From Krystle, Age 19 - 04/25/04 - IP#: 195.93.32.xxx  Click here to reply  
need advice, not weight related!!!! What do you do if you like a lad, he likes you but you know their's no chance of a future together. I mean, I don't want to start something, when I don't see him as the kinda person i'd spend the rest of my live with. I come from a strong church upbringing and they teach you to only date those who you feel you could spend forever with. I even held his hand today in church, but half of me liked it and the other half wanted me to runaway. I know this has nothing to do with losing weight but it's kinda worrying me. I just really need to vent and have a good long think. A friend put it simple: either get with him, or don't. Maybe i have a messed up view of myprince charming. Anyone want to share their stoires of love and woe. Or kind like in my case. Krystle PS I know i'm almost a grownup but these kinda things never get easier. doh! Hodgypie'aol.com
Reply from Krystle, Age 19 - 04/26/04  - IP#: 195.93.33.xxx
Thanks Missy k, you made me feel better!! It won't hurt to give it a try. He's not proposing marriage or anything, not even a date has been mentioned. lol! But it's worth giving things a shot, who know he could be my charming Prince and I gave up on one date! Doh! Or he could be another frog, won't find out till I give it a chance. Thanks, you give sound advice! Don't worry about that guy, if you do see him again then just explain you weren't ready at that time. You maybe given a second chance by fate, but sometimes it's not all we dream about. At the very least, try to become friend, because you can never have enough friends in your life. Hope I helped, but have a feeling I just chatted on. lol Take care hun, and things will work out. Krystle.
 
Reply from Missy K, Age 18 - 04/25/04  - IP#: 24.84.214.xxx
I'm in the same situation. I am ABSOLUTELY head over heels over a guy who I know there'll be no future with. He's 25 years old, first of all. When we worked together last summer, I totally felt chemistry between us. Then, he finally asked me for my number. So what did I do? I LITERALLY ran away. I freaked out, and walked the other way. That was the last day of work. So I didn't see him since. I'm going to see him again this summer probably. I regret what I did, because to this day, I only think about HIM. Anyway, in my opinion, if you like him, then go for it. You'll probably discover new things about him that'll make you want to stay with him for a long time. If not, then there's nothing wrong with you. Relationships don't always have to work out. Good luck!
 
Reply from Krystle, Age 19 - 04/25/04  - IP#: 195.93.33.xxx
Hodgypie@aol.com And I've been good today! Yeah!