Hi ashley, i'm the same way as you. i'm 13 and i weigh from 156lbs to 164lbs. one way to lose a little of weight is to eat canned fruit and vegetables or don'[t think about your weight and just enjoy life. i feel since i am overweight that i won't get my crush as my boyfriend, but i found out he likes me for who i am, not for what i look like. so my advice to you is to have a positive attitude and act confident around people.