I know..some people make fun of other people who are overweight..i dont think thats right because somtimes its not our fault that were overweight.And your cousin..he sounds pretty rude..if he said that to me id just feel like beating him up!!but thats not the right thing to do either hehe..my bmi thing is 25.6 i hope thats not bad :( Good luck with your weight loss!:D remember to drink lots of water! (or crystal light like i do because i cant stand water hehe)