From Molly, Age 14 - 05/30/10 - IP#: 24.36.149.xxx  Click here to reply  
Ht. 5'4", Start: 193 lb, Today: 193 lb (BMI %tile: 98), Goal: 117 lb - hey well this morning dident go so great i hade way more food then i needed but im not going to give up i just neew to be motivated and no that i can do this food will always be there but high chool wont and if im fat when i start high school i will be so unhappy i dont think i wll evan be able to live properly thats why i need to put my weight loss in to perspective i know i can do this if i try all i need to do is tell myself that i DO have enough will power to do this and im not weak i want give up-XoXoXo-Molly-XoXoXo
Reply from Juliette, Age 17 - 05/30/10  - IP#: 99.237.131.xxx
You bet. Also, i read a lot of kids are terrified of starting high school with a little more weight to carry. I dunno if this helps, but really, high school isn't that big of a deal, and i think, because it's a larger environment, kids aren't as rude with eachother. There's like 200 people in a grade, as opposed to like, 70. So really, kids have their own groups of friends and don't usually bug one another. THat's from my experiences anyway (i'm finishing grade 12 this year). Also, it's a graet place to make freinds, and remember, no matter what you feel inside, regardless of your weight, just have a bright attitude! It really is NOT about weight. Some of the most popular kids are the ones who make others laugh, who are funny and friendly. This really is true. Everoyne likes them and they're just all-around nice people. Stop focussing in on your weight AT school, because people can easily see through that and notice low self confidence. Just put on a confident exterior, regardless of what you feel, be happy and friendly, and you'll make many friendships. I also had to switch high schools but my experiences were the same in both. It really isn't that scary. So don't be worried, people! Remember, you make of your life what You want of it. It's in your control. All the best! XO.