From ash, Age 17 - 11/27/07 - IP#: 75.84.85.xxx  Click here to reply  
Ht. 5'6", Start: 240 lb, Today: 240 lb, Goal: 160 lb - I realize my goal is pretty big... but that is very much overtime... a long time... but anyways... nothing seems to work for me. I have become very comfortable with myself, as well as staying active and trying to eat as healthy as possible. I am overweight due to genetics, but I know that I can change it. To be honest, I fear being alone for the rest of my life. I am confident and try the best I can, but it appears that no matter how strong my confidence is, I do not have any appeal to the opposite sex. What else can I do? I also plan to start a strict diet and hopefully get involved with Santa's Plan.
Reply from YO, Age 16 - 11/30/07  - IP#: 71.96.217.xxx
IF YOU WANNA LOOSE WEIGHT BELIVE IN YOURSELF, AND THE PERSON THAT LOVES YOU WILL LOOK UNDERNEATH YOUR SKIN, AND ACCEPT YOU AS WHO YOU ARE I HAVE SEEN THOUSDANDS OF OVERWEIGHT PEOPLE BENG MERRED OR FNDNG THE LOVE OF THER LIFE
 
Reply from Kristen, Age 15 - 11/28/07  - IP#: 75.80.243.xxx
It highschool! The pool of guys that are around you are young and naive and guys at this age have extremely shallow preferences and high expectations for the girls they want to date. Dont say the opposite sex doesnt find you attractive when your evidence is from dumb highschool guys. Dont worry, focus on improving "you" and an awesome guy will come along. You already know your beautiful inside and out, you dont need a guy to make you feel better about yourself. Im sure you already know that, but stop worrying about whether your going to get a boyfriend because theres more important things in life and it just means that the right guys hasnt met you yet.
 
Reply from tia, Age 16 - 11/28/07  - IP#: 72.184.54.xxx
you cant expect people to love you in you dont love yourself! so just remember that love who you are and boost up your health and watch how many people will come knocking on your door!
 
Reply from Jeimi, Age 16 - 11/27/07  - IP#: 67.87.194.xxx
i think you shouldn't really think about when the right person for you comes you'll know i mean it's not like i have a line of guys but honestly you can't do anything about what they like you can't control that if you lose weight do it for yourself