Yeah! I know what ya mean!! just...don't try not eating less. um... here! try eating just as much as u do, but instead of eating junk, eat apples, salads, fruit...etc. eat healthier stuff! That is wut i do! :-) then u wont be worrying bout how others r eating and u dont wanna cuz u dont wanna get more weight in ya. u will be eating healthier, and that ALWAYS helps!