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From My friend is kayla, Age 14
Ht. 5'1", Start: 180 lb, Today: 180 lb, Goal: 100 lb - Ok so my friend as you can see is out of control obese and just looks so bad. For her sake I'm trying to help her. Unfortunately though whenever I tell her she should lose weight she gets all embarrassed and doesn't respond. I've tried every way to tell her. From you're looking a bit heavy today to your a bit too big for that outfit to you don't really need that cheeseburger. I even tried a talk at my house. We were relaxing in my basement and I told her I could see her belly hanging out. She got embarrassed and covered it up. I then told her that it looked a little bigger than it should and if she feels the need to cover it up it probably is. I then suggested she lose a little weight. She got all quiet and red but I really feel like I needed to help her so I told her how much better she'd feel and that the guys would like her more, and just that she'd be healthier, but she looked embarrassed and didn't respond. What so I do? How can I help her? What do I have to do to get through to her?