hey, i was overweight too, i am here to lose only a little now b\c i am trying to reach my goal weight, but the ppl here are nice and i like them, so i will still come on no matter what. i want to give tips out and to help ppl too, there is no problem, for "the skinny " ppl they are telling you that they really don't care about ur weight, they care a bout you and making you happy!!!