hey, im exactly the same as u, i have flabs to, and i cant loose weight :( its awful aye. to get rid of flabs do siyups, cos they titin ur abs, and strenthin ur stomach, eat betta and exercise reguarly, stay away from fatty foods, and maybe b creative with ur food, by cooking a vegerterian salad, or nethang! if u wanna talk or ask me ne questions, email me nicole_babe50@hotmail.com