we'll always have insecurities though, and just becasue you're at your goal weight doesn't necesarily mean you'll have the body of a model. i think people are happy depending on their personality, but i think bigger people can look pretty though if you're bigger(like me) you won't necesarily see it in yourself. but if you're uncomfortable being that big shopping and just doing something active- yes you should lose the weight, and extra weight will not make you happy!