From dave, Age 12 - 11/02/03 - IP#: 24.129.117.xxx  Click here to reply  
hey guys i got a problem. My friend asked this girl out. She was really hot. But now me and some of my other friends have noticed shes porking up a liittle bit. Should we try to convince my friend to get his girlfriend to lose weight? Thx alot
Reply from aicha, Age 13 - 11/14/03  - IP#: 212.77.192.xxx
i kno how it feels to look good and gain some pounds , wat i think is maybe HE shouldnt tell her maybe u should cuz it hurts com,ing from a guy in my opinion
 
Reply from Jay, Age 14 - 11/03/03  - IP#: 172.132.149.xxx
dude that is pretty much the worse thing u could say to a girl that they've gotten fatter or bigger anyway it shouldnt matter if shes gained weight as long as she she has a good personality and u said she was hot so if shes put on some weight she should still be good looking
 
Reply from Cherry, Age 15 - 11/03/03  - IP#: 209.179.168.xxx
I Agree if ur friend cannot accept her for who she is then I think she needs to dump him bc she does not need someone so stupid in her life n e way...And how does this have to do with losing weight in any way shape of form?? This is for ppl who need to lose weight not for some 12 yr old ((Go to the pre teens...))that is superficial??
 
Reply from Michelle, Age 13 - 11/03/03  - IP#: 64.12.96.xxx
Besides, if ur friend is unhappy, then he is just shallow and superficial, like you.
 
Reply from Michelle, Age 13 - 11/03/03  - IP#: 64.12.96.xxx
I wouldnt say anything. It ,might really hurt her. Does it realy matter what a person look slike on the outside? beauty is whats on the inside, not the outside
 
Reply from mandi, Age 17 - 11/03/03  - IP#: 203.45.16.xxx
being only the immature age of twelve i dont think you realize what damage you could do to this poor girl. if she is around your age she is probably starting to go through puberty which you may not relaize does sometime cause weight gain. you and your friends should mind there own business and like this girl for her personality and even if she has put opn a little weight i bet you she is still pretty your looks dont change.
 
Reply from Cherry, Age 15 - 11/02/03  - IP#: 209.179.168.xxx
If he is unhappy with her just bc she gained weight then he does not care about her at all and she deserves much better than ur friend...
 
Reply from dave, Age 12 - 11/02/03  - IP#: 24.129.117.xxx
no it wasn't hypothetical. I guess i worded it wrong; he IS unhappy and agrees she needs to drops some lbs. Sry.
 
Reply from dave, Age 12 - 11/02/03  - IP#: 24.129.117.xxx
no it wasn't hypothetical. I guess i worded it wrong; he IS unhappy and agrees he needs to drops some lbs. Sry.
 
Reply from anne, Age 16 - 11/02/03  - IP#: 216.66.108.xxx
if it doesn't bother him then don't let it bother you. if they're happy then let them be- and why does everyone you know need to be thin? it's really no concern of yours unless this is a "hypothetical" question and you're your "friend"- and if you don't like her for who she is then you don't deserve her.
 
Reply from dave, Age 12 - 11/02/03  - IP#: 24.129.117.xxx
well that was an understatement. Shes porked up ALOT! please help