Hey well if u really think u need to get abbs so she'll like u then go ahead, but she should really look at you for who you are and not what ur body is. i would suggest u do situps everynight for around 1/2 hour and drink lots of water. stay away from fat foods and excercise (bike rides, walks, jogs, basketball) this worked for me, but instead of doing it to please ur soon to be girlfriend, do it to please yourself as well.