From Amanda, Age 19 - 08/29/02 - IP#: 204.60.45.xxx  Click here to reply  
Hi. I have posted a few things on this board. I know this is a message board about weight, but I have 2 questions that aren't about weight. I would really appreciate it if a lot of people would answer. THANKS!
1) Do you think it is alright for your friend to date your ex boyfriend or girlfriend?
2) Is it ok for your friend to break plans they already made with you so they can spend time with their boyfriend or girlfriend?
Thanks to everyone who answers!!!
Reply from Grace, Age 13 - 08/30/02  - IP#: 65.235.141.xxx
(1) I think its fine to date an ex, after all, he/she is an ex! (2) I agree with the post below mine, if your friend hasnt seen her boyfriend in a long time, and asks nicely, then its ok. But other than that you should keep ALL plans you make unless you absolutely cannot.
 
Reply from manda jh, Age 14 - 08/30/02  - IP#: 152.163.189.xxx
answers:
1.) your friend shouldn't date your ex. It's kind of a rule between friends, maybe not written or anything, but you DON'T do this. Even when your friend had been broken up with him for awhile, or she says it's okay, you shouldn't do this, ever.
2.) if your friend hasn't seen her boyfriend for like...a month, or a couple weeks or more, I can see her asking nicely to see them. But if they see eachother all the time and she's breaking off everything with her friends to date her bf, that's wrong. Friends should be first.
 
Reply from Amanda, Age 19 - 08/30/02  - IP#: 64.252.222.xxx
First off, I am not doing this about my problems. I am taking a survey about age and how they view friendship and dating. I have posted many things about weight, and have talked about my own problems. So, why don't you just chill out because this post will be on the second page in no time and no one will even see it. So, mind your own business. If you don't want to answer the questions then don't post anything.
 
Reply from ???????, Age 12 - 08/30/02  - IP#: 205.188.208.xxx
You should find a different message board for your dating problems. This is a site on helping people who are overweight. It is not a site where you chat about your dates.
 
Reply from Rachel, Age 16 - 08/29/02  - IP#: 24.192.202.xxx
i think it's ok your friend to date ur ex. u guys already borke up so it's really none of ur business who ur ex dates. but i don't think it's right for ur friend to break plans with u just to spend more time with her boyfriend. she made plans with u first so she shouldn't break plans she made just cuz she wants to spend more time with her bf.