i agree with you i think most ppl here hav a serously messed up self image. i swear, most ppl should figure thing out like that. and those pplust look lucky ya'll b\c there problems u can't SEE! if someone tells u some thing like that just ignore them, they are probably doing it di feel better about there own problems which believe it or not may be a LOT worse then urs!!!! i know this b\c i listen. i am overweight too, but there are ppl who are just lucky, i bet most of ur problems besides that ur overweight are nothing, and i know that b\c, i had a LOT WORSE problems when i was really overweight, but really guys, ignore them, then talk about it w\ a friend who will understand!! it worked 4 me, and can work 4 n e 1 else!!!