this is from two days ago, but i thought id reply anyways, i think its excellent that your friends and boyfriend dont have a problem with it, thats not the kind of motivation you need is the negative kind. if they love you, you should have them support you. but i understand how you still wanna loose weight for yourself, just to boost confidence or feel better about yourself in general. my friends and family dont have a problem with me, and i dont get teased or whatnot, but their still reallly supportive, while still saying that no matter what they'll still love me. but, some advice? lots liquids, and the good kind like water and fruit juice, avoid carbonated drinks that are all sugary, at least 30 minutes of excercise a day, stay away from carbs and fatty stuff. see ya later.