? I mean she seems to have been gaining weight. At a doctors appointment last year she weighed in at 167. Now she's 19 pounds heavier. I;ve always been one to think that if they have a good self image it's ok, but with her gaining weight and now almost to 190 pounds. I don't think that it's ok anymore. I mean I'm 45 and I weighed myself and I weighed 163 pounds. I don't think something is right here.
Reply from Trinity Brooke P., Child's Age 12 - 08/04/03  - IP#: 67.28.110.xxx
Reply from felicia, Child's Age 18 - 11/01/02  - IP#: 216.139.164.xxx

From Maree, Child's Age 35 - 10/27/02 - IP#: 203.220.192.xxx Click here to reply  
I am sure most parents are doing their best to help their children. No-one needs or appreciates critisism.
People have also got to understand that a weight issue is more then nutrition, or lack of it, and it's more then exercise, or lack of it. Carrying excessive weight is a way to protect oneself from the outer world. People literally hide inside of their bodies because they are afraid of what they see outside of them. (Click here to see rest of message)
Reply from Trinity Brooke P., Child's Age 12 - 08/04/03  - IP#: 67.28.110.xxx
Reply from matt, Child's Age 4 - 01/24/03  - IP#: 129.215.16.xxx

From Kay, Child's Age 15 - 10/18/02 - IP#: 198.81.27.xxx Click here to reply  
i had tried everything for my daughter but nothing had worked i realized she exercised constantly,didnt each very much junk or very much at all but she was still gaining weight so i took her to a dietician she was upset with me but now she is happy because its been only one week and shes lost 15 lbs so she is now 335 the doctor told us she had a heretic disorder and that is why she was obese in other words, its not her fault if your child sounds like my daughter please take them to a dietician i know its expensive but if will make out kids healthier and happier its worth it right?
Reply from Trinity Brooke P., Child's Age 12 - 08/04/03  - IP#: 67.28.110.xxx

From John, Child's Age 10 - 10/10/02 - IP#: 64.214.58.xxx Click here to reply  
Since none of us meet in chat, I thought I should start getting better about using the board to communicate. After a lot of hard work, Amanda's weight is down to 280 lbs. That's still very overweight for a 10 yr old girl, but 20 pounds off is a start. It is really hard work to get her not to overeat too much but she is trying. I can definitely see a difference in her ability to walk. At her weight it was very difficult, but not impossible. I still catch her binge eating at times, but she really wants me to help so I try to help all I can.
Reply from Debbie, Child's Age 9 - 01/31/03  - IP#: 24.154.236.xxx
Reply from sammy, Child's Age 11 - 11/24/02  - IP#: 152.163.188.xxx
Reply from Ray Ray, Child's Age 11 - 11/05/02  - IP#: 158.252.50.xxx
Reply from Rockerbaby, Child's Age 11 - 11/02/02  - IP#: 65.163.106.xxx
Reply from Tyler, Child's Age 14 - 10/22/02  - IP#: 209.226.89.xxx

From Lynn, Child's Age 14 - 10/01/02 - IP#: 66.188.235.xxx Click here to reply  
I need some help from you other parents out there. You see my daughter has a good self image. She has never felt uncomfortable with her weight, though the doctor told me at her last vist that she is about 25-30 pounds overweight. See, she's 14 and she weighs about 172 pounds. Sure, she has some fat on her stomach, but she has never had any probablems with it and i'm not going to ruin it with a diet. But now i have learned from my daughter that when they start track in 2 weeks the gym teacher will weigh all of the kids in her class, boys and girls, and say what they weigh out loud. I find this totally out of line and have spoken to the teacher but she said she has done it this way for 10 years and isn't going to change. My daughter doesn't want to do it because she knows that she's overweight and doesn't want to be laughed at. What can i do? Is there anything?
Reply from Hannah, Child's Age 13 - 02/04/04  - IP#: 68.41.208.xxx
Reply from Tina, Child's Age 9 - 08/21/03  - IP#: 64.12.96.xxx
Reply from sandy, Child's Age 11 - 10/18/02  - IP#: 152.163.188.xxx
Reply from Ann, Child's Age 20 - 10/10/02  - IP#: 128.206.6.xxx

From sandy, Child's Age 11 - 09/24/02 - IP#: 205.188.209.xxx Click here to reply  
hi please help me my child is 11 and 5 ft tall and weighs 155lbs she comes home crying from school kids call her blubber belly,boulder they say oh dont sit on me her stomach is enormous with tons of rolls. her father says embbarassing things in front of her freinds like i feel guilty feeding you all this fat and you dont move around enough.he tells her she has to lose weight in front of her freids she cries and says it is so embarasing. her freind is so skinny and can fit into limeted too clothes her belly bursts out of every pair of clothing it gets bigger every year.she is fairly active she plays softball.she eats a little to much. it is mostly the pasta that gets her fat.it goes to her belly.i trie to tell her all the time she is getting way to fat and she has to go on a diet but she just gets mad she thinks she is so fat. please post back with comments i am desperate
Reply from Michelle, Child's Age 11 - 03/31/04  - IP#: 64.12.116.xxx
Reply from brittney, Child's Age 14 - 12/13/03  - IP#: 4.11.54.xxx
Reply from Ray Ray, Child's Age 11 - 11/05/02  - IP#: 158.252.50.xxx
Reply from Lizz, Child's Age 9 - 10/29/02  - IP#: 208.6.37.xxx
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From tracie, Child's Age 8 - 09/22/02 - IP#: 65.166.30.xxx Click here to reply  
I have a daughter who is 8 years old and weighs 120 pounds. would like some advice about how to diet with her without hurting her self esteem or feelings. please help
Reply from Anna, Child's Age 12 - 10/12/03  - IP#: 66.81.249.xxx
Reply from jacey, Child's Age 13 - 04/30/03  - IP#: 152.163.188.xxx

From Linda, Child's Age 13 - 09/20/02 - IP#: 66.188.235.xxx Click here to reply  
I need some help. I'm not too sure if my daughter is overweight or not. She is 13 years old, almost 14. She is about 5 foot 6 I believe and the last time I saw how much she weighed, which was about a month ago, she weighed about 175 pounds. She doesn't look all the big, but she is a big big and her stomach is a bit big. She has never been made fun of though. I know though that it isn't all muscle probably. But would she be considered overweight? I don't really have a good reson to bring her to a doctor about it because she has never been concerned about her weight and I'm not sure if I should be or not. 175 pounds just seems a little bit heavy for being 13 years old. Could someone here help me out? Thank you
Reply from Dean Zack, Child's Age 11 - 09/23/02  - IP#: 196.2.33.xxx

From DeAnna, Child's Age 11 - 09/16/02 - IP#: 205.188.209.xxx Click here to reply  
I'ts 3a.m. and I am in tears writting this. After reading 5 pages of posts from other parents I feel horrible: guilt and embarrasment... a bad mom. My son Adrien is 11, he's 5'2 and 180lbs. I could sit and make excuses, blame the blame, but it all comes down to my fault. It's my fault he's overweight. It's my fault he eat's the wrong foods. It's my fault he gets teased at school. It's not like I feed him twinkies 6 times a day, I have trouble saying no. That kid could talk me out of anything, he's very good at it. He likes to bargin with me, I need a class on how to say "NO". NO-NO-NO... what a slap in the face to realize it's my fault he's miserable. Family and friends keep saying "he will out-grow it", "he'll get taller", "He's just a kid", "it's just babyfat", shame on me. And the doctors, telling me what to do, what not to do. Sitting there in judgement of me and my son. Are their children overweight? Do they live with a child that can convince you that they are starving, when you know they are not; Finding food wrappers tucked into great hiding places? I doubt it.
Reply from Tina, Child's Age 9 - 08/21/03  - IP#: 64.12.96.xxx

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