i know the way u guys r feeling. i never had a boyfriend up until a year ago. i blamed that on being fat because im 220lbs and thought no guy could ever like me. i decided i hated feeling sorry for myself and to look like i didnt care about my weight and b confident even if i wasnt. well it worked and i have the most gorgeous boyfriend who is a fitness instructer & doesnt care about my weight. people send out vibes and men arent attracted 2 negative vibes. if you make the effort you will get a boyfriend....good luck....xxx