Well hello there. I am not very over weight, but I do know how it feels to be in that position. I don't respect your "advice" or opinions because this is a website to HELP people feel and look better. You may think your being helpful and kind, but you are actually being insultive. Why would a 29 year old be in a TEEN site anyways. Go take your own adive and worry about yourself and your life rather than being insultive towards teens. Later loser.