wow...you are so right. So many people try to please others before they please themselves. I wish more people were more confident, and could say that. I lost weight so guys would notice me more. I did, and they noticed me. But the thing is, im sorry i did it. I should've realized that if they couldnt deal with the way i was, then they weren't the a person i wanted to spend time with. For any of you guys or girls who are losing weight to impress others, believe me, its not worth it. Yes, you will get more attention in the dating department, but at this point, it doesnt matter what anyone else thinks of you.