From kaitlynn, Age 14 - 11/04/07 - IP#: 4.255.46.xxx Click here to reply Ht. 5'4", Start: 180 lb, Today: 169 lb, Goal: 105 lb - Ok so i haven't posted in a while... To all u people with a boyfriend how did you get one i mean ive never had one and im not ugly or anything but i really want a boyfriend and im sooo depressed ive gained 3 pounds but i think that im finally back on track i have a goal. im in gymnastics at my school well intro to gymnastics im pretty good at it to eventhe coach thinks so but with my weight soo high i end up basing most of the time even though i can do alot. and most of its muscle im just to heavy. so my goal is to get 140 by january so that even if i am the base alot it won't be because im soo fat it will be because i have muscle and i kno that i will look alot better when i weigh that much even if its not my goal plz write me back with any tips on how to get skinny or how to get a boyfriend thx:)
Reply from Shekina, Age 19 - 11/04/07 - IP#: 156.56.116.xxx Oh, hun... I know how ya feel. I wanted a boyfriend for the longest time, and I finally got my first one this fall, but I was so desperate to have a boyfriend, that I took the first hot guy to come along that liked me. He wasn't really anything I wanted in a guy, and he wound up cheating on me. What a jerk! I broke up with him two weeks ago. My best advice to give you, is that... the reason you don't have a boyfriend is NOT cuz you are overweight or not pretty enough. I'm sure you are an awesome girl, who deserves a great boyfriend, and if that's what you really want, you will get it! Don't go for the first guy that comes your way. Have a grip on what kind of guy you want, and what you want out of your man. And wait for him. Patience is so hard, but important. In the meantime while you are waiting, work on improving yourself. Do what you want to do, and enjoy where you are at right now. There's lots of things you can do by yourself, that you can't do when you have a boyfriend. Unfortunately, I had to go through a really bad relationship to see this. Just focus on what you want from yourself while you are waiting... I'm sure a great guy will come your way before too long, and then it will seem like you hardly had to wait at all. Good luck, and don't get too down! :) ♥
Reply from andrea, Age 16 - 11/04/07 - IP#: 98.198.173.xxx you don't need a boyfriend, i don't have one (although i have been asked out a few times) I just think it would increase my stress and decided i definitely don't want a boyfriend and maybe next year, my senior year, i may have one, so don't stress about it, it is fun to be single =D
Reply from Megan, Age 18 - 11/04/07 - IP#: 205.201.207.xxx patients is a virtue
