I know he may seem old to you but I am almost 18 years old and that means he is only 2years older than me. You have to realize that both older and younger teens can come to this site. How do we know you are not 42? And I really don't see why this is such a problem, he was 19 only a year ago! He has helped me lose 4 pounds since last Thursday. I really don't want him to leave. This site is not a hang out for teens - it is a place for people to help other people lose weight and that is what James is doing. And by the way - how did you come up with 42 as an age? Most people who make up an old age would say a number like 40,45,50,55 and so on. Unless you are 42 and that is the reason the number poped into your mind? It doesn't feel good for people to assume things that are not true - does it?