From Nancy, Age 13 - 01/02/04 - IP#:  Click here to reply  
Hi I am 5'2" and weigh 205 pounds. I guesss sometimes i feel like i am not the popular girl in school and i'll never have a boyfriend and i just wanna die. Then other times when i am with my friends i feel like i am very happy but i am still fat and ugly. I mean i am 13 and i still dont have a boyfriend and im still a prud, how sad is that. If anyone can give me any advice on what to do or something i would really need it cause im just kinda depressed.
Reply from to ashley, Age 14 - 01/21/04  - IP#:
Don't say that, personality matters more.
Reply from Caroline, Age 13 - 01/14/04  - IP#:
I know many people will say nothing matters in all but I know it does matter to you. There might not be any boys around now but trust be they will come. I have gone out with lots of guys. And I was a little chubby. Iwas speacial in some way. Some of the most cuteiest guys don't care what girls look like oh k. Just drink lots of water, no fast/junk food, lots of exercise. And you'll get there I know
Love Caroline
Reply from Maddie, Age 13 - 01/09/04  - IP#:
I know a lot of people on here are writing you saying that it doesn't matter and guys dont matter. But you feel they do and even if ppl say that it won't matter. All I can say is a guy will come along so far I'm kinda waiting with you. As for when you are with your friends I feel the EXACT same way. My friends are soo pretty and skinny. I feel huge standing next to them. I always care what ppl around me think. But when I get home and look in the mirror I realize that I'm not as HUGE as I think I am...and we wiegh around the same so I hope some of that can make you feel better.
Reply from Jessica, Age 12 - 01/06/04  - IP#:
Hey Everyone I am 130 and 13 years old.... I play sports and all so I am not really over weight!!! But, the whole guy thing is not all its cracked up to be! Believe me I have had boy friends b4! You think you are so intrested in them but, really its just a whole joke at our age!!! Dont worry about it at all! Be urself and someone will come ur way in time! If you have any questions e-mail or IM me at SweetThang00116 I am open to a lot of things And I am mostly always online GOODLUCK!
Reply from beth, Age 13 - 01/03/04  - IP#:
i know how you feel. i have had one bf who was a complete dork. i make up for boy friends in friends. i dont really feel ugly, its just im the girl guys go to for advice, more of a best friend. dont worry. boys at our age can be kind of immature(no offense guys) but they'll grow out of it and see you not as an overweight girl, but a beautiful person.
Reply from ashley, Age 13 - 01/02/04  - IP#:
hi .. dont worry im 13 to and i feel the same way but im 220 and im 5'6 i have to say tho i am popular and have lots of friends but that does not make me happy i really want a boyfriend to but i know a boy would never want to go out with me .. i never had one before but like my true friends tell me just dont worry about it they say to be me .. and there will be a boy out there who will like me for me .. but dont worry just try to loose weight im doing the same =)
Reply from KT, Age 17 - 01/02/04  - IP#:
Hey Nancy
I felt like u wen I was 13, I felt i'd neva have a boyfriend, and would be the last virgin on earth. I have had plenty of guys intrested!!!! Some blokes intrested in me as a person sum after just one thing!!! You will meet people, one word of advise dont get carried away with the first guy that shows u attention - there will be others
Reply from jessica, Age 13 - 01/02/04  - IP#:
I know wat u feel iam 180 or198 and iam the same way i luv BOYS but, boys don't luv me i need help 2!
Reply from Craig, Age 18 - 01/02/04  - IP#:
Your only 13, don't worry about whether you have a boyfriend or not. Most parents won't allow it at your age anyway.