From Mar, Age 17 - 05/25/04 - IP#: 24.100.172.xxx  Click here to reply  
Okay. I have a serious problem here! My best friend is REALLLLLLY underweight, cuz she dances ssooo much yet so do i but i have overeating problems, i guess...but anywyaz yeah, shes ALWASY pressuring me to eat food thats reallly unhleathy, like the other day there was chocolate cake, and i was SOOO proud of myself for only eating one TINY peice, and she was all like " C'mon Mar, just have another piece!" and i was like nooo!!must look good in grad dress! and she was like, if i have 5 pieces ( i swear to god she said this lol), will you have one more?? and i was like OMG!! and ive tried talking to her b4, even really seriously! Any advice? Oh, and btw im 5" 7 ish and weigh about 185 (my goal is 160)
Reply from Mar, Age 17 - 05/26/04  - IP#: 24.100.172.xxx
I know for a fact that she's not bulimic, and ive tried talking to her! But thanks to you all!
 
Reply from harry, Age 16 - 05/26/04  - IP#: 217.205.245.xxx
I would just talk to her about it, she probably doesn't realise she is doing it.
 
Reply from kristan, Age 18 - 05/26/04  - IP#: 64.12.116.xxx
just tell her you want ot look better than her and you care about your weight ok good luck kristan
 
Reply from MissyK, Age 18 - 05/25/04  - IP#: 24.84.212.xxx
I had the same problem. My friend is 85lbs (very very underweight). But she eats ALOT! And whenever we go out, she forces me to eat. I'd tell her I've had enough but she immediately orders 2 Mcflurries so I can't refuse. I hate to have to tell you this, but some friends don't want us to lose weight. It's a psychological thing...either they care about us, or they subconsciously don't want us to look better. I'm not saying your friend is that way, but I've come to learn that many of mine ARE. What I did was limit my contact with those friends during my weight loss period. I'd call them or email.
 
Reply from Michelle, Age 17 - 05/25/04  - IP#: 24.83.221.xxx
maybe she's not bulimic..maybe her metabolism is faster..just tell her that you're trying to lose weight and you would appreciate it if she didn't rub all that kinda food in your face
 
Reply from juststrange, Age 12 - 05/25/04  - IP#: 148.167.126.xxx
not to be mean, but have u talked to her about bulimia?