From Cassie, Age 14 - 11/23/04 - IP#: 24.56.166.xxx  Click here to reply  
ok i'm 5'5 and i weigh 230 pounds, i am so sad right now, on a average day i eat now about 1,000 calories a day. I burn about 500 when i go to karate and cardio on some days of the week, but i REALLY like this one guy who is smaller than me, and i can tell he likes me, would he like me if i were smaller, or do guys care about what you look like?? small or large? i've lost 5 pounds in the last month but it's going soooo slow!i'm trying my best!
Reply from Amanda Lynn, Age 15 - 11/24/04  - IP#: 66.255.214.xxx
Listen, guys will like you for who you are, not what you lkook like. I mean yeah some guys are really shallow but oh well it is a phaze they go through. I mean I hope that is true but Do not lose weight for some guy......lose weight for yourself, not to make guys happy but yourself happy. But good luck. ;) With your weight and with thay guy ;)
 
Reply from Cassie, Age 14 - 11/23/04  - IP#: 24.56.166.xxx
thanx u guys!
 
Reply from ~* Kat *~, Age 19 - 11/23/04  - IP#: 152.163.100.xxx
I know how you feel about this whole guy thing. I’ve been there done that. To tell you the truth I started dieting cause of a guy. I thought he would like it if I were skinner. Cause he’s really skinny. But then I kept giving up on my diet and I realized it’s cause I wasn’t doing it for myself. So when I went back on my diet I kept telling myself I’m doing it for me. And it’s worked. I’ve lost more weight now then before when I was doing it for him. So if this guy likes you- he’ll like you for you. If not then he’s not worth your time.
 
Reply from Sara, Age 16 - 11/23/04  - IP#: 80.3.0.xxx
If he likes you as you are then he will like you whether you gain or lose weight, but you have to lose weight for yourself not anyone else coz otherwise you wont stick to it, keep up the good work :)