I know exactly what you mean, but one other thing, next time you are out in town on a weekend, look around you at all the girls and women who are part of a couple. You will see that they are all different shapes and sizes!!!! So it must be possible and different boys must like different sizes! I don't know how it happens though!! But I told my brother (he is 19) what you said because he always has slimmish girlfriends and he said that a girl could have either a pretty face or a great body, it doesn't need to be both! But he also said that last summer when he was working on a children's camp (he is a student) there was a girl who was chubby and not particularly pretty and at first he wasn't interested in her, then as he was working with her and he got to know how much fun and interesting she was, he started to really like her, and he asked her on a date but she said no!!! (He is quite good-looking). So anyways that is just my thoughts on what youh said but it seems like there is always hope!!!!