From Lilly, Age 15 - 12/02/08 - IP#: 71.146.64.xxx  Click here to reply  
Ht. 5'5", Start: 200 lb, Today: 165 lb (BMI %tile: 94), Goal: 120 lb - Yay ive lost a few pounds! Anyway, my friends and I were on the beach (its California, beach weather all the time!) and I saw this guy from another school probably and I totally fell for him! Hes so freaking hot!!!! But then he goes up to his totally skinny perfect little girlfriend and now Im all depressed. Im serious, being fat for a girl is an absolute disaster, because girls are only cared about for their bodies. Noone seems to get this!!!!
Reply from Jessica, Age 18 - 12/08/08  - IP#: 63.135.21.xxx
I've been there as well.
And i'm still there.. slowly losing weight , but still there for now.
Block them out of your minds.
a size 10?
god, i wish i could be a size 10! haha
honestly, guys grow up.. you just have to find the right crowd of people..
and if you're around people you don't feel comfortable around, they're not worth it.
think of it, you'll look freakin' good in no time ( not saying you already do).. practise self esteem at the same time, who give a crap if he has a skinny girlfriend?
There are plenty of guys out there, no need to put a rush on life.
 
Reply from Janey, Age 16 - 12/03/08  - IP#: 80.1.106.xxx
I totally understand this! All my friends say, oh, we need to find you a boyfriend. But no guys ever like me because I'm fat! I even heard a guy saying to his friend once 'How can you fancy her? She's a size 10!' I couldn't believe it! I really wish girls weren't only cared about for their bodies. But I suppose one day we'll meet people who love us for who we are, so don't give up hope :) x
 
Reply from Whitney, Age 19 - 12/03/08  - IP#: 70.187.7.xxx
As someone who has already been there I know what you mean! But trust me boys do (eventually) grow up! And plus you want a boy to appreciate you for whats inside not just how u look. But hey pretty soon u will be looking damn good and u can reject those who rejected u, trust me its such a great feeling! Keep it up!