i can imagine how you feel!!ive noticed just getting things off my mind(such as weight) by listening to music, and other things that keep me preoccupied help me stop thinking about it and then i dont worry and if that works ull feel more confident about yourself!and believe me u arnt REALLY overweight but i no that losing SOME weight will help u feel good about yourself and if u lose that, hey, mayb u can lose more to feel even moooore good about yurself!!hope i helped!!even just a little bit!!well goood luck!hope u feel better bout yurself!bye hon!