Hey Blake.. My mother recently lost 45 lbs while working with a group called TOPS.. I was really happy for her and everything since I am also overweight. I am bigger than my mother too and sometimes she yells at me. I know she loves me and everything and your parents do too. Size shouldnt and DOESNT matter.. its the inside that counts. Dont let anyone tell you different.If you arent already active in sports that is one piece of advice I can give. I am looking for a weight-watching buddy.. If you are interested please email me at basketball_chic@angelfire.com and GOOD LUCK