From i dunno?, Age 12 - 04/05/02 - IP#: 193.97.117.xxx  Click here to reply  
I AM FAT. I NEED A GF BEFORE THE END OF THE YEAR BUT THEY ALL HATE ME CUZ OF MY FAT. I AM PASIONET KIND AND FUNNY I NEVER HURT ANYONE BUT EVERYONE SAYS "WOW HE IS FAT SO I WONT GET TO KNOW HIM HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply from Jenna, Age 18 - 04/07/02  - IP#: 152.163.197.xxx
I somewhat have the same problem as you. At my school barely any guys like me because of my weight but i am pretty. I do have people who like me but they don't go to my school and do drugs or are too old for me. (my age limit is 21) but you know what i say so what?! so what if they don't like me for my weight. that just goes to show how shallow they are. don't lose weight for them lose it for you. i'm losing weight for me and for health. (my back hurts often) please do it for you and not for some shallow female who'll only go out with you for your weight and looks. they should go out with you for your personality. as much as it may hurts some females prefer smaller guys because that's there perference and that's okay. to tell you the truth i like chunkier guys not because i'm big but because i like someone with a little meat on their bones. like some say bones are for dogs and meat is for the man. (just kidding)
 
Reply from Michelle, Age 14 - 04/05/02  - IP#: 63.168.31.xxx
First of all, it would help all of us if you could tell us your height and weight. Second, at 12 most girls only like guys that they hang out with, or are their friends. Most of the time it developes from a friendship, to a crush, to a dating relationship. For right now, just get some friends. Be nice to people. You'll be surprised by how many people actually will like you for who you are. There are people out there who feel the same way you do, and will understand how you feel, so don't think you are the only soul on earth who has to deal with a social problem. Finding someone who relates to you can give you a great friendship, and if it's a girl, you might just be lucky enough to like each other for more than friends. If you go looking for love, it will avoid you, just sit back and relax and it will come knockin' on your door! Good luck.
 
Reply from Nicola, Age 11 - 04/05/02  - IP#: 205.188.200.xxx
Listen I'd love to be your gf except I have 3 bf's already and I think 4 is just too many, heck 3 is even a lot!
 
Reply from allisa, Age 13 - 04/05/02  - IP#: 68.13.169.xxx
dude! chill! it's not the end of the world. u don't have to have a gf! and u act like every one is agaist u! maybe it's just your mind thinking every one says that because a few people do. try not to think so negitive! just have alot of fruits and veggies instead of junk food, excersize every chance u get and chew gum for cravings. eat stuff that fills u up but is healthy for u. like banana's are filling and so is water. meat has fat so maybe be a vegatarian, u save animals too.