Beth, thats EXACTLY how I feel. I hang out in the "jock" crowd, and they're always talking about their soccer games and stuff. I just feel so left out. I recently have been trying to lose weight for summer too. Look around the blubberbuster website and especially the bulletin board. All of the pages of the older kids bulletin board are filled with very usefull advice. Also you can go look at the success page. Good luck! I hope we both reach our goals!