Um..tuffluv or w/e ur name is...dont say that to him, everybody complains. People always think they have something wrong with them, they may think they are fat, ugly or w/e . I use to complain all the time to people about me being fat/ugly , and now they wont tlk to me cause i complained too much. I learned it the hard way so let him do w/e he wants to cont. doing, if he wants it bad enough, he will atleast try his best.