Melissa, hon...don't say that about yourself...you think you're fat I am 247 pounds so you're barbie compared to me...lol You just have to tell yourself you're gorgeous and that other people are insane! lol jk! And way, look at yourseld in the mirror and tell yourself that you are gorgeous and try not to eat so much, keep yourself busy and excericise...I would recomend the Weight Watchers diet...it's funm easy and it's yummy! lol I lost 35 pounds on it, but was dumb and gained that and more back, but it's what's on the inside that counts and I know you're gorgeous babe it's the personality, if ya want to keep in touch you can E-mail me pineapplepride88@aol.com Good luck and I love ya!