From Anonymous, Age 16 - 01/25/03 - IP#: 24.192.202.xxx  Click here to reply  
hi everyone. i was wondering if any of u feel the same way as i do. i'm fat and disgusted by what i see in the mirror everyday. i try to go on diet but i just can't stick with it. i also blame weight and ugliness on not EVER having a boyfriend in my entire life. and i'm already 16. i've NEVER even gone on a single date before. if any of u r going through the same thing or have any advice please reply. thank u very much
Reply from GoodGurl, Age 14 - 01/28/03  - IP#: 66.19.38.xxx
I got the same problem as you but I'm only 14.Just be yourself some one out there likes you.
 
Reply from Anonymous, Age 16 - 01/27/03  - IP#: 24.192.202.xxx
but how were u able to become confident?? please reply thank u
 
Reply from Anonymous, Age 16 - 01/27/03  - IP#: 24.192.202.xxx
thanx catharine! u made me feel so much better!
 
Reply from catherine, Age 17 - 01/27/03  - IP#: 195.92.168.xxx
i know the way u guys r feeling. i never had a boyfriend up until a year ago. i blamed that on being fat because im 220lbs and thought no guy could ever like me. i decided i hated feeling sorry for myself and to look like i didnt care about my weight and b confident even if i wasnt. well it worked and i have the most gorgeous boyfriend who is a fitness instructer & doesnt care about my weight. people send out vibes and men arent attracted 2 negative vibes. if you make the effort you will get a boyfriend....good luck....xxx
 
Reply from Anonymous, Age 16 - 01/26/03  - IP#: 24.192.202.xxx
by the way, thank u guys so much for replying :)
 
Reply from Anonymous, Age 16 - 01/26/03  - IP#: 24.192.202.xxx
yes i guess u r right. but i am also a very shy person. i don't know how to approach guys.
 
Reply from pinky1, Age 17 - 01/26/03  - IP#: 64.12.96.xxx
just cuz u think u r fat has nothing 2 do with guys. i am a size 12 and i have guys. u have 2 have more confidence in urself. u r worth it!
 
Reply from megan, Age 17 - 01/25/03  - IP#: 65.177.81.xxx
hey.. i know exactly what your goin through. i am big.. a size 13/14, sometimes 15/16 and i have never had a boyfriend either.... but im about to turn 18 in a couple months so thats even worse! i hate bein fat!