Hey gurl, I know how you feel. I am always comparing myself to other girls but you know its just NOT worth it. I eat VERY healthy and I try to exersize about every other day. It works!! Also try getting food that is fat free or low fat. I know it sounds disgusting but it is really good stuff. And don't feel like all is lost if you eat something not healthy. It is good to sometimes eat unhealthy, because it stops your cravings. But the most important thing is to not give in!! Believe in yourself!!! Tell me how it goes. Mt e-mail is soccerchic214@msn.com. ok? GOOD LUCK!!! LUV KATE