Yes, its a sad reality, the way you look is what a guy is first attracted to. I wish men would grow up. People always say: but I bet you wouldnt want to go out with a fat guy but heloo most girls who are rejected are normal weight! I would prefer to go out with a well built guy then a stick who could snap if i touched him. Dont let it get to you, they all have to grow up in the end cause no one looks like a model (except models of course and even then they are ugly without make up!)