From ashley, Age 14 - 04/27/04 - IP#: 68.10.219.xxx  Click here to reply  
i need ta lose weight. i like this boy and he said i was straight, but i don't wnat be straight i wanta be fine. and if i was like 30 lbs lighter maybe he would like me more.staright is good. but i wanta be a step higher. fine! i really like him. i liked him since the begining of the yer. and krysatl told him today and he was like she straight, but i don't wanta go out wit her, cauze i am living the single life and i jus meat her last week. but he told ma friend paige he likes her. what happened ta the he's living the single life if he likes her? i think he wants ta go wit her. me and him flirted twice. si yah. what do u guys think?
Reply from SunnyD, Age 30 - 05/19/04  - IP#: 216.228.205.xxx
First thing, sweetheart, don't go chasing after a man who doesn't want you. Big no-no! Sounds like he was just trying to let you off easy. Be kind to yourself, take care of yourself, confident in who you are, and let the right guy find you. Work on your weight, but don't do it for him. Do it for you, to be comfortable in your own skin. If he doesn't want you now, he won't want you then . . .and if he does, it would be for all the wrong reasons. Would highly recommend you read a delightful little book called "The Rules." Trust me, in the long run it will save you a lot of heartache. Good luck!
 
Reply from luvly 1, Age 15 - 04/27/04  - IP#: 63.186.41.xxx
gurl i've lost like 30lbs on atkins but one thing i gotta say is that, it's hard, and ur motives gotta be stronger for u to loose weight, otherwise there will be no way to stick to it. You gotta be doin this for urself gurl, cause once you do loose da weight, you'll be lookin at someone cuter than him. Plus, he should be lookin at u for ur personality, not ur size, and if ur face is cute, then u'll get a fine man n e wayz.
-peace 1
 
Reply from Ashley, Age 14 - 04/27/04  - IP#: 66.188.26.xxx
Hey...Ashley!Well what I have to say is that any boy who won't go out with you because you're not skinny enough, doesn't deserve you!!The guys like that are selfish and need to realize it's not all about looks! (No offense to your boy)