From Steph, Age 14 - 08/03/03 - IP#: 52.163.253.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Im really worried. i was made fun of at my last school for being overweight and am fixing to go to a new school.I don't wanna have this happen here too. If it does I'd probably kill myself. PLEASE!!!! how can i become thin really fast? Does anyone know?
Reply From Marshall, Age 12 - 08/01/03 - IP#: 68.109.145.xxx show message replied to go to original board
Hey Steph I want to tel you do not ever kill yourself nothing is worth your life kids can be really mean I know. people would make fun of me too. I did something about it I exercized and ate smaller portions. snack on fruits and veggies instead of chips do not have to much though and have 3 balanced meals a day go walking or bike riding for 30 minutes a day every day and do 20 or more sit ups a day also cut down on sweets. Be sure to have some kind of motivation to keep you going. give it a month please and you will have lost a few pounds then keep going until you reach your goal people will notice. What ever you do do not ever kill yourself NOTHING IS WORTH YOUR LIFE.
From Latoya, Age 12 - 06/15/03 - IP#: 204.188.166.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Well my life becomes a total shipwreck just the fact that Iam overweight I don't really care how people call me but hello I have a name.These stupid people calling me these stupid names.I understand otherpeoplewho just don't know what to say to me, but my own cousin!!!My cousin calls me fat stuff!!! hello what does that suppose to mean to me? if my cousin calls mefat stuff well I won't be surprised the whole worldstarts to call me these stupid names O.k. that really hurts.
Reply From Lori - 07/25/03 - IP#: 216.16.56.xxx show message replied to go to original board
Sorry to hear people call you names. For some people picking on others makes them feel better, still not easy to take. Do things to make yourself feel better, walking, yoga, whatever and as you feel better, they won't maatter as much
Good Luck and forget about the others
From joseph, Age 9 - 02/25/03 - IP#: 195.92.198.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
hi im joseph and im really really faat i way 312lb an im 4ft5. my mom says i've got a bigger waist then hers she says mine is too big. i hav a really big tummy that hangs down far and whenever i hav gym even laughs at me because im fat i eat lots of chocolate and crisps each day because my mom says im growing. i hav trouble getting up the stairs each day somone help me.
Reply From Heather, Age 11 - 06/23/03 - IP#: 199.247.235.xxx show message replied to go to original board
Hi,
Im Heather.I have some advice.You should stop eating alot of junk food,and drink lots of cold water(dont worry your body will get use to it),when kids make fun of you just sit ther and smill you now you are going to lose some in.If my advice dose not work you can get mad at me at heather_steinhsgen@hotmail.com
HeAtHeR:)
From :( - 06/08/03 - IP#: 129.37.162.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
i dont know y they do they do this but my parents constently torment me!they obviously favor my skinny sister!whenever i eat dinner with them they stare at me and make rude comments.i always end up running 2 my room,when after they shout"dont let your room colapse" its not enough that i get teased at school and have no friends! but as soon as im home they make me cry!iv thought about running away or even killing myself! what should i do????!?!?!?!?!?!?!
Reply From jo, Age 13 - 06/11/03 - IP#: 204.71.88.xxx show message replied to go to original board
you need to tell them to help you insted of making you fell bad i mean they make you at school and they do to at home i think that is wrong if you ever want to talk to some one im me or email me at JjojoannaS90@aol.com i can help you
From :( - 06/08/03 - IP#: 129.37.162.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
i dont know y they do they do this but my parents constently torment me!they obviously favor my skinny sister!whenever i eat dinner with them they stare at me and make rude comments.i always end up running 2 my room,when after they shout"dont let your room colapse" its not enough that i get teased at school and have no friends! but as soon as im home they make me cry! iv thought about running away or even killing myself! what should i do????!?!?!?!?!?!?!
Reply From jo, Age 13 - 06/11/03 - IP#: 204.71.88.xxx show message replied to go to original board
you need to tell them to help you insted of making you fell bad i mean they make you at school and they do to at home i think that is wrong if you ever want to talk to some one im me or email me at JjojoannaS90@aol.com i can help you
From Leigh - 11/24/02 - IP#: 65.163.106.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Hi! Does any one else get teased for their weight. I hear all theese stories about how ppl are overweight or obease but nothing about teasing. Some little kids told me i looked like the balloons they got at the circus that really hurt. I'm going to be in a play with the opera and im afraid i wont be able to fit in the costume provided. I wear a 15 jrs. and sometimes they wont fit. Im 4'5" and 134 lbs. Please reply me with some tips or words of wisdom. Thanx ~Leigh~
Reply From Jay, Age 13 - 11/25/02 - IP#: 152.163.189.xxx show message replied to go to original board
If kids tease just try to ignore them i get teased sometimes too usually just by friends and they are usually just joking around but if u just ignore them they will usually stop and when u lose weight ull surprise them
From Minkychanz, Age 16 - 11/13/02 - IP#: 205.200.3.xxx go to original board
I wanna lose weight cause I'm 195, and that's just not shibby because of health problems I'm at risk for and such. I'm trying hard and stuff, and I looked through the site and wanna express my concerns for a lot of you. Many of you say you wanna lose weight so you aren't teased, you wanna attract a person, ect...and I just wanna say one thing:
Forget all that.
Why try and be accepted by a bunch of idiots who don't like you merely because of weight? If they're that shallow, would you really want them as friends? So you like a guy and he doesn't like you back cause of yer weight? Then forget about them, they're definitely not worth it. People who care more about looks then personality are usually boring anyway. I know how those of you who are losing weight for others feel. I was tortured through out elementry, teased, called fat, ect... It hurts. A lot. BUT, only now have ... (view more)I wanna lose weight cause I'm 195, and that's just not shibby because of health problems I'm at risk for and such. I'm trying hard and stuff, and I looked through the site and wanna express my concerns for a lot of you. Many of you say you wanna lose weight so you aren't teased, you wanna attract a person, ect...and I just wanna say one thing:
Forget all that.
Why try and be accepted by a bunch of idiots who don't like you merely because of weight? If they're that shallow, would you really want them as friends? So you like a guy and he doesn't like you back cause of yer weight? Then forget about them, they're definitely not worth it. People who care more about looks then personality are usually boring anyway. I know how those of you who are losing weight for others feel. I was tortured through out elementry, teased, called fat, ect... It hurts. A lot. BUT, only now have I realized they don't matter.
Lose weight for yourself and your health. Do it to be healthy, forget about society. And if your at a pretty healthy weight, don't try and overdo it, you'll end up hurting yourself. As the saying goes: If it ain't broke, don't fix it.
You are who you are, and as long as your at a healthy weight, that's all that matters. If you live a healthy lifestyle and have a healthy body and are trying to lose weight for others, don't. Especally if anyone is outright insulting you and claiming your fat seriously, then you should rethink your friendship with them.
If they can't be trusted to be nice to you when your fat, what good would they be one day down the road when you really need a friend...?
Heh, I'm ranting, I know, BUT...well, heh, thought I should just point this out. (view less)
From lisa, Age 14 - 10/03/02 - IP#: 63.27.236.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Hi, I really need help! I am trying really hard to lose weight. I did very well for two days. Only eating half of my normal meals and not snacking. I cut back on drinking pop and now i only drink water. Then my friends made fun of me calling me anerexic all the time and they just wont stop. Now i have began eating again. I had an ice cream snack and 2 brownies. Help! how do i ignore my friends and how do i stay on my diet when there is such yummy food around! Plz respond!
Reply From RayRay, Age 12 - 10/04/02 - IP#: 205.188.209.xxx show message replied to go to original board
it's hard but just ingore your friends or tell them that is hurts your feelings
From JOHN, Age 15 - 08/24/02 - IP#: 64.233.211.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
SCHOOLIS ABOUT TO START AND I DONT WANT TO HAVE THIS PROBLEM I HAD WITH THIS ONE GUY AGAIN.LAST SCHOOL HE WILL ALWAYS TEASES ME ABOUT MY WEIGHT FROM MORNING TO THE END OF THE DAY. ASKING HIM TO STOP WON'T DO ANY GOOD BECAUSE IT WILL JUST MAKE HIM GO ON AND ON.AND WHEN HE TEAES ME I JUST GET MAD TO MYSELF AND WHEN I GET HOME ALL I DID WAS EAT ALL DAY AND NIGHT. HOW CAN I CONVINCE HIM THAT I AM ON A DIET SO THAT HE WILL NOT TEASES ME ANY MORE AND SO I WON'T GET MAD AGAIN AND START EATING A LOT AGAIN
Reply From allie, Age 12 - 08/29/02 - IP#: 63.169.216.xxx show message replied to go to original board
Hey listen don't worry about him. He is just insecure. So he teases you so that he feels better about himself. So you know what just ignore him and he'll go away. And in the end you'll be the better person. :)
From JOHN, Age 15 - 08/24/02 - IP#: 64.233.211.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
SCHOOLIS ABOUT TO START AND I DONT WANT TO HAVE THIS PROBLEM I HAD WITH THIS ONE GUY AGAIN.LAST SCHOOL HE WILL ALWAYS TEASES ME ABOUT MY WEIGHT FROM MORNING TO THE END OF THE DAY. ASKING HIM TO STOP WON'T DO ANY GOOD BECAUSE IT WILL JUST MAKE HIM GO ON AND ON.AND WHEN HE TEAES ME I JUST GET MAD TO MYSELF AND WHEN I GET HOME ALL I DID WAS EAT ALL DAY AND NIGHT. HOW CAN I CONVINCE HIM THAT I AM ON A DIET SO THAT HE WILL NOT TEASES ME ANY MORE AND SO I WON'T GET MAD AGAIN AND START EATING A LOT AGAIN
Reply From candy, Age 14 - 08/26/02 - IP#: 202.156.2.xxx show message replied to go to original board
PLEASE DUN WRITE IN CAPS. lol. anyways, i think you should play along. when he says you are fat, then you say yeah i know, look at all these rolls or something. when he sees no fun in teasing you he WILL STOP!
From JOHN, Age 15 - 08/15/02 - IP#: 64.233.211.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
IS THERE ANYBODY OUT THERE WHO CAN HELP A SEVERLY OBESE PERSON LOSE WEIGHT. I TRY TO LOSE WEIGHT BUT IT IS HARD WHEN YOU WEIGH NEARLY 500 LBS. PLUS I DON'T GO OUT MUCH BECAUSE KIDS IN THE NEIGHBORHOOD WILL TEASE ME ABOUY MY WEIGHT SO I JUST STAY IN AND EAT ALL DAY.
Reply From Rockerbaby - 08/17/02 - IP#: 65.163.106.xxx show message replied to go to original board
John, I know how it feels to be afraid to go outside because you think ppl will tease you. but I got over that and just said to myself im doing this for me not for them for me. but if you still dont feel motovated to walk outside bring the walking to you. do you have a treadmill? You dont? then borrow one from somebody!!! ; - ) ( ps i let food get me in big trouble dont get that obsessed)
From JOHN, Age 15 - 08/15/02 - IP#: 64.233.211.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
IS THERE ANYBODY OUT THERE WHO CAN HELP A SEVERLY OBESE PERSON LOSE WEIGHT. I TRY TO LOSE WEIGHT BUT IT IS HARD WHEN YOU WEIGH NEARLY 500 LBS. PLUS I DON'T GO OUT MUCH BECAUSE KIDS IN THE NEIGHBORHOOD WILL TEASE ME ABOUY MY WEIGHT SO I JUST STAY IN AND EAT ALL DAY.
Reply From krissy, Age 12 - 08/16/02 - IP#: 4.47.87.xxx show message replied to go to original board
Don't listen to em'. Tell them when they make fun of you. At least I am not the one who needs and attiude ajustment. It will make them soo mad and they will not bother you. And if they do just ignore em'.
From 0824, Age 14 - 04/15/02 - IP#: 216.163.111.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
I would give the world to weight 145 I haven't weighted under 150 since 6th grade I am sick of it and frankly I wish there was some simple way to end it..I AM TIRED OF BEING THE SO CALLED FAT GIRL...if anyone is out there that can help me please do so... I weight 180 right SAD
Reply From Christen, Age 14 - 04/15/02 - IP#: 209.205.148.xxx show message replied to go to original board
hi i am in eight grade and for the last three years i have been gaining weight like crazy. i don't eat that much so i don't know what is wrong. i can relate to how peopel make fun of you. i am also the fat girl but even though people make fun of you it isn't because they don't like you it is because they have things wrong with them too, so if the attention is pulled off them people won't make fun of them. it is not our fault people are cruel most kids are brought up that way. you just have to be the bigger person and walk away. eventually when you and i have grown up and have a really good life, we are going to go to our ten year high school reunion and see all those people who never made anything successful in their lives and we just have to look past the bad things and be nice to them because no matter what, being nice to other people just shows that you don't care about what they... (view more)hi i am in eight grade and for the last three years i have been gaining weight like crazy. i don't eat that much so i don't know what is wrong. i can relate to how peopel make fun of you. i am also the fat girl but even though people make fun of you it isn't because they don't like you it is because they have things wrong with them too, so if the attention is pulled off them people won't make fun of them. it is not our fault people are cruel most kids are brought up that way. you just have to be the bigger person and walk away. eventually when you and i have grown up and have a really good life, we are going to go to our ten year high school reunion and see all those people who never made anything successful in their lives and we just have to look past the bad things and be nice to them because no matter what, being nice to other people just shows that you don't care about what they think of you. that is just how i feel about being big. i know it sounds corny but the first thing about being big is you have to realize that you have a problem, and sometimes, not always you could be one of the people that actually thin out later on down the road. i don't really think i will but hey you never know. if you ever wanna chat my name is christen and i will be on here every sunday and monday. good luck and i hope that you start feeling better about yourself.
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Reply From Katie, Age 6 - 05/01/01 show message replied to go to original board
(Typed by mom) "my sister is real skinny and she calls me fat and other names that make me feel bad. I tried calling her names back but that made me feel bad too and it didn't bother her at all. I tried to just walk away and tell my mom or dad that she did that and how it made me feel. They always try to tell me that I'm a great kid and that people come in all different sizes. At first that didn't make me feel better, but then when I looked around in school, it was right. There were kids all different sizes. Now when my skinny sister calls me fat, I just ignor her and I tell myself that I am a great kid and people come in alkl different sizes. Look around. They really do.
Reply From Adrian, Age 10 - 02/26/01 show message replied to go to original board
I used to be called names too before.I'm nice to others
so they don't call me names anymore like SantaClause.
If that doesn't work walk away and tell a parent.
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