Hi Sweetie, first of all please don't be so upset. That isn't good. What would you want to weigh? What is your ideal weight goal or clothes size? If it is a realistic one then more power to you. You don't have to be 100lbs. overweight to feel fat. I myself need to lose about 35 and a friend of mine needs to lose 85 so everybody is different. Reply if you want. I am also a parent of an overweighter. Anyway, just wanted to let you know there are people out there who care. :)