From HeLp...PlZzZzZzZz - 07/23/03 - IP#: 65.24.132.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
hey i am about to enter high school and really would like to lose 20 lbs in about a month! if anyone has any help plz help me. and if its not bad enough i was lookin 4 a pen in my moms desk and i found a "fat camp" form with my name on it i dont want to go so...plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help me
Reply From cassandra, Age 14 - 06/24/03 - IP#: 66.119.34.xxx show message replied to go to original board
well I was fat and now I am skinny.
because my sister help me when i am eating to much she tell me and when she eats to much I tell her
she is eating to much and needs to stop. I stop when full and when hungary I drink water. and start walking
till I am full.
From HeLp...PlZzZzZzZz - 07/23/03 - IP#: 65.24.132.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
hey i am about to enter high school and really would like to lose 20 lbs in about a month! if anyone has any help plz help me. and if its not bad enough i was lookin 4 a pen in my moms desk and i found a "fat camp" form with my name on it i dont want to go so...plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help me
Reply From cassandra, Age 14 - 06/24/03 - IP#: 66.119.34.xxx show message replied to go to original board
well I was fat and now I am skinny.
because my sister help me when i am eating to much she tell me and when she eats to much I tell her
she is eating to much and needs to stop. I stop when full and when hungary I drink water. and start walking
till I am full.
From Dawn, Age 16 - 08/27/01 - IP#: 64.12.103.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Hi everyone please help my sister. She is only 9 and is 4'8 and weighs almost 200 pounds. She gets picked on all of the time. And it might not be to much longer before she is gone.Please help.Thank you.
Reply From Dave, Age 16 - 06/16/03 - IP#: 68.186.227.xxx show message replied to go to original board
Hey, I have a little information but not much... First get her on some kind of small diet to help her to begin loosing weight. Weight loss is a process, and this process has to be done right or else something wrong will happen... Did you get her to a good doctor? Did they give you some type of medication for her. If not you can go on google.com, and type in weight loss. However you have to get doing some type of activity. I suggest if your family has the room for one, to get a trampoline. These are soo much fun for little kids, and they donot even know that they are loosing weight,or getting excercise. Also NO FAST FOOD AT ALL!!! This extremely un-healthy... Cook her a normal meal with meat, vegetables, and blue 1/2 fat milk. If she gets hungry during the day provide cereal... I hope that I was of some help to you and your family, best wishes,and good luck,Dave
From Tianna, Age 12 - 06/02/03 - IP#: 141.154.165.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Ht. 5'0", Today: 156 lb (BMI %tile: 98) - hi you guys.....do u know how tough it is to go to a school wit alot of skinny,pretty,girls and you being and ugly,fat,girl who is known very well but look im sick of being the fat girl in my group of friends my friend Krystal is skinny SANTANA is skinny Camika is skinny and i have 20 people in the group and out of all of them im the one you notice first wanna know why?? because im a fat gurl....im 12 ill be 13 august 12th im 5 feet and i weigh 156...i try to diet but all my mom cooks is Puerto Rican food and i try to diet but it smells so good....she will never stop making that food because i have a scronny 4 year old brother he weighs 40 pounds and hes muscular..and alot of fat peoples in my house maybe like 2 more fat people and my aunt is like 140 and shes 5'3 shes pretty,my great aunt is big but she nice and da rest of the people call me big and stuff and check it out i wear a size 7 in jeans and medium shirts . i have alot of friends but im so sick of being fat i have a round belly but im not wide i asked my mom am i obese and she told me no...she tells me im beautiful and so dont alot of people but when i look at myself i think what an ugly little girl i am so ashamed.
Reply From Chrissy, Age 15 - 06/03/03 - IP#: 205.188.209.xxx show message replied to go to original board
Hey try not to ever be ashamed of yourself. talk to your mom about your problems and tell her that you really want to lose weight. maybe then she will cook the right things you need to accomplish your goals. if she won't cook what you want her to, then tell her you want to start fixing your own meals. Walking is a great way to exercise. but really ask your mom to help you because you cant do it by yourself. good luck!
From Tianna, Age 12 - 06/02/03 - IP#: 141.154.165.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Ht. 5'0", Today: 156 lb (BMI %tile: 98) - hi you guys.....do u know how tough it is to go to a school wit alot of skinny,pretty,girls and you being and ugly,fat,girl who is known very well but look im sick of being the fat girl in my group of friends my friend Krystal is skinny SANTANA is skinny Camika is skinny and i have 20 people in the group and out of all of them im the one you notice first wanna know why?? because im a fat gurl....im 12 ill be 13 august 12th im 5 feet and i weigh 156... i try to diet but all my mom cooks is Puerto Rican food and i try to diet but it smells so good....she will never stop making that food because i have a scronny 4 year old brother he weighs 40 pounds and hes muscular..and alot of fat peoples in my house maybe like 2 more fat people and my aunt is like 140 and shes 5'3 shes pretty,my great aunt is big but she nice and da rest of the people call me big and stuff and check it out i wear a size 7 in jeans and medium shirts . i have alot of friends but im so sick of being fat i have a round belly but im not wide i asked my mom am i obese and she told me no...she tells me im beautiful and so dont alot of people but when i look at myself i think what an ugly little girl i am so ashamed.
Reply From Chrissy, Age 15 - 06/03/03 - IP#: 205.188.209.xxx show message replied to go to original board
Hey try not to ever be ashamed of yourself. talk to your mom about your problems and tell her that you really want to lose weight. maybe then she will cook the right things you need to accomplish your goals. if she won't cook what you want her to, then tell her you want to start fixing your own meals. Walking is a great way to exercise. but really ask your mom to help you because you cant do it by yourself. good luck!
From Louise, Age 15 - 05/19/03 - IP#: 195.93.50.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Ht. 5'2", Today: 154 lb (BMI %tile: 95) - Hi, my name is Louise. I'm 5'2 and about 154 pounds. I've been overweight since I was about 8. It is making me so unhappy! The worst thing is the comments that people make especially my mum. She calls me names and teases me about my weight all the time. It hurts so much and its like I'm always waiting for the next critisism. Like today when she dropped me and two friends off at school she said that in future I should walk cos I'm getting too fat. Last weekend she was shouting at me for not helping enough in the house and she called me a "big fat thing". She is always telling people I am fat in front of me and she calls me dumpy. My dad tells me I have no personality and no sense of humor. I feel so self consious at school and I hate PE (getting changed). I only have a few friends. I think my mum hates me. I have never felt close to her. We are very different in every way (including looks) as I am adopted. She is dark and has always been skinny although she has gained weight lately. I have always been blonde and chubbier. She keeps telling me that she always thought I would be tall and slim but instead I am short and fat. When I buy new clothes she says that everything I pick out is only for slim people. Its like she never stops. I can't remember anyone ever saying anything good about me and I feel like such a failure and a dissappointment. I know it looks like I am feeling sorry for myself but it is how I feel. Like there is no hope. I feel totally alone. Most days I wish I was dead.
Reply From April, Age 14 - 05/20/03 - IP#: 152.163.252.xxx show message replied to go to original board
Aww Louise don't feel bad. my mother did at to me too. But since I am very strong-willed I todl her how much I hated it. It took a while for her to realize how hurt I really was. Just stand up for yourself and tell her how she is not helping you any by telling you how fat you are. Sometimes parents thin they are helping you by telling you you are overwight (as if you don't already know). Just explain yourself, that's all you can do. And if she doesn't care, show her how much you care by actually trying to lose weight FOR YOURSELF (not for her). And never feel like dying. Life is already short enough. *SMYLE 4 YOU*
From Louise, Age 15 - 05/19/03 - IP#: 195.93.50.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Ht. 5'2", Today: 154 lb (BMI %tile: 95) - Hi, my name is Louise. I'm 5'2 and about 154 pounds. I've been overweight since I was about 8. It is making me so unhappy! The worst thing is the comments that people make especially my mum. She calls me names and teases me about my weight all the time. It hurts so much and its like I'm always waiting for the next critisism. Like today when she dropped me and two friends off at school she said that in future I should walk cos I'm getting too fat. Last weekend she was shouting at me for not helping enough in the house and she called me a "big fat thing". She is always telling people I am fat in front of me and she calls me dumpy. My dad tells me I have no personality and no sense of humor. I feel so self consious at school and I hate PE (getting changed). I only have a few friends. I think my mum hates me. I have never felt close to her. We are very different in every way (including looks) as I am adopted. She is dark and has always been skinny although she has gained weight lately. I have always been blonde and chubbier. She keeps telling me that she always thought I would be tall and slim but instead I am short and fat. When I buy new clothes she says that everything I pick out is only for slim people. Its like she never stops. I can't remember anyone ever saying anything good about me and I feel like such a failure and a dissappointment. I know it looks like I am feeling sorry for myself but it is how I feel. Like there is no hope. I feel totally alone. Most days I wish I was dead.
Reply From April, Age 14 - 05/20/03 - IP#: 152.163.252.xxx show message replied to go to original board
Aww Louise don't feel bad. my mother did at to me too. But since I am very strong-willed I todl her how much I hated it. It took a while for her to realize how hurt I really was. Just stand up for yourself and tell her how she is not helping you any by telling you how fat you are. Sometimes parents thin they are helping you by telling you you are overwight (as if you don't already know). Just explain yourself, that's all you can do. And if she doesn't care, show her how much you care by actually trying to lose weight FOR YOURSELF (not for her). And never feel like dying. Life is already short enough. *SMYLE 4 YOU*
From jessika, Age 15 - 03/22/03 - IP#: 64.12.96.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Ht. 5'1", Today: 150 lb (BMI %tile: 95) - hey ever1,im 5'1 and weigh 150 pound so im overweight for my height,and my life pretty much SUX my brother calles me fat everyday in front of his and my friends and my mom buys me diet pills and other retarded supplements that i dont want and pretty much makes me feel huge cuz i feel my own mother doesnt like the way i look,my whole family including my twin sister is thin. i have very LOW self confidence i cant make new friends or just have fun with the friends i do have all b-cuz i feel ashamed of the way i look im not obese or anything just sort of chubby i tried to cut back on junk food and that works for like a DAY i have no will power so sum1 pleeez give sum advice
Reply From Erin, Age 14 - 03/23/03 - IP#: 69.21.0.xxx show message replied to go to original board
Hey!
Ok, first of all, that is terrible that your family treats you like that. Go have a talk with them, and tell them how you feel. Family is what will really help you lose weight because they see you the most often and they can definitly help with keeping you away from fatty foods and push you to excersise. I know my family has helped me a lot!
My other advice to you is to remember everything you had to eat in a day, write it down, then go over it and think of wat you NEED to cut out of your diet. Continue to do that, then when ever you feel your self-esteem kick in, you can look over that book, and see your progress.
Good luck, and remember 80% of losing weight comes from eating healthy foods, and the rest from excersise. Now you know wat the main focal points are, and again good luck!
ERIN
From jessika, Age 15 - 03/22/03 - IP#: 64.12.96.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Ht. 5'1", Today: 150 lb (BMI %tile: 95) - hey ever1,im 5'1 and weigh 150 pound so im overweight for my height,and my life pretty much SUX my brother calles me fat everyday in front of his and my friends and my mom buys me diet pills and other retarded supplements that i dont want and pretty much makes me feel huge cuz i feel my own mother doesnt like the way i look,my whole family including my twin sister is thin. i have very LOW self confidence i cant make new friends or just have fun with the friends i do have all b-cuz i feel ashamed of the way i look im not obese or anything just sort of chubby i tried to cut back on junk food and that works for like a DAY i have no will power so sum1 pleeez give sum advice
Reply From Erin, Age 14 - 03/23/03 - IP#: 69.21.0.xxx show message replied to go to original board
Hey!
Ok, first of all, that is terrible that your family treats you like that. Go have a talk with them, and tell them how you feel. Family is what will really help you lose weight because they see you the most often and they can definitly help with keeping you away from fatty foods and push you to excersise. I know my family has helped me a lot!
My other advice to you is to remember everything you had to eat in a day, write it down, then go over it and think of wat you NEED to cut out of your diet. Continue to do that, then when ever you feel your self-esteem kick in, you can look over that book, and see your progress.
Good luck, and remember 80% of losing weight comes from eating healthy foods, and the rest from excersise. Now you know wat the main focal points are, and again good luck!
ERIN
From lucy, Age 16 - 03/01/03 - IP#: 12.228.171.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Today: 466 lb - hi everyone i left out one minor detail i weigh 466 pounds and i have no friends for an exzotic reason well if you have an i dea why let me know please please pleasethanxs
Reply From Georgina, Age 14 - 03/02/03 - IP#: 195.93.50.xxx show message replied to go to original board
If your parents can't help or won't help, try an auntie or your mum's friend or a teacher or school counsellor.
From big guy, Age 15 - 11/30/02 - IP#: 205.188.209.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
im 5-10 and 225 and i cant stop eating since christmas is almost here peple have called me hey santa, because of it. my friends are "genours" to give me the food they don't want(most of it.)Parents (no help there) Mom's love me and feeds me while Dad wants me to lose it. it'sbeen going up and down (from 210 to 225 in 3 weeks)any help?
Reply From Jackie, Age 14 - 11/30/02 - IP#: 12.250.8.xxx show message replied to go to original board
Well, tell your mother you really want to loose the weight. Tell her you would appriciate greatly if she fed you healthy food. Obviously your father is on your side if he wants you to loose it too. Im sure your parent would be happy to support you in anything you want to do, so let them.
From Lulu, Age 9 - 06/16/02 - IP#: 195.92.194.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
I am so fat. I wiegh 105 pounds. Today my grandma pulled up my shirt in front of all my family and said look at all this fat and she grabbed a handfull of fat on my tummy. my sister and brother are skinny so are my parents. my grandma said i need to lose the fat before i am a teenager that is what she told my mum. she said i am fat and lasy and i eat too much. my auntie said i am bursting out of all my clothes. please help me. i know i eat to much i always eat when nobody is looking so my mum dosen't see. my mum buys me healthy food like frute which i like but i still eat the stuff she buys my brother and sister and they dont like frute and they are not fat. at school my friends call me fatty. my tummy is just a plie of rolls and my arms and legs are fat. i hate wearing a swimsuit and my grandma bought me a bikini and when i tired it on she said i look disgusting.what can i do? LULU
Reply From swimf@n, Age 14 - 09/01/02 - IP#: 24.200.29.xxx show message replied to go to original board
seriously, tell your grandma and parents how you feel..it's not right for your grandma to talk about you like that. I know from experience that family members talking about you this way can really break you down and even eventually lead to depression, so please talk to them about how you feel and hopefully they will help you instead of just making you feel more self-concious about yourself. Good luck!!
From john, Age 15 - 08/25/02 - IP#: 64.233.211.xxx go to original board
does any one else have friend or brother or sister to help them lose weight or to excercise with. you will feel better if they help you like my brother is helping me out.
From john, Age 15 - 08/24/02 - IP#: 64.233.211.xxx go to original board
me and my little brother just came back walking[well he jog around the park]from the park and whoo i am so tired i can barely breath and get something to eat.he betted me can run around the park 10x beforei can walk around 2x.well he jog around 13x to my 2 walking. then we sat and talk for a while and he wish that i will stay on my diet and lose weight.then both of walk around the park together just talking then when we stop he said for the first that he was proud to have me for a brother then he said did you notice while we was talking we walk around the park for a least for 1/2 hour and i didn't even stop to rest.
From JOHN, Age 15 - 08/23/02 - IP#: 64.233.211.xxx go to original board
GOOD NEWS:MY 70 POUNDS 11YRS OLD BROTHER WHO IS VERY ATHLETIC IN LOTS OF SPORTS HAS OFFER TO HELP ME LOSE WEIGHT AND TO GET INTO SHAPE AND HE SAYS HE WILL CUT DOWN HIS TEASING ME ABOUT BEING FAT[I WISH HE WOULD STOP COMPLETELY]IF I KEEP UP WITH IT AND HE SAID HE IS GOING TO THE COOKOUT WITH ME TOMORROW TO MAKE SURE I DO NOT SLIP INTO MY OLD WAY WHEN I GET AROUND FOOD.
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