hey ..., I know just how u feel. I had a similar thing happen to me- I've started losing weight (9 lbs in 6 days) on a program. the guy (i was in 8th grade) goes to my high school and one of my goals is to walk by him and just make him check me out again... but he was a jerk and im never going back to him ive got better friends now /lol! Good Luck! p.s.- don't starve yourself. I tried, lost 20 lbs and a week later rocketed 40 lbs up to 160. it wasn't fun, and i got all those nasty strech marks...