Unfortunatly, you are right. Most girls in middle school are so conceeded that they think if they are seen with an ugly guy or a fat guy, then they will be considered a loser. But their are some girls in middle school that don't go for looks tottaly. First you got to feel better about yourself. That's the only way to make this work! And to make yourself keep feeling better, you have to know, the most you can loose in a week is 2 pounds, which most people don't loose, so this isn't going to be a one month miracle thing happening here! Just go with the regular things you heard before, to get a flat stomach, do crunches, situps, walk to loose all around fat, drink ONLY water. Cut every fattening thing that you eat in half, eat that half, then save the rest for later. And in a couple of months, i think you will feel better about yourself, no only in your apperance, but that you believed in yourself and you can do almost anything you put your mind to. If you need help, then e-mail me at Starr110288@aol.com