From Krystal, Age 16 - 01/12/03 - IP#: 63.184.105.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Ht. 5'6", Today: 150 lb (BMI %tile: 82) - hey everyone, ya know i just dont understand it, i met this guy on new years because i was driving with my sis and he stopped us to ask for our #, he was soooo hot, it happens alot to me because im really pretty but then i went and hung out with this guy that i met and it went sooo well we totally hit it off, but i think it was only because he couldnt see what my body looked like cause i had a jacket on and then the next time i hung out with him i didnt wear a jacket and i actually let him touch me cause we were making out and i let him touch my stomach.....worst mistake ever, i know he relized i wasnt as hot anymore since i have some chubbs in that area. i hate guys why are they like that i havent talked to him since.i weigh 150 lbs and im 5ft 6in. does anyone want to be weightloss buddies? please help
Reply From Britney, Age 13 - 01/23/03 - IP#: 199.183.75.xxx show message replied to go to original board
hey
Don't feel bad guys can be such jerks.But I know how u feel and it sucks but don't let that put ya down.Cuz even if u don't want to belive it now if the guy is that much of a jerk u don't wnat him n e ways.
if ya wanna talk e-mail me
Chatterbox3218@netscape.net
From *, Age 11 - 01/01/03 - IP#: 205.188.209.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
posting for a friend :: i am in 6th grade and i know a 2nd grader who weighs more than me. i want to help her. she is huge. her belly sags low to the ground and sticks out 5 inches ! she wears 2 sizes bigger than me in clothes. it is disgusting. please help me she is so0o fat ! i want to help her ! post on this one !
Reply From Karen, Age 13 - 01/01/03 - IP#: 208.29.117.xxx show message replied to go to original board
That is nice of you to help her, But you shouldn't say that she is disgusting! That is only going to make her problem worse. If you don't know her very well then maybe you should just stay out of it. But if you do know her then go ahead and help. Just don't call her disgusting. You need to support her, and accept her before you can help her. Good luck
From big guy, Age 15 - 11/30/02 - IP#: 205.188.209.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
im 5-10 and 225 and i cant stop eating since christmas is almost here peple have called me hey santa, because of it. my friends are "genours" to give me the food they don't want(most of it.)Parents (no help there) Mom's love me and feeds me while Dad wants me to lose it. it'sbeen going up and down (from 210 to 225 in 3 weeks)any help?
Reply From Jay, Age 13 - 12/01/02 - IP#: 64.12.96.xxx show message replied to go to original board
My friends i sit with at lunch are the same way. they always give me the food they cant finish or know they wont have time to finish and i would always end up eating it but what i do is just say no thanx when they offer it or take it but dont eat it and throw it out afterwards. as for ure mom just say that ure trying to lose weight and she will probably be cooperative thats wat i did.
From Shayna, Age 12 - 07/22/02 - IP#: 12.255.199.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Hi everyone. I am 12 and 132 lbs. I am short so it makes me look even fatter. I can't ecen cross my legs. I am going into middle school and a girl that said she is my best friend told one of my true friends that she wasn't going to be my friend next year because she is "not going to be seen with a fat cow" as she says. people call me fat, cow, pig, disgusting, elephant, tub of lard, and won of the kids goes around and says "fresh pig, 6.99 a lb." I look at my friends and get so jelous that i come home and cry. Most of my friends fit in size 0-5 junior jeans, i fit in size 14! anyone help me PLEASE! I am going to be a social loser if i dont lose at least 10 lbs. in this next month so help please! Thanks and God bless you all!
Reply From Ashley, Age 13 - 07/24/02 - IP#: 64.12.96.xxx show message replied to go to original board
I thought the same thing going into middle school, and i am now reaching the end of it. What i learned is that, yea, people can be VERY mean, but that's how kids are nowadays, to keep people making fun of them, they make fun of other people. If you try to be friendly, get a new attitude, like yourself, you could be very popular, because in my school, their ARE a couple of big kids that are popular, and they are soo friendly that they make friends with other people to make them popular too. Just think about that, no matter where you go, you will always make friends if you try. If you need something else, e-mail me at Starr110288@aol.com
From nick, Age 14 - 05/07/02 - IP#: 205.188.195.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
HELP im fine my friend is nothe is 8th grade 5 10 and most likely ways over 200 lbs i try to help he keeps changing the subject one day i asked what is weight was he said 130 when i no it is a lie.He is big he wears a XL or XXL shirt and a like 38 pants he says i think 40 42. HE has a huge gut indentation varry notisabele and he dont care at all hge thinks he is 100 % normal. HE goes nearly nude in PE to change the fat hangs out he dont care please help me to help him wat shoul i do or should i leave it alone ????
Reply From Vosha, Age 13 - 05/12/02 - IP#: 166.102.242.xxx show message replied to go to original board
I understand your concerned and everything but maybe hes just a little embaressed to share these figures with you. You should tell him about the risk factors he has since he is overweight and consider to help him. If he isnt already in sports.. you 2 should join something together if your really good friends. Well I hope everything works out and good luck
From kristina, Age 14 - 04/28/02 - IP#: 217.39.39.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Hi everyone,i'm posting this because i'm concerned (sorry can't spell) about my friend Kelly, she's 14 like me,5"1 like me, but she weighs over 300lbs. But i don't think she cares as she doesn't care what she eats. I don't know how to tell her that i worry, she might take it the wrong way. But she does weigh herself (when she feels she's lost weight even though she's not on a diet), i have to help her because she cannot see the scales. 2 weeks ago she weighed 327.Everyone makes fun of her at school and i think it hurts me more than her. Please help me.
Reply From Kate, Age 13 - 04/28/02 - IP#: 67.219.152.xxx show message replied to go to original board
Hey, I am sorry to hear that but there IS something that you can do. Set up a workout plan for yourself and ask if she would like to do it with you. This way you are helping her but not hurting your feelings. And the only other thing to do is too tell her that you worry. Tell her about diabetes and other health problems. If she is a good friend, she will listen to you and take in your concern. Anyway, I hope I have helped! Tell me what happens, ok? My e-mail is soccerchic214@msn.com. Good luck!! Kate
From Elmo, Age 14 - 04/23/02 - IP#: 203.54.204.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Hey. About nine months ago i met this chic and we are verry good best friends. i herd her talking to a friend and she said that if i got some abbs that she would go out wif me!! I really am starting to like her, so can u give me some tipps on getting abbs. Thankx Elmo
Reply From Stephanie, Age 13 - 04/28/02 - IP#: 66.185.84.xxx show message replied to go to original board
You shouldnt lose weight just for a girl. you should fin someone who likes you for who you are, not if you have abs. :)
From Kate, Age 13 - 04/27/02 - IP#: 65.237.224.xxx go to original board
Hey everyone! I just wanted to say that the best thing in the world just happened to me!! I was at my cousins and this hot guy named Eddie was with us. He said he thought that I was hot even though I am not skinny!! I was so happy. That just shows me that even if you are not as skinny as the girl next to you, your still beautiful!! Never give up!!!!! Luv KATE
From Mr WaffleBerry, Age 1 - 04/20/02 - IP#: 193.97.117.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
HELP ME I NEED IT BAD. I AM 174 POUNDS, 5"1". AND I AM SUPPOSED TO WEIGH 110. THERE IS A SCHOOL DANCE AT THE END OF THE YEAR AND I WANT A CUTE GIRL TO GO OUT WITH ME. I GAINED 4 POUNDS IN LIKE 1 WEEK SO HELP!!!!!!!
Reply From Whitney, Age 12 - 04/20/02 - IP#: 64.12.105.xxx show message replied to go to original board
If you want to lose weight don't do it just for the girl. You have to do it for you. I know that sounds really stupid but everytime i tried to lose weight for this one guy i liked i'd get mad at him and gained all the weight back. So do it for you and you alone. If you ever want to talk or something e-mail me at GlitterBabe@aol.com
From Michelle, Age 13 - 02/11/02 - IP#: 62.254.0.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Hi ppl! My name is Michelle and I've got this massive problem (massive being the apppropiate word!). I'm 13yrsold and obese 'cos I weigh in at 160lbs-170lbs. I feel so fat and to make it worse, my best friends are soo skinny and totally unsupportive of my weight. I really would like advice on dieting and a dieting pal. I don't care if ur gal/boy, any age or any size. My e-mail is M_J_CHAPMAN@YAHOO.CO.UK. Thanks alot! P.s. why do skinny people think that if your'e heavy, your'e unfit? I can run as fast if not faster than most of them! xxxx
Reply From allisa, Age 13 - 02/13/02 - IP#: 68.13.169.xxx show message replied to go to original board
well first the reson skinny people aren't really supportive is because, well if they are your freinds, they don't want to talk about it. since they are skinny they don't know what it is like being bigger. so they just don't say anything at all. they could say the wrong thing with out knowing it and hurt your feelings. so if u want them to be supportive, let them know it is ok to talk about your weight problem and it won't hurt your feelings. maybe they will be more open mindin about it if u tell them that. and the reson why some people think that over weight people aren't fit is cuzz well some times over weight people aren't fit. it is very unusul to find one that is.
From Alice, Age 13 - 09/05/01 - IP#: 213.123.122.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
My friend is overweight, occording to the site calculator thingy (She is 13, is about 4foot 6inches and weighs 112lbs) I think she is perfect the way she is, but lately she has been getting really depressed. I need to cheer her up, but I don't know how to go about it - I think that I might hurt her feelings. Can anyone suggest what I should do?...Talk to her?...Not talk to her?...Ignore her?...Tell her she looks great?...Please help!!
Reply From Maggie, Age 13 - 09/07/01 - IP#: 24.222.160.xxx show message replied to go to original board
I think you need to help your friend. Do you go to McDonald's sometimes or another greasy food place together? Next time, go to Subway or a healthy alternative. When you want to go out and do something, you can ride your bike, go for walks, whatever you like! You can make the difference in her life...
Reply From maggie, Age 13 - 08/28/01 - IP#: 24.222.160.xxx show message replied to go to original board
It's good you are concerned about your friend! Well things you could do with her to help her would be instead of going to a movie and munching on snacks, go biking or roller blading. My friends and I go biking all the time and it's really fun! You can also go to the gym together, play some games of basketball or whatever other sport. Just try to add some exercise into her life, and stay away from fast food restaurants! Good luck! :)
From Stephanie, Age 14 - 02/23/01 - IP#: 206.65.190.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
I am 14 and weigh about 200-10 pounds. I need to know how to lose this holiday fat (i gained about 20 pounds since November, don't know how..) I cannot fit into the clothes we bought 2 weeks ago. EMBARASSING STORY ALERT! Have you ever ripped every seam and button off your favorite shirt? I was in a friend's room changing into my fav outfit- capri pants and a pink/blue camouflage shirt. My stomach was bulging out of my brand new capris already, so i chose the long top to try to cover it. Fat was rolling over the top, so I pulled them up higher. I went to put the shirt on, I noticed it was a little snug in the arms. When I went to button it, I thought my mom had shrunken the shirt because it didn't fit right. After buttoning all the buttons, I bent over to pick up my other clothes, the whole shirt burst into shreds with buttons flying! At the same time, my friend's twin sister walked in and thought i was a stranger. She knocked my unconscious without a shirt on. Then their snobby older sister came in and poked and prodded my stomach, which had made the zipper and button come undone. When i woke up, there was a note on my huge belly. "Lose weight, fat bitch! You made the house shake, and the ground sink. No wonder you can't fit into your clothes! I looked at your food records! 200 pounds is fat for your age! Go eat your 200 course meals!" I never went there again. I have since gained weight because of depression, and tried everything to keep it off, but just gain more. Now when I see Krystal in the halls she says "Boom, Boom, Boom. Here comes another earthquake!", "Baby wanna twinkie?", and "Jiggle Steph, Jiggle who? Jiggle Steph, Jiggle who?". ANOTHER STORY! Have you ever heard the parody of "thong song", "Please don't wear that thong"? I was at a pool party that I really didn't want to be @, but my crush was there so I went. We were all jamming to the "thong song", and he changed the song. All of a sudden we heard "Stephanie this is for you." I thought it was sweet, since he had been casually staring at me, and passing me sweet notes at school. "OOH, THAT DRESS TOO SMALL 4 U, LOOKS LIKE YOU GAINED ANOTHER POUND OR 2... YOU LIKE TO EAT AT ALL THE ICE CREAM SHOPS, THEN YOU CRUISE TO THE MALL FOR SOME DIPPIN DOTS... I HATE TO TELL YOU BUT I TOLDJA SO, BEEN WATCHING THAT TUMMY GROW... SHE HAD A BIG OL BUTT, BUTT, BUTT, THIGHS LIKA TRUCK (3X), BIG FAT GUT, PLEASE DON'T WEAR THAT THONG"... i burst into tears, and went home... eating in my depression 6 Zingers, 10 twinkies, and 50 packs of kit kats. HELP
Reply From Ashley, Age 12 - 03/11/01 show message replied to go to original board
I know what it's like. My own cousin teases me about my wait. Instead of taking what people tell you and eating go out and run or do some physical activity. When you have the urge to eat think about the mean things your friends have said and close the refridgerator. It soulds weird but it works. The hardest thing for me was cutting out the candy and ice cream but now I am losing weight. For meals eat Healthy choice stuff. Only eat when you are absolutly hungry. If you want more detailed stuff e-mail me at adavies@writeme.com.
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